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Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Seun4blue(m): 10:20pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Honestly that guy doesn't know he's wrong. He was made to believe that women are slaves. please you need to correct him either orally or materially. He will never forget what you are about to teach him FOR GOOD |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Obica: 10:21pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
What will you prove by beating her? that you are stronger than her? or that you have taught her lesson?, I am actually speechless at your confidence discussing domestic violence in this manner. I am the only son of my dad and i have 3 sisters, that is why your statements get to me. And i guess i am also feeling so disgusted because i am in law enforcement. I don't know if you are based in Nigeria or outside Nigeria, but statements like this are what gets you in trouble in the future. My sincere advice to you is simple, change your attitude towards women, or one day, you may find yourself at the receiving end of a very dangerous episode. Fuckthamods: 7 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Midas01: 10:26pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
You must be very very mad and I'm here to tell you. Now listen. If you're not a woman, never ever speak on women affairs especially when you don't know shiiit about it. Have you experienced menstrual pain before ? Menstrual pain has landed me on the hospital bed three times in my life and I'm not the only one. I got to later find out that lots of other women are like that even some of my friends. Infact you're just a slowpoke there's no need explaining anything to you. OgunLaakaye: 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Nobody: 10:30pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Midas01: So your husband/boyfriend is mandated to fast every month? God have mercy! menstrual cramps will start denying men food. When you now get pregnant, 9 months fast will begin Can imagine that thing you call a man would have lost weight. Just release him and let him go back to his parents house. 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by purples25(f): 10:40pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Fuckthamods: You are not feeling any pain, not for a day. That is why you can open your mouth and call everything rubbish. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Justbehave(m): 10:43pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
purples25:So who was pounding the pepper before he came? Let's agree she only have such pains during her period? Or she doesn't cook during those period? |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by kingsceedon(m): 10:49pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Abetterperson: Make una send him back to his family, asap 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by kushme: 11:00pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Abetterperson: Feminism producing stubborn idiots. You better drop that mentality if you truly want to be Abetterperson.. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Fuckthamods: 11:05pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
[s] Obica:[/s] Too weak.. You can never be in law enforcement else you jeopardize your squad because of woman 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by 30naira: 11:23pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Abetterperson: This is the greatest come back of the century. ![]() |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by MummyD2020(f): 11:29pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Iyaebe: When u are burdened with chores, or caring for an infant and a toddler, you will not know when u will ask ur hubby 'honey what did u cook'. Anybody can cook oh. No go kill urself o when u cant imagine a man doing chores. They only pretend. They can improvise with full speed when the chips are down. Na wayo full their head. As for Op's cousin, the mum has bred a demon and i pity the wife. 4 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by purples25(f): 11:36pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Justbehave: OK, let me even take it personal. I'm on my period, yet I went to work today. I was busy from seven till five thirty, and when I got home, my mother insulted me for sitting down, I had to get up and cook. Generally for years now e no consign anybody, I will say I'm on my period yet they will urge me to get up and cook. Nobody says sit down, you must be feeling pains, don't cook today. If my mother mistakenly enters the kitchen I'm in soup. All these may seem normal but honestly, it is not good. How do you expect the woman to feel? Or are you just catching cruise here? Lol. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by MummyD2020(f): 11:38pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Fuckthamods: Remember he is not even in his house.. How do u now suggest he should beat the gal? Meaning he must have used blows and kicks on both his sisters and mum 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Beey(f): 11:42pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Abetterperson:Hahaa that’s my girl. Zero tolerance for foolishness. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by MummyD2020(f): 11:42pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
