i think u shd play him and get the green card, but be careful cos he might be using the green card scope to keep fucking you 4 free. what i mean is that he might not have a plan of getting the green card for you in the first place and could just be staging you. any how good luck

You need prayers fast

Why are you people so crude and crass?

How are you so sure she's even sleeping with the slowpoke?

What makes u think the dude is ready to take u to America?

Yes he promised you that he'll do so but have u ever considered the fact that he may be lying to u

Since he hasn't really been honest with u from the get go.

Listen, this guy is just messing around with u so i suggest u hit the nail hard on the head and move on
before he sends u a letter stating that he's getting married the following week and u're INVITED!!!.

Men are Dangerous, i know, i am one.

@ seun,
i support you guy. the same is just happening to me, but my bf`s own is that the dad is implementing, forcing him to marry a girl he has not seen due to the agreement the dad had with one man.
@poster,
girl you have to be wise and make use of your brain. i dumped my bf and i have somebody that is even more better to him in all things. he promised of making my papers to there but i acted fast, if he makes the papers fine but i advice you to take seuns suggestions.NO MAN/WOMAN WORTH YOUR FUTURE, My girl be wise and forget him.

na by force, plz stop reffering to theman as ur boyfirend, ok?

babe shine ur eyes wetin go be go be.

If because he is playing you you want to turn around and play him then i guess you should also get prepared for more from him. The game will continue and you become worse for it. There's no place where two wrongs make a right.
Just forget about him and tread a new path.

play along with him, but don't do anything stupid who knows he might change his mind.

Just leave am o because won fe gba ni o, so quickly find your square root and move on with your life b4 its 2 late Ok?

Pele, Olorun afi ofo ra emi pada o.

Thanks
papa

wots yours is yours .If you have doubts now its beta you back out before you get really hurt.Rather than live in Self Denial let him go because with the whole distrust and all, you definitely will not be too happy.He's not the last man on earth and when you end it now you'll have enough time to heal and find someone else.
If you sha want to play along and, chop, if u feel you are strong emotionally what the hell.
Good luck.

It's a tricky 1 u av here.Shine ur eyes gurl.

If you're sure about what you're saying, why come to this forum at all? Reassurance? You don't need that! Justification for whatever course you decide on? Heck, people'll jusitfy even suicide on this forum! Don't assume anything. Confrontation seems necessary. Inevitable to maintain your integrity and keep your sanity. Why LovePeddler yourself to him - or make him gigolo to you (as the case may be)?

My take? If he's yours and you're sure, hold on tight and don't let go (not to cramp his space nor squeeze the life out of him though). If he's all wrong, then he's all wrong. Scram! As if your life depends on it.

And don't look back. Remember Lot's wife . . . . . .

Kill this thread!