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What Should I Do? by Truvelisback(m): 1:40pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Good day Nairalanders. My boss gave me a gift today. I accepted the gift even though i do not like and want the gift. I would have rejected the gift but i don't want him to feel bad or have mixed feelings. And i do not want to take this gift home. What should i do? Should i have rejected the gift? |
Re: What Should I Do? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Give me the gift |
Re: What Should I Do? by Sonnobax15(m): 1:54pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
The gift no get name? 1 Like
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Re: What Should I Do? by Richy4(m): 1:57pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Could you explain why U do not like the gift?... Is it the kind of Gift that raises eyebrows considering the fact that you did not want to take it home...Please don't tell me she bought you a car |
Re: What Should I Do? by Conner44: 1:59pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback: Is your boss gay? Did he gift you a dil.do? Did he add some lube in the package? Open it and check first so we know if he is a wicked somebody or not before we can advise you accordingly. 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? by Truvelisback(m): 2:00pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Sonnobax15:u want to know right? I will tell u. He gave me Some of his clothes. |
Re: What Should I Do? by mariahAngel(f): 2:01pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback: Start by telling us the reason you (think) were offered the gift and why you don’t want to accept it. |
Re: What Should I Do? by Truvelisback(m): 2:02pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Beebah2000:It isn't transferable otherwise i would have done so. 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? by Conner44: 2:02pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback: Oh okay that’s a small matter naw. Accept it happily and then take it to a Catholic Church near you and donate it to their Saint Vincent de Paul’s society. God bless you 4 Likes |
Re: What Should I Do? by mariahAngel(f): 2:07pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback: Why would he think you’d want his worn clothes? You should’ve politely turned it down. Or was it that you initially did not know they were old clothes? 1 Like |
Re: What Should I Do? by Truvelisback(m): 2:16pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
mariahAngel:Let me honest here 1. I do not find the gift pleasant. 2. I'm not comfortable accepting the gift or using it. If it were something pleasant to me, i wouldn't have bothered abt it. |
Re: What Should I Do? by Truvelisback(m): 2:22pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
mariahAngel:They were old clothes. I didn't expect it from him. He is the type that has good rapports with his staffs. We chat together and joke together too. If no be told u he is my boss, u won't know. |
Re: What Should I Do? by Truvelisback(m): 2:26pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Richy4:I don't find the gift pleasant. |
Re: What Should I Do? by Justbehave(m): 2:39pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback:You have not answered her question. Let me simplify it for you. Are you sure you dresses well to work? Do you put on particular cloth to work all the time? Something must have prompted his act. |
Re: What Should I Do? by Foodqueen(f): 3:02pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Ur boss is here. He has seen this. |
Re: What Should I Do? by Sonnobax15(m): 3:07pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback:mtcheewww
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Re: What Should I Do? by seankafor(m): 3:27pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
And he will now be expecting you to be wearing those clothes now If he doesn't see the clothes on you for long, he might notice you didn't make use of it . Shaa wear the clothe once in a while and do with it what you want aftermath |
Re: What Should I Do? by Truvelisback(m): 3:41pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Justbehave:I do. I think he did that because of how close we were. We eat together, chat together etc. We are just like a family. |
Re: What Should I Do? by Justbehave(m): 3:43pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback:Then he is just like a father figure to you. Nothing is wrong with his kind gesture except you are suspecting a foul play |
Re: What Should I Do? by Truvelisback(m): 3:50pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Justbehave:Note: Aside that, i'm an introvert, Yes. I rarely trust people. If it were something like money or other related gift or something new, i would have accepted it. And do not find the gift pleasant. The major reason i rejected the clothes is because of the poor state of the clothes. If i even carry the clothes go house, na rag i go use am do. |
Re: What Should I Do? by Justbehave(m): 3:51pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback: |
Re: What Should I Do? by Justbehave(m): 4:28pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback:Ok. I understand now. |
Re: What Should I Do? by mariahAngel(f): 4:48pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Truvelisback: What if he's looking to see you wear them to work? Would you wear any of them just to please him, even if it's just once? |
Re: What Should I Do? by Truvelisback(m): 6:32pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
mariahAngel:I won't. As i am talking, i didn't take them home. I'm just wondering what his reaction will be. |
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