Hello NL

I recently did family introduction with my fiancee and we are planning of doing our traditional wedding by early next year.

The issue is she told me she would want us to enjoy being together as married couples after marriages without a baby, that baby will disturb and that she don't want a situation whereby after giving birth i will no longer want to do white wedding.

So I asked her that what if I don’t have money for white yet? and if I don’t come up with the white in 2years time will it be that she won’t take in even after a traditional marriage? “ she couldn't say anything.

Nevertheless, this argument between us was a result of me always telling her how I want a kid/children immediately after our traditional wedding cos age is no longer smiling at me. I recently clock 33 while she is 20 and still schooling.

Mind you, I have intentions of doing white wedding but don’t know exactly when because of finances.

Please I am confused and don’t know what to do.

20 years please allow her to finish her schl

Your blood too dey hot oga.
Some people are 34 and not married.
They are here shouting sai baba for 30k and grilling dead vulture

xpressionx:
Your blood too dey hot oga.

Some people are 34 and not married.

They are here shouting sai baba for 30k and grilling dead vulture

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This sort of situation won't automatically arrange itself after marriage. Iron out the issue now or wahala go dey if you move ahead with matrimony.

Did you say 20 years?

Please, go and find a more mature and ready woman to settle down with and leave that young girl alone.

You want babies after marriage, she doesn't want what you want most likely because she is yet to be through with school. Don't force her into your timeline.

Let me pitch my tent here first

Ekomatrix1:
Hello NL

I recently did family introduction with my fiancee and we are planning of doing our traditional wedding by early next year.

The issue is she told me she would want us to enjoy being together as married couples after marriages without a baby, that baby will disturb and that she don't want a situation whereby after giving birth i will no longer want to do white wedding.

So I asked her that what if I don’t have money for white yet? and if I don’t come up with the white in 2years time will it be that she won’t take in even after a traditional marriage? “ she couldn't say anything.

Nevertheless, this argument between us was a result of me always telling her how I want a kid/children immediately after our traditional wedding cos age is no longer smiling at me. I recently clock 33 while she is 20 and still schooling.

Mind you, I have intentions of doing white wedding but don’t know exactly when because of finances.

Please I am confused and don’t know what to do.

When she knows she's still young to have a child, she should have rejected yourartoage proposal and remain single then...

She wants to be enjoying around with being called married woman, but she wants you to be pouring your thing inside the toilet or gutter....

Please move on with your life or you wait for her to mature and finish her studies

U just want to deceive her with white wedding, when u know very well that u aren't going to give her a glamour wedding that she dreamt of.

She read u well