I just found out my bf of almost 4 years has been straffing my best friend. I understand that the relationship was shaky before it ended but if anyone is going to hurt me definitely not my home girl( as I love to call her) to think I was everything good to this man.

I’ve always read about things like this and never in my wildest dream did I think it will ever come close to me.

Sigh. I just thought to drop this here hoping to feel lighter.

We are all wishing, praying,fighting and dying to be loved by those who don't love us and at same time rejecting to love those wishing, praying, fighting and dying to have our love! This life, really no balance o.

Aunty sorry you hear..
Just try to move on.
E don happen e don happen.

Cut both of them off and move on.

Don't feel pain for those that left you, use pain to earn success that defines you.

You'll be fine op

don't be so sad
I know it hard sometimes
take a deep breath
I promise you it will be okay
we move !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know this hurts though.....
Sometimes it can be preposterous but one thing for sure is you gotta move on . I know moving on almost seem impossible because of how far you have come with the your said boyfriend but yet he fit he ditched you
But trust me all you gotta do is to move on my dear.
May Almighty God give you the strength to have this your bf obliterated .

Smhart1:
I just found out my bf of almost 4 years has been straffing my best friend. I understand that the relationship was shaky before it ended but if anyone is going to hurt me definitely not my home girl( as I love to call her) to think I was everything good to this man.

I’ve always read about things like this and never in my wildest dream did I think it will ever come close to me.

Sigh. I just thought to drop this here hoping to feel lighter.

@op,you boasted about his dick prowess to your friend thats why she made an attempt.
thats how a woman's mind work,they'll have what you're having,they wont go searching for theirs.
next time might wanna keep bedroom activity out of the conversation with your friends.
who's to say he's not banging all your friends lol

You were everything good
Pls Hexplain

My dear accept my sincerest regards.


It's time to move on.


However, before you get into another relationship learn to keep your home girls and your home boys apart. They are like oil and water they don't mix.


Women are quite unique you know. When you brag about your guy, your friends would want to taste him. This is sick but what it is. This is the Unalloyed truth.


So stay safe and remain vigilant.

pele what is meant for you can't be taken away from you. Move on and be happy

And i hope as you feel "lighter" you float away into wisdom/knowledge that men are wired to cheat and betray!

Bola146:
pele what is meant for you can't be taken away from you. Move on and be happy

My dear, that thinking doesn't hold water. Keep an open eye on your man, as much as you can shield him from family and friends.


I know a friend who shags his two sisters in-law living with him on code.


Better safe than sorry.......you get the picture.

Candidlady:
And i hope as you feel "lighter" you float away into wisdom/knowledge that men are wired to cheat and betray!

Yeah.....mind you that cheating runs on a two way street.



A man cannot cheat alone. It takes two to tangle.

I think i need to open a new business line for those who have been served heartbreakfast.


Op kindly dm if you want to clear your head.

Godada:





My dear, that thinking doesn't hold water. Keep an open eye on your man, as much as you can shield him from family and friends.


I know a friend who shags his two sisters in-law living with him on code.


Better safe than sorry.......you get the picture.

That is your philosophy, you can't drag dog from it's vomits

Godada:





My dear accept my sincerest regards.


It's time to move on.


However, before you get into another relationship learn to keep your home girls and your home boys apart. They are like oil and water they don't mix.


Women are quite unique you know. When you brag about your guy, your friends would want to taste him. This is sick but what it is. This is the Unalloyed truth.


So stay safe and remain vigilant.

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Thank you. I think I learnt my lessons the hard way. This isn’t the first time but this time I’m more hurt because of the parties involved. She doesn’t know that I know and She’s still acting all nice and cool around me yet I’m dying. I’m not bad with words but words fails me since yesterday and I’m finding it difficult putting words together the right way.

Maybe some of us may never be lucky as regard love but it’s all nice and cool.

My head hurts badly, the only time I feel ok is when I convince myself it’s not true and it’s only a mirage but I know I will be fine eventually.

Smhart1:
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Thank you. I think I learnt my lessons the hard way. This isn’t the first time but this time I’m more hurt because of the parties involved. She doesn’t know that I know and She’s still acting all nice and cool around me yet I’m dying. I’m not bad with words but words fails me since yesterday and I’m finding it difficult putting words together the right way.

