Hmm

Call the relationship off
Sit her down and call it off gently
Ungrateful people shouldn't be tolerated

ahnie:
Pls how much do I need to budget in acquiring a Nigerian passport and how do I go about it and how long will I have to wait?

Pls do well to answer my question.

53k.. You will get it within 3days

Nnanznn

Confidant010

Mom man
Dump her and move on. If you think you have a place in her heart, dont deceive yourself. No one can slave for 2 masters. She obviously joining her pairs, enjoying their "bloom of Youth". She's making tons of cash. In a few years time, she'll get tired and want to settle down.

Dont also marry an entitled lady as that's what she is. They come with too much baggage. Once you can't provide for the family, they look down on you like its your fault. No empathy, no understanding. The value system needs to change

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

U already know what to do. U probably need some encouragement. Oga run for ur dear life.

ahnie:
Pls how much do I need to budget in acquiring a Nigerian passport and how do I go about it and how long will I have to wait?

Pls do well to answer my question.

25k zeero nile zeero dubbo tree too hate zeero tree fur too. Copy!

Candidlady:
And your day one Niggarr is starving to death somewhere!

smh!
date a responsible girls that wont be a liability una no go hear!

modified- op you are a broke as$ niggarr!

you spent 300k span of 4yrs! Meaning 75k in a year, meaning 6250/mnth!. The girl is a fowl for stil putin up with ur broke being!

how many times do you have sex with her in a day/week/mnth/yr? You this broke nagging gay'hot of a man

Not supporting premarital sex but even if they have sex is he the only one enjoying it

Lol

What should u do??
Pls send her more money since ur head no wan gree correct . The red flag is there but u choose to allow non-existence(Non-sense) love to becloud ur sense of reasoning.. Thank ur destiny say u no dey near me sef I for beat u blue-black as d thing dey pain me chaii...
Lots of SIMPle guys we gat in dz corn3

Nonsense,let her go pls, how much do u send ur mum monthly

Confidant010:

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.

The moment I see, "I really love her," in relationship matters, I know the guy is gone. I don't want to stress myself educating you.

To prove you really love her, leave her and work on yourself.

Candidlady:
And your day one Niggarr is starving to death somewhere!

smh!
date a responsible girls that wont be a liability una no go hear!

modified- op you are a broke as$ niggarr!

you spent 300k span of 4yrs! Meaning 75k in a year, meaning 6250/mnth!. The girl is a fowl for stil putin up with ur broke being!

how many times do you have sex with her in a day/week/mnth/yr? You this broke nagging gay'hot of a man

After saying reasonable thing,you ended everything with nonsense ,what makes the young man broke?

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

When Dog don dey back for him owner e mean say another person don dey feed am

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

Are you her father?.....

You babe is doing part time runz + full time education.........

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When Dog don dey back for him owner
e mean say another person don dey feed am

When Dog don dey back for him owner
e mean say another person don dey feed am.

Why do Nigerian men like to date bums?

Hahahahaha, lemme just laugh.

If I send nigerian girls 5k, I dey craze.

The girls I can send such amount must be my sisters, nieces. I dey craze.

I am team V.

ABANGWABOI:



This advice is too sensible to come from a lady in nairaland..
Seems this is a male under an F" moniker

Let me make it easy for you!!! Breakup with her.

See when a girl changes her attitude, it's because someone else is giving her attention and she's enjoying it and/or she's seeing the person already. If you investigate this, you'll know.

Confidant010:
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Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

Get her pregnant if you really love her.

I've come to realise that men who are in love, use same trick gurls use on us.

Pour inside her...when belle show, ask her to keep it...

Promise to continue to further her education but start the marriage process on time.

Or on a second thought, talk to her, know what d problem really is.

After the talk, you'll know weda to collect your last supper from her or let her go, so you can have peace of mind.

Bro big time it's not easy to cut from someone you have been with for a very long time,with what you just posted right there by her comparing you to someone else, her heart is no longer with you she is just keeping you base on the small cash she is getting from you
So start minimizing the impact of the heart break you are going to get in the nearest future by looking for the nearest feminine spare tire to give your 20% emotional attention to
And devote your 70%attention to your hustle and leave her with the remaining 10%
Cuz the motto is hustle now that you are young and relax later

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

Her long throat is increasing, she’s dating other guys or wants to. She doesn’t have money yet won’t appreciate u for trying. U better ignore her and don’t let her make u think a bf is a sponsors or maga or her father.

Bottom line is she unappreciative and wants to join bad gang, get iPhone she can’t afford herself and become a useless entity and constant liability.

She’s in-content and same time lazy. A recipe for runs gals behavior and disaster for a good relationship.

These are worst case scenarios of such behavior.

They told you Nigerian women are dangerous


you no hear


now see ya self!

Confidant010:
I met this babe in 2017 while in school. She was in Diploma program then and I was in my final in degree program.
Initially, she pretended to be everything any man would wish in a woman; obedient, submissive, helpful in house chores, etc.

I left for my national youth service the following year and I have been supportive through her thick n thorn with the resources at my disposal. Sending her cash for upkeep, supporting her during her dad's burial, sending cash to her mum occasionally, paying her dept without her notice, etc.
If am to take into account all that I have spent from her since 2017-date, 300k wouldn't be an exaggeration.

Recently, having helped her in Jamb to get admission into a degree program on scholarship, while I am in Lagos, trying to build myself. The girl is completely a different human being entirely. She openly tells me countlessly that the cash I give to her now isn't enough for her, that her ex boyfriend she dated used to give her more. Last month I sent her 6k, I was really stressed financially, when we had issues, she told me not to stress her bc of ordinary 6K. She flares over very minor misunderstanding.

Please what should I do guys?
She's planning visiting me next month.
I'm very confused bc I really love her.
Pls mature minds only.
Your input will be of help.
Thanks guys.

Increase the money you are sending to her to 20k above

Oga please and please face your life, build yourself and pursue a future that spells financial freedom. If a girlfriend can't manage with you telling it to your face what she thinks about men being money milking cows. Can you wife such??

Op, the amount you mentioned now is just too small compare to what the country is saying now.... Everything have become double double the 6k will only buy her cream toothpaste and her bathing soap....I think it can still manage to buy detergent too.... though, it's not advisable for you to go and steal Cox of a girl Cox even if you give her the whole world, if she won't still appreciate you, she won't ...so, all you need do now is to call her one on one and make her realize some fact that today might be tough but you are very sure tomorrow will be bright.....she shud join u in chasing your dreams but if after that she didn't change, then leave her Biko Cox there is someone lavishing money on her or on her friends that makes her to come up with such attitude.

No be juju be that!!! No de do like a Mumu man!! Who those that? How much you don spen for your mama head!!!!

She is just another bad investment that's all so free her and move on bro