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Re: Bored In Marriage by AlhajaChinyere: 12:21pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Czario: Baba, please talk to me. I have exactly the same problem- the wrong spec. I can’t get it up for her. Yet when I get to joint, I get hard pass firewood Nice woman but we are both miserable like hell but she refusing divorce cause of what people will say 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Polynek(m): 12:21pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
U ll get over it na time em go take 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by muyico(m): 12:26pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
My guy divorce ha
and join me on d strit
im 34 and happily single
marriage is a slavery bondage |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Nobody: 12:27pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
malvisguy212:so true bro ..am married now 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by humilitypays(m): 12:28pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44:You miss welcoming different chicks in your house and fvcking them as they give you different ringing tones, every guy that married before the age of 37 feels this You will be seeing hot hot chicks every corner you go like say they just woke up after you got married Honestly, naturally, majority of men arent born to be tied to one woman, I just wished our modern ladies understood this natural trait in men and not make trouble about it. What you are feeling is normal, it has nothing to do with your wife, you just miss the freedom of having different chicks around as a single guy, thats all 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by emonis88: 12:28pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Ok! If this story na true o! Make e no be say somebody just dey whine us for here Sha! First my guy marriage na beautiful thing , so explore all the beautiful things weh dey there, no dey put too much mind there, do ur business, runs, go do ur thing , just no let am too much, come to ur young wife n make her feel like a woman, she might complain say u dey do this, do that just let her know say na ur biz runs, u can go out with her n also make her know say una still young but na once in awhile o! No over do am. Na because u dey too concentrate on the fact that u r married na im dey make u bored about the whole thing. Just concentrate on ur biz, later when u start having kids u il know d joy of coming home to ur wife and kids. N then sef u no go know some of those ur friends dey envy u n u il soon see some of them getting married, just give am another 3 to 4 yrs u go see. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Vinnie2000(m): 12:29pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
PrimadonnaO: No, I Disagree! The OP is Not all about Fcvkking Pussy outside.. I Suspect he needs a Spice in the Marriage! Both him and his Wife are not Creative or they don't communicate more! *They need to Play games together.. *Go on outings together.. *Even Buy Alcohol and drink inside dier Living together! *Or even Watch a Sizzling, hot Romantic movie together.. *Or even watch Soft Porn together! Anything to Spice up dat Damn boring Marriage! |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Michael662(m): 12:31pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
providencia: Them no dey carry Marriage play oh..being single is synonymous as being cursed for here |
Re: Bored In Marriage by FiverrTutor(m): 12:33pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Czario: Hahahaha that above is so so funny 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Nobody: 12:33pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
LordReed:that's one of it..u come late with is my thing wahala ..u come home smelling Hennessy or beer wahala ...u talk with other female wahala....honestkt sex is not the issue I miss freedom I feel like being caged |
Re: Bored In Marriage by captianfreeman(m): 12:34pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
The more reason why you should not succumb to societal pressure. In the meantime, You're not SERIOUS!!! |
Re: Bored In Marriage by NickD(m): 12:34pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Have friends who are married and within your age bracket, it's a feeling and it'll pass. There's nothing you're missing. 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Nobody: 12:40pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
MrrGary: This your talk for those that got married to jobless/vision less women. Don't forget some women are the pillars of their homes, know this and know peace 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Vinnie2000(m): 12:43pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
AlhajaChinyere: Bros! I experienced this issue Last year! The Babe was kinda Ugly and I wasn't Strongly attracted to Her! After Wooing, invited her over! Kissed, Sucked B**B's and touched everywhere but My Gbola wasn't Hard enough! I just managed to complete the action after 4mins.. Discovered dat my low Attraction caused it, alongside her own Dullness! Since it's ur Wife we are talking about, *Speak to her on the importance of Sex.. *Buy her Skimpy skirts.. *Buy her Short gown. *Buy her G-Strings, Thongs and Makossa Pyants!! When she puts diz on, Just go and Grab her from Behind, ur Pricck go Stand Gidigba and you will do her Justice! |
