Godada:




The Op have dropped another nugget. The hue and cry about redpill and the much advertised hate for women is really a misplaced priority. There are bad men there like there are bad women.


What men should actually stay woke about is the blazing red flags that trail these different individuals be it male or female.


I have been hurt and scammed by male and female alike. So been objective in matters is what matters most. Like the Op pointed out and I totally agree, these points that he raised is not for men who have decided to be bitter and single.


Men and women are both narcissists and bring baggages to a relationship. You should as a matter of fact, place everyone through periodic test. You must learn to be observant.


Not just if they treat you well but how they treat people that can't hurt them. This is the true image of them not the mask they wear.


While, I cannot force people to live a life that is not of their choice, I can drop pointers here and there on what works.


A principle in life, regardless of your station is to realise that being calm is a super power. It's the number one strategy of generals, sages, heads of countries and corporation. Analysis of issues be it business or vagina matter should be done with an unbiased and impartial disposition.


The tenet of generalisation should be vanquished. A word is a enough for the wise.


To be a simp is not been aware of the wiles and game people play not just about the opposite sex.

Godada:

SpiritLifeNG:
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SpiritLifeNG:
In geology, the principle of uniformitarianism states that the present is the key to the past. Invariably, how a woman behaves now is a reflection of her past. I've heard many people talking about letting go of her past life bla bla.. bullshit..

As an empathic and serious minded folk, Before you court that lady, or before you start acting as a significant other to her, you must know about her previous relationships . Who left who or who discarded the other.. Listen to her, if she blames all the guys from her relationships, that's a huge red flag. Everyone can't be wronging her. I can hear some of you already roasting me, 'but that's childish or being too inquisitive'... Well , I can tell you wholy it's NOT! There are ladies who leave serious relationships because their significant other was sick, broke , or because their partner realised they were being mistreated and they started to call them out for their toxic behaviours.., because she doesn't want to be held accountable for her actions or be responsible, she's being unmasked and her true self is revealed , she then dumps the fellow for a new victim ( you ) etc. no one is perfect , but if she left those men for such reasons , what are the odds she won't repeat them with you YOU'RE DEFINITELY NOT THE "ONE"

On the same note, you also find out if she's still in touch with her exes, and if she's got many of them, it's a terrible situation, and you have every right to be worried .It's a huge red flag for me, if she's got many exes and still in touch with em. What are the odds you'd not be added to her list of exes she dumped for some petty reasons? Are you that special, or just ignorant?

Lastly, you must check if she's from a broken home or not and what's her relationship with her father and brothers like?
NOW, don't get me wrong. There are good ladies today from broken home , who have stayed humble and loving in a well sustained marriage for decades. While there are some from broken homes who have been traumatised to the point that they don't value anything commitment and relationships. These ones don't believe in love and healthy
bond and relationships. They are not with you to build, but use , manipulate and abuse you and your resources. They probably hate one of their parents, Mostly their fathers, for females. This is why she can never learn to treat a man right . If she hated her father, she will hate you and other men too. This is why they will always leave good relationships when it's all good. They become Narcissists and feminists. These ones will likely abandon you when you become sick, broke or faced with crisis. They play the push and pull games and will only initiate intimacy on their own terms, when they want and feel like, but not when you want.

So, kings you must check for these signs.. stay woke. This piece is not for alphas who wanna stay single , but for Real men looking for Good women to wife.You need a woman that will respect you, not the ones like jezebel who wants to manipulate and control you.