Maybe some of us may never be lucky as regard love but it’s all nice and cool.

My head hurts badly, the only time I feel ok is when I convince myself it’s not true and it’s only a mirage but I know I will be fine eventually.

Sorry about all this.

Heartbreak is what it is literally.

The pain is unimaginable.

But keep it together and try and go out and have fun.

In all you will pull through.

Just be wary of friends and family alike.

Just last week, some guy was caught putting poison in his supposed best friend's drink.

Male and female; family and friends would attempt to screw us over.

But we will learn our lessons.

What does kill you will make you stronger.

Bye

Bola146:


That is your philosophy, you can't drag dog from it's vomits

Whatever.


It's your life.


Live it however you want.

Gbogbo wa la ma je breakfast.

IT IS WHAT IT IS

breakfast with dessert

What and how did it happen? Let it out oo smhart

Smhart1:
I just found out my bf of almost 4 years has been straffing my best friend. I understand that the relationship was shaky before it ended but if anyone is going to hurt me definitely not my home girl( as I love to call her) to think I was everything good to this man.

I’ve always read about things like this and never in my wildest dream did I think it will ever come close to me.

Sigh. I just thought to drop this here hoping to feel lighter.

Mail me … danasounds2wurld@gmail.com if you want someone to talk to we could be friends.

Breakfast duly served..

Another men are scum palaver don land

*Hugs to you* Pele. Sorry. Please cry, cry and cry. Give your yourself time to mourn. Give yourself time to heal.

Smhart1:
I just found out my bf of almost 4 years has been straffing my best friend. I understand that the relationship was shaky before it ended but if anyone is going to hurt me definitely not my home girl( as I love to call her) to think I was everything good to this man.

I’ve always read about things like this and never in my wildest dream did I think it will ever come close to me.

Sigh. I just thought to drop this here hoping to feel lighter.

My gf was dating me and fucking my friend sometimes she spends a week in his place and she tells me she had to go home to visit her mom

Good evening, How you doing.. Such is life. it feels bad and hurting but you can still get better out of life.

The past is gone no matter how hard it is to let go. That friend could have hurt you in a worse way that this.

Be glad that god revealed who he is to you

BritishAirways:
Good evening, How you doing.. Such is life. it feels bad and hurting but you can still get better out of life.

The past is gone no matter how hard it is to let go. That friend could have hurt you in a worse way that this.

Be glad that god revealed who he is to you

Good evening, Your words are subtle and it did give me a huge relieve. It might take time but I would eventually be fine.
Thank you.

Anobella:




My gf was dating me and fucking my friend sometimes she spends a week in his place and she tells me she had to go home to visit her mom

Sigh! My ex bf was spending weekends with my so called best friend ( Friday-Sunday) and I didn’t know Jack. Right now. I am more disappointed in myself than the both of them. How I let my guards off and trust carelessly baffles me but I guess this is the lesson I have to learn to be wiser.
Do I still cry over it? Yes, infact I still did a few minutes ago. Right now I’m kinda stable because I’ve tried to convince myself it didn’t happen and it’s all a mirage but NO, It did happen and I have to deal with it �

luvmijeje:
*Hugs to you* Pele. Sorry. Please cry, cry and cry. Give your yourself time to mourn. Give yourself time to heal.

Crying is inevitable but I’m doing just fine and stable. It hurts really deep because of the parties involved ( I wish I can tell what this girl is/was to be me as well as the so called bf ) only them will anyone truly understand my pain.

Sorry poster,there's human being for you,change is constant,yoruba ni kokoro to n je efo ara efo lowa...the insect that's eating vegetable Is beneath or inside the vegetable...never loose guard again sorry

Smhart1:
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Thank you. I think I learnt my lessons the hard way. This isn’t the first time but this time I’m more hurt because of the parties involved. She doesn’t know that I know and She’s still acting all nice and cool around me yet I’m dying. I’m not bad with words but words fails me since yesterday and I’m finding it difficult putting words together the right way.

Maybe some of us may never be lucky as regard love but it’s all nice and cool.

My head hurts badly, the only time I feel ok is when I convince myself it’s not true and it’s only a mirage but I know I will be fine eventually.

Both of them are horrible people, and they deserve each other.


I can only hope you don't let either of them back into your life.