Re: Bored In Marriage by efficiencie(m): 12:43pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: This is what happens when you allow children that should still be playing around with their toys to get married. Did your parent choose your spouse for you? Did your parents say the marriage vows for you? Was your business brain not in play when you were saying the vows? How come you did not recognize this trash you are saying when you were asked to say your vows? You sound like someone who goes to an eatery, eats food and then tells the waitress that you cannot pay for the food because it is not sweet...imagine rubbish. So what happens to the life of the beautiful lady you are about to destroy. You are itching for adventure but you don't want to carry your wife along. Your parents have spoilt you. As you are now, you are nothing without your parents and their wealth. Dude you better wake up from this mumu slumber ohh, you are at the start of the noon phase of your life. You had better grow up, learn to be responsible and be accountable. That is what makes a man not the rod in between your legs. You had better be born again, the boy in you must die for the man in you to come forth. 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by ORIAYO70(m): 12:43pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44: Early at 29, why not 59... When u know u r not ripe for such commitment why did u succumb to parental pressure. . I was 27 when I got married with 2kids now, and am 13yrs in the marriage despite up n down. And am happy I did cos my kids where just like a junior to me.. . You claimed u r well to do good You have ur business good . Oga u never mature ni Or u be Mummys boy. No try divorce that beautiful woman ooo 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by moneyissweet(m): 12:45pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Lol, you think na everybody here be small pikin wey dey look for work? If I am not married with four kids, and if my first daughter and first son are not in expensive secondary school make I die before December 2021 Dude I am not one of those weak men who don't know nothing about marriage. There is nothing special or difficult about marriage Just know how to make more money as plenty as you can. AlhajaChinyere: 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by efficiencie(m): 12:45pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
AlhajaChinyere: Baba na prayer u need ohh...this wan wey your charger they select charging point. Guy all charging point na d same ohhh. If your charger dey touch den den don dey press button for village be dat ohh. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bored In Marriage by jimtemi1: 12:48pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
The only way you can be bored is when u don't see what u looking for in marriage..if u want to be faithful in marriage good and if u want to cheat, cheat peacefuly, you are the master of your own happiness.make sure u take care of her, if you are getting tired of her sex ability watch porn to enhance it or masturbation, or tell her to dress sexy, marriage is sweet because there's a lot of ways to keep it going, since u are not bored financially, other things Na small one I hope we are all above 18+ I don't want no pretenda come for me saying rubbish, I prefer above than to keep a side chick sikena |
Re: Bored In Marriage by TripleAkutigi: 12:51pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44:Can you pls connect me with her when you come decide to divorce her finally |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Romanoff: He didn't marry his type, that's why it's not fun to him. After sex nothing else to do together. Ordinary gisting with your partner can remove boredom not to talk of watching movies together, going to trips, gossiping together etc. Na why partners suppose marry their friends. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Elliotwaveforec: 12:54pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Truvelisback:Nlanders go open your past, you go shock |
Re: Bored In Marriage by AlhajaChinyere: 12:54pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
efficiencie: 99% of olosho customers are married men… |
Re: Bored In Marriage by redcliff: 12:55pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
AlhajaChinyere: lack of what resources? do you think that because the past is the past that people lived on trees? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bored In Marriage by qtguru(m): 12:57pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
DirtyGold: Gbam 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Jman06(m): 12:58pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
This one has been deceived into marriage and its miserable life! Pele o |
Re: Bored In Marriage by qtguru(m): 1:00pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
efficiencie: OP Please read this. Marriage is sacrifice and can be fun. It seems Op resents not enjoying his youth. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Ynix(m): 1:01pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44:The issue is your perspective about marriage, change your narratives and you will enjoy it. Marriage should not stop you from being adventurous in positive trends, you and your wife should have weekly schedules for adventurous outings not always that you will be together but trust and accountability must be maintained |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Nobody: 1:06pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44 Four things. 1. Change your circle of friends. Especially those friends that are single whom you're envying and wishing you could go clubbing with. 2. Move closer to older guys who are married AND who take their marital vows seriously. 3. Focus on your work. You think you're rich? Naaa, we haven't heard your name yet. Hunker down and create a legacy, a dynasty you can leave your kids when you eventually depart. 4. You have a commitment to the woman you married. You will stay married to her and be the best husband and father that ever walked this planet. That's what real men do. Whatever you need to do to achieve that, then DO IT. 2 Likes |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Finest4luv1(m): 1:09pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
You need to be mentally ready before entering marriage since you're married already build your focus around your marriage and work. Change your circle of friends. You'll be fine... 1 Like |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Ndidi2: 1:10pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
shedybaba44:Hey! U really think you are a baby at "just 29". Pls love ur marriage and focus on bigger things. Going back to Egypt is not an ideal option.. |
Re: Bored In Marriage by Cchuks27(m): 1:12pm On Oct 16, 2021 |
Hey buddy, if you ever see this comment, my advice would be, please don't leave your marriage. Just like you, I'm pretty much well to do, however, I am not in any relationship at all, talk more about a serious one. Currently, I'm seriously looking for a lady to settle with but I am yet to come across anyone. I am hoping before the year runs out something might swing by. 1 Like |
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