descarado: It will even help becos you dont know how tomorrow will be, but u use that as survival. But people's ignorance, arrogance and foolish pride will make dem suffer unnecessarily 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Beey(f): 11:45pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Ammishaddai:But he shouldn’t be flexing his masculinity in people’s homes. He should show his masculinity & stupidity in his own house or better still get a woman to boss around & yell at. Nonsense. 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Fuckthamods: 11:47pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
MummyD2020:It's senseless to include mum.. How can a sane person beat mum? ![]() As long she's younger than him then the guy should beat her well, she lacks respect. |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Fuckthamods: 11:49pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
OgunLaakaye:That's why many of them will remain single or get married to a useless weakling |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by UCHIHAmask: 12:45am On Oct 12, 2021 |
wunmi590:I don't care much about the OP's story but your statement got me.... Your wife cooks and you clean the kitchen,is she pregnant?do you leave outside Nigeria?do you watch lots of Hollywood? That isn't a way to play romance or show your care,it's a bit unmanly if you do it for reasons outside the one I mentioned, believe it or not,you are spurning subconscious negativity in her,there are things we see as meaningless that might have subtle implications in a long run(psychology).. I tell you,no normal woman in this world wants her man to be unmanly,you should help out only when situation calls...... Liking cleanliness isn't a thing,some wifes wouldn't even allow you do it,I love cooking and I do it for my roommate whom I 'm far older than but when I go home I don't cook for my own junior siblings because,you know why!! and when I do cook,I mockingly let them know that It just for fun,yet I'm the best brother in the world.. 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Graxie(f): 3:24am On Oct 12, 2021 |
UCHIHAmask: Mothers failed God and humanity. To think Rebecca son Esau could cook but her most beloved deceiver son Jacob couldn't. Since then, many mothers have been destroying their sons. Just imagine reasoning and we have more mothers applauding this. Cleaning your kitchen unmanly? What won't I read. It means we only have manly men in Nigeria. Every western, Asia and European men are unmanly. 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by sharone21(f): 4:27am On Oct 12, 2021 |
UCHIHAmask:Wrongest mentality... Women even see men who help out a lot as being more sexy... Funny enough na men of no class usually carry this issue of helping women for head. Real men don't argue this even when they are the BREAD WINNERS. |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Obica: 4:28am On Oct 12, 2021 |
I don't have more to say to you. Be well. Fuckthamods: 1 Like |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by ume1000: 6:01am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Trojan8:have been in that cousin shoes before and can bodly tell u that *Op never liked the cousin *She may be the one ordering him around * She feels he is entitled to do all the house chores since his parent are struggling financially * "My mom would support him"statement shows she and her mother would love to turn him into a slave but there is a strong recistance from the father * Op is a spoilt brat who takes advantages of his cousin financial issues to order him around * Op must have insulted the said cousin at least twice today |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Pat081: 6:03am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Op you are the problem of yourself if it is me I will always find someone to visit wen it is time for afternoon or evening food I will not care who cook the food and you don't tell us maybe you are the only gal in the house and if the guy too don't have sister because I don't know why someone will come to another person place and b doing like boss |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by ume1000: 6:12am On Oct 12, 2021 |
rushlife:you just proved you are an idiot |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Ushman333: 6:18am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Calm down he is staying with his aunt, it's not your house. |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Trojan8(m): 7:03am On Oct 12, 2021 |
ume1000:. See the way you asserted rubbish while ignoring every single points she raised. Look at the facts first. There's absolutely no reason for this cousin to feel entitled in a house that is not his. He should go to his father's house or get a place of his own. Better still, hire a cook if he can't cook. How much is he contributing to the family that he doesn't deem it fit to enter the kitchen when he's hungry? Reverse this scenario and the cousin was a female. You won't be typing all this rubbish that you have written. 3 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by MSGAMBLE9: 7:04am On Oct 12, 2021 |
sharone21:when a woman calls dude "real men", then know you are a "Big Wimp"... Nonsense. |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Nobody: 7:05am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Abetterperson:Bible said such a man is an infidel, then he is not a man either. He is a boy |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Trojan8(m): 7:06am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Elidrisy20: He isn't, so why should she slave for him? God forbid this logic 2 Likes |
Re: My Cousin refuses to do any house chores because he's a guy by Nobody: 7:52am On Oct 12, 2021 |
Abetterperson:I'm very sure he's on the forum, with an opinion on how women are leeches and what not. 1 Like |
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