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Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by KiNg0G: 6:09am On Oct 14, 2021 |
ClassicMan202: If person dey talk bad about you for your back you go like am? So you won tell me say the guy brother not get any good side... well senseless fool like you nor go understand. 3 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Nobody: 6:37am On Oct 14, 2021 |
KiNg0G:Rain will fall the day you'll contribute wisely to a complex situation, I'm looking forward to that.Hope you heeded to my warning to stop fighting Mart...z on the redpill thread. 4 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by KiNg0G: 6:40am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Iyaebe:Rozcol bitçh, your toto don dey vomit smelling water this morning. |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Nobody: 6:52am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Unfortunately the problem here is your mother! Not every child is meant to have common sense factory fitted. I have same issue with my immediate elder brother. Unmarried, 40, eating from my mother’s pot. Mind you I already have 2 kids. I agree life is not competition though. I never returned home, the moment I graduated, not because I would be chased out, but because I was ready to face life. He will not get serious because he does not want to leave his area of comfort and face the challenges of paying the attending bills life begins to throw at him, and your mother just like mine has aided and abetted him thinking it’s mother’s love. My mother cannot just stop. Your best bet is to encourage him to get married, which I intend doing for my bro when I arrive in December, I already asked him to introduce his fiancée to me when I arrive for Xmas. A wife would most prolly ensure they get their place, he has bills to shoulder hence he becomes financially responsible. As for dubious dealings, that maybe factory follow come. 11 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Help2020: 7:21am On Oct 14, 2021 |
helinues:You clearly didn't read the post. 2 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Tunde835(m): 7:37am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Human herd behavior 4 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Chrisgod001(m): 7:57am On Oct 14, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642:From all the things he said this is what you could understand. Post like this is meant for mature people just rest abeg. 7 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by HeyHey(f): 7:57am On Oct 14, 2021 |
The ball is in your parents court. Especially if he is troublesome, no put body. Bc you are acting on what they told you, but they cannot tell him personally. Na you them they push go front to go fight their battle so, if your skin no full better no put body. I’m a lawyer, and today so, I Dey go court because my clients wants a restraining order against their first son for similar troubling behavior. though the guy is 42, and issue him pops several blows, but na small small like this he start 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by HeyHey(f): 7:58am On Oct 14, 2021 |
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Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by DaddyRochie1642: 8:02am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Chrisgod001: Oga I want it to pepper you very well |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 8:15am On Oct 14, 2021 |
frozen70:Yes I do know, thank you so much for this wonderful piece of advice |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 8:17am On Oct 14, 2021 |
bmasz:Yeah, its been confirmed . We're all genetically our parents . So that one isn't an issue.Thank you |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 8:23am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:He has even defended his thesis , funny a thing he's very intelligent and has no problems with academics 1 Like |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Morgan9(m): 8:24am On Oct 14, 2021 |
virginprincess: All this things u just mentioned wont change him .. That is character is inbuilt I have an elder brother that behave exactly like him in my family.. Everyone has given up on him we are just waiting to hear he has died so that we can bury him.. 7 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Kobojunkie: 8:31am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso:So why would he listen to you folks tell him anything else? He needs to be let go so life can have a go at him. 1 Like |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Morgan9(m): 8:33am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Tunde835: Ur understanding is very shallow 10 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Tunde835(m): 8:43am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Morgan9:Ive done several research on this topic. One of the draw backs of high intelligence is that people perceive you as different and they label you a weirdo or a freak. Even nikola tesla complained that with all he has done for mankind that all he got was insults. That was what happened to jesus, the jews hated him and in the end he was killed. What is happening to your brother is happening to many people too. Even their own family prosecute them. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Maxwell4404(m): 8:45am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Make una use am for sacrifice, 2 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Kobicove(m): 8:47am On Oct 14, 2021 |
What you have is a deadbeat brother 1 Like |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by vickydevoka(m): 8:48am On Oct 14, 2021 |
If na gal write this thing,. I no go take am seriously. If a lady contribute 100 Naira to anything, or give her husband food for 2 days,de whole world will hear of it. I'm speechless I don't take vagina people seriously. N since I stop taking them serious, my love has been better |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Sterope(f): 8:50am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Blame your parents. They tolerated and are still tolerating his excesses. 2 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Lastmankc(m): 8:50am On Oct 14, 2021 |
This is where DNA test comes to play.Investigation should be carried out instantly. |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Yhummer619(m): 8:51am On Oct 14, 2021 |
pray for him nd also maybe he shuld get married if he is not |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by vickydevoka(m): 8:52am On Oct 14, 2021 |
BonPatrick:Stop that. Nobody is useless completely as my dad use to say 3 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by DrDax: 8:53am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso: It's not your job to worry about his state of mind. When HIS PARENTS are tired of him, they would do the needful. Face your front. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by davit: 8:53am On Oct 14, 2021 |
The thing with being a first child sha! Most firstborns are just kinda useless! 1 Like |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by Mybrotheralso: 8:53am On Oct 14, 2021 |
princeeze1:Lol, you wrote nicely.But my mom is not the one enabling him ,it is actually my dad who didnt want him to stay alone on his own before , because if he stays on his own he will lavish his money and still demands to be sent money whereas he's actually doing a business. Now my dad is ready to let him go face his life but he hasn't left yet 4 Likes |
Re: My 35 Year Old Brother Is Still A Trouble To My Parents and siblings by 15ssDRIVE(m): 8:53am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Mybrotheralso: The answer is, make the difference. May God provide forsake sure you show the difference,he might learn from you and be the best brother. |
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