LiegeMan:

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LiegeMan:
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LiegeMan:
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LiegeMan:


Those ones that she had fun with, care less about her now.
They don't give a damn about her.

LiegeMan:
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BKsoul:
I have so many things to tell you but am not just in the mood, so i will leave you with just one prayer which is 'that thing you are looking for in sokoto, may you see it in your sokoto' , then you will know the difference between you and mr lostchild, who has always blamed everyone he has ever come across as the source of his misfortune but he has never blamed any of his bad desicion or himself... The funniest truth is that if you lose your self in the process of looking for what is not lost, your wife will still knack...

Lostchild:


1. I don't blame people over my troubles.

2. I always make good choices.

3. Most of the problems in my life are cause by stupid people in my life and around me

4. Most of the things I suffered are the consequences of the wrong choice of others

5. God plainly told me that, all the people in my past, present will not be in my future.

6. Because of all the above, I no longer allowed jerks into my life anymore.

7. What do you think?

BKsoul:
I have so many things to tell you but am not just in the mood, so i will leave you with just one prayer which is 'that thing you are looking for in sokoto, may you see it in your sokoto' , then you will know the difference between you and mr lostchild, who has always blamed everyone he has ever come across as the source of his misfortune but he has never blamed any of his bad desicion or himself... The funniest truth is that if you lose your self in the process of looking for what is not lost, your wife will still knack...

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO

BKsoul:
Na true nah.....Go through all his thread... he blames everyone but himself....Mr Liegeman should kip on comparing.... may he contract hiv from that his revenge seeking mission over what doesn't even in any way concern him....maybe he will blame mr lostchild then...they kuku both fit each other.....

LiegeMan:
Anger And Vengeance Is Taking The Best Part Of Me

hello nairalanders,

Sorry to disturb your peace but this has been going on in my mind for long and I really need suggestions on how to overcome it. I gave in to ire/anger and it's gradually taking the best part of me since I made a little discovery about my wife's past and how she lived her life while in the campus. I will try and make it as snappy as possible in order not to make you spend much of your time on my case.

Now, it goes this way, my wife came from a middle class family and she attended one of the best and prestigious higher institutions in the country, they're not too rich and they're not poor, infact, their family name can't be in the same sentence with poverty. She had everything she needed and lived her life to the fullest while in the campus, she flirted with and dated the best guys in the campus, she visited many night clubs and other exuberant and flamboyant life style that pertains to the campus.

Now on my own part, I attended one of the Colleges of Education that littered our country,
I did everything all by myself, I sponsored myself throughout my stay in the college, I did all manner of odd jobs to survive, sometimes, I would miss lectures due to lack of cash, no one to assist, all these limitations made me not to pay attention towards the opposite sex as I was busy struggling to survive and hoping unto God for a miracle.

Right now, all I am feeling is anger, ire, all I want now is vengeance knowing fully well that while I was suffering and struggling to survive, fasting without praying, carrying bricks and block from one floor to the other, jumping from one market to the other hawking my wares, that my wife was busy somewhere enjoying and partying away her future, right now, I want to have my revenge, I want to live those life that I wasn't opportune to live, I want to flirt and have fun with many ladies both young and old, I want to visit as many night clubs as possible now that money is flowing in, I careless about the consequences and how she may feel, these are exactly what I'm feeling now.

this can't keep troubling me that's why I brought it here for suggestions and elderly advice.

BKsoul:
The only thing i think and know is that LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE,,,, so ,,, if you weren't stupid yourself, there is no way you would attract stupid people.... secondly,,,, if you were sensible enough to make good choice yourself, there is no way you will suffer the consequences of other people's wrong choices,,, or have you ever seen an orange tree bear forth mangoes? impossicant.... you are simply a product of who and what you are.... stop blaming everyone for your self afflicted woes....

BKsoul:
Na true nah.....Go through all his thread... he blames everyone but himself....Mr Liegeman should kip on comparing.... may he contract hiv from that his revenge seeking mission over what doesn't even in any way concern him....maybe he will blame mr lostchild then...they kuku both fit each other.....

Ilitracy is a deseace. the day u learn to spek good English & not that village pigeon english..i will pasonaly pay u 200 naira cash for efort.(( this is why people wonder if they spek English in Nigeria))...sad!

BigYash:
Another mumu like my family members

LiegeMan:

Check this thread out

https://www.nairaland.com/6825530/body-count-almost-destroyed-me#107161445

mikigen:
yea you have a point though..btw nice pix on your dp

Bobmarie:
Thanks.

BigYash:
Why u dey edit my destiny to trash bin na?

LiegeMan:


Those ones that she had fun with, care less about her now.
They don't give a damn about her.

DissTroy:

This is complete gaslighting.

If she were open about her past while dating, maybe he wouldn't have married her.

He's giving hints you are all ignoring. She was a nightcrawler, screwing multiple guys and clubing all over. She probably even aborted.

In school I didn't go wild or did drugs or had wild parties and órgies banging RANDOM women or knock up a woman then got her to get an abortion.
I still haven't done any of these things and I'm probably one of the least religious persons on Nairaland.

Stating that, I'd consider it cheating if I find out my partner was screwing around in her past, probably abusing substances too and/or did abortions.

I've always been upfront with the females in my life over the years about these things. Some think they are smart and can hide their past but when I find out, I call it off. And you'd never know I've called it off until months later.

I'm not expecting she should be a saint but don't go banging random dudes, aborting and abusing substances then think I'd accept you because it's your past. No!

Actions have consequences and I'm not going to spend the rest of my life dealing with the consequences of your juvenile delinquency. Never. I don't care if you have been canonised now.

Let people choose who they want to be with.

Jman06:
There's really nothing fantastic about living such lifestyle he is craving for. I mean, the life of partying, clubbing and flexing different women. Many of us who had a taste of such life are even grateful to God that we were able to retrace our steps on time. Some people were not so lucky as they got struck by the so many negatives of such lifestyle.

The best thing anyone can do for themselves to live long and good is to live chaste. There are better ways the op can have fun without doing what he is proposing.

LiegeMan:
I really appreciate
thanks for the comment
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