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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by lilvicky68(m): 4:03pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
FashionCookie:She can be his Nigerian wife na |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by advanceDNA: 4:06pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
airsaylongcome: loose babes wayward girls easy to straff babes girls with high body counts and several abortions olosho wey the form saint.. babes wey no see sex as anything...na who dey near dey enter the place... |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by FashionCookie(f): 4:07pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
lilvicky68:Bros in cases like This, those kind of women suffer. She's just there as a baby machine. Trust me... And it's mostly lazy women that put eye in a man's money that fall victim to this type of scam. As them hear "abroad-based" their ear go spread like satellite dish! Most of these guys act on that. 2 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by airsaylongcome: 4:11pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
advanceDNA: Are these bad attributes? What are men with these attributes called? |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oyiboman69: 4:14pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Collysmith:sorry bro...
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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by advanceDNA: 4:18pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
airsaylongcome: wayward men loose men useless men community pen!s... please dont form woke with me....im not one of those that agree with the idea of jumping from one sexual partner to another, whether you are a man or a woman.. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by bepositive11: 4:23pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Collysmith: Couldn't you have gone with your wife for a gynecologist examination instead before getting married? |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Maobichek: 4:24pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Evercurious: No lady who is in a relationship or married will be comfortable to be providing for herself, even if she does, with time she will be frustrated and the evidence will be clear for her boyfriend or husband to see, thank you. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by adecz: 4:25pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Evercurious: ♥ Smart you... ✌️✌️✌️☺️☺️ 2 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Youngpo413: 4:25pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
TheOnlyUyai:Every sane man will choose the baby. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by BluntCrazeMan: 4:26pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22:And you yourself,, why did you keep that same part away from us too in the original story you posted?? 1 Like |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by eguarojeona: 4:27pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22:So are you here acting like fresh virgin |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by bepositive11: 4:27pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: The number of people supporting that man on this thread is baffling. You clearly dodged a bullet. Please ignore people who say otherwise While you were considering his proposal, he was already trying to impregnate another woman. Only God knows how many women he has impregnated Isn't there some kind of gynaecologist examination women can go for instead to know whether they can conceive? Is getting pregnant the only possible test? 4 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by airsaylongcome: 4:31pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
advanceDNA: Naaaah, it's not about being woke. I was honestly trying to find out if there was a slang in Yoruba for these kinds of men. Maybe "se oko balabala" |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by advanceDNA: 4:33pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
airsaylongcome: You are even yoruba...And you are asking me what shedi balabala means??..respect your self oooo |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oyiboman69: 4:33pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Collysmith:I'll be advising you as a friend and a brother... don't waste your time with any woman, provided the fault is not from your side. get a woman outside and impregnate... the sole purpose of marriage, as an African, is to have children nothing more.had it been the fault is from you...do you think she'll stay forever with you?...she can eventually gets pregnant if she found out that a woman is pregnant for you outside, and that child can also bring breakthrough of children into your home...I'm not of the opinion of you chasing her out though we have many cases of men having children outside even when their spouse is producing children not to talk of otherwise,abi na old age you want start to they take care of children when you suppose to they rest?,I say my own self late but I still thank God for everything.... |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oyiboman69: 4:40pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
1Sharon:NO
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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by airsaylongcome: 4:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
advanceDNA: I'm not. I understand bits and pieces and can infer meanings. balabala however is a slang I have no idea what it means |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by bigpicture001: 4:50pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by advanceDNA: 4:54pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
airsaylongcome: ok....apologies... u translated the word correctly to the opposite in terms of gender |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oyiboman69: 5:01pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
dominique:she said that guy is a well to do man who is willing and able to do what he'd promised...your point only apply to those unserious guys who decieve ladies.... she made her choice and he made his...there is no need for her opinion which some guys here will see as a sign of regrets,me too... |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Oyiboman69: 5:09pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Saintmary:
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Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Evercurious(f): 5:11pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Maobichek: I quite agree with you but I never expected them to get married so soon. They cld be dating while she supports him through his job search or whatever he tends to do for now... Atleast 2 good heads re better than one. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Evercurious(f): 5:13pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
advanceDNA: True shaa |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Calitoscassius(m): 5:17pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Total rubbish! the guy is a real man, i woulda done the same, i remember one nigerian girl who claimed to be 3 weeks pregnant for me, i was really happy, i wanted the baby, she started asking me to rent flat for her, open business for her, buy her a car. No problemo! I said, i remember giving her 30k just for pocket money. After few day asked her for proofs of the pregnancy she sent me some clinic's paper's. Then i mentioned that i will do a DNA, after 2 days of me mentioning DNA she rang me crying that....... whait for it...... She had a miscariage. So i don't blame the man. Dey dia de wait for Prince charming to come marry you without been pregnant. 1 Like |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nobody: 5:38pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
A man not ready to commit via marriage but wants a child first—the latter being a bigger commitment and responsibility—is a walking red flag and a potential reproductive terrorist. I'm pretty sure the man will not take on the bulk of parenting if you did accede to his request. Like most men. It's just an ego thing for them and the male users defending this logic are the same ones who hate babymamas/single mothers because that's how most women who take the baby first, marriage later route end up. It's easier for the man to walk away when disinterested in the relationship since there's no serious committment. Glad you didn't fall for it. Nwachi22: 3 Likes |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Maobichek: 5:40pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Evercurious: Your comment shows understanding and I must commend you, if you practice what you preach, your man (husband) will live long and will always be proud of you. I cherish your comment. 1 Like |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Evercurious(f): 6:06pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Calitoscassius: Lol.Oga you again? You ve got so much stories to tell as per women ooh..Haabaa!! Only you? lol It's well shaa |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Newboss(m): 6:08pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Nwachi22: You see how you suddenly changed the story from being pregnant to being married? You think say we be mumu? Abeg park well with your lies |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
jditimiya:Lol Which tribe |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Nwachi22(f): 6:12pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
[s] Newboss:[/s] Thrash. |
Re: He insisted I take in before marriage by Kyf1: 6:26pm On Oct 27, 2021 |
Good |
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