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Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 9:08am On Nov 02, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: Oh please shut it. Then tell redpillers to stop using divorce statistics of the west to form arguments. Tell them to stop using the creations of white men to argue since it doesn't reflect Nigeria. Tell them to stop using single motherhood rates of the west since it doesn't reflect Nigeria. Just shut up abeg 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 9:11am On Nov 02, 2021 |
If it doesn't confirm your bias, it is incorrect. Go and argue with the researchers and tell them that. As per you have more authority on the subject than those with the credentials BigBellyBurst: |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:18am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin: E pain am. I've said it before, it seems you are the one lacking in critical thinking & understanding. The guys stats are reflecting in Nigeria unlike yours that is a big lie like; Girls are seeing marriage for scam it is...which scam?? Scam amd they marrying their ancestors as 6th wife, Regina Daniels, that alaafin of Oyo young wife too and many others. Shut up please!!
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Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 9:36am On Nov 02, 2021 |
They do not reflect Nigeria at all. What are the divorce rates in Nigeria? Can you pull up actual statistics for Nigeria? Single motherhood rates too. What are the actual Nigerian Statistics for it? I'm not talking of one or two socialites or celebrities but solid empirical data as evidence it's a widespread thing in Nigeria. You're the one vastly lacking in common sense, critical thinking and analysis would obviously not be your forte like the rest of your ilk. I already said there was a caveat: If more women were properly educated and cultural expectations lessened, they'll be more acceptance of alternative lifestyles. You even proposed 50 years before anything of that sort will happen which inevitably shows, those research findings will apply. If you don't want me using Western research and statistics to counter the same western statistics and research redpillers use as crutch for their misogyny. Then they should bring up empirical data for NIGERIA and use it as basis for their arguments. OLDESTWARRIBOY: 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:39am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin:
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Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 9:45am On Nov 02, 2021 |
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Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 9:46am On Nov 02, 2021 |
[quote author=OLDESTWARRIBOY post=107264265][/quote] Next time, don't jump and quote. You don't have the range for these discussions. OLDESTWARRIBOY |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:48am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin: Please Shut up, I don't do gender wars. I just point out all what you wrote ain't happening anywhere in Nigeria. if it's an argument I'm really interested in, na you go tire o!!. you were saying rubbish and purposely ignoring most of my important points. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 9:50am On Nov 02, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: I'm saying rubbish? Or, you just don't have the intellectual capacity for these discussions? Point out were I ignored your most important points. 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:55am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin: Go & read my first comment on the article and give your analysis & the girls are seeing marriage for the scam it is and I point out most girls marry ancestors as 6th wife. You didn't say anything ![]() ![]() ![]() Critical thinker |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 9:56am On Nov 02, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY:@hyerin |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by BigJoe19: 10:00am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Guys there are somethings you just read online and just laugh, no need arguing with stupid OP's post. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 10:07am On Nov 02, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: Are you dumb? I already addressed those things in my earlier responses to you and gave a caveat. Go back and reread slowly because what you're asking of me is to continually repeat myself. "Most girls marry ancestors as 6th wife" are you going off assumptions or there's been research findings on this? |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 10:11am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin: fuuq outta here!! it's not a fucking assumption, don't you go out? You need a research first?? Are you not in Nigeria and don't you see the happenings.. So, you just read researches and log on Nairaland and spew shit from your mouth?? God, I've been arguing with someone who might be highly introvert and doesn't leave the house I'm Done!! |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 10:33am On Nov 02, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: No I don't see any of that happening and you said "most" which means majority of women would settle for being 6th wife. You can't make such outrageous claims without anything backing it up. Then again, your claim doesn't factor in alot of things such as: level of education, poverty, class etc. so for example, a college educated woman will gladly become 6th wife to a geriatric fellow. A woman who comes from an upper class background or even middle class sef will settle by playing sixth fiddle to a man? A man even marrying up to that amount is a clear pointer he is not educated and it's a surefire way of children entering into poverty because how will he share his time & resources amongst his offspring? Even if he is rich, he is parvenu because there are certain behaviours exhibited that are not socially acceptable when belonging to an upper class. Don't tell me you're using Ned Nwoko as basis for this generalization? Because that is an entirely exceptional case. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 1:02pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin: I said Please, do you live in Nigeria or Canada?? Beacuse what you wrote there does not reflect anywhere in my country. You said If more women (in this case Nigerian Women) were properly educated and cultural expectations lessened, they'll be more acceptance of alternative lifestyles. That means I'm right which you have already admitted. Then why are you still spewing shit? |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 1:17pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: This was what I said, following after the above bolded statement: Of course it would not reflect. Nigeria hasn't even solved the most basic problems. The country lacks a database for its citizens not to now even talk of empirical data on alot of things but there are certain truths that'll still apply if the populace wasn't as poor, uneducated and largely conservative. The chauvinists mostly use western male driven narratives to generalize Nigerian women and treat subjective experiences as objective facts. This is partly due to, as earlier mentioned, a lack of empirical data in the country. So they substitute anecdotes for facts and whatever facts they fetch are from data gotten from the west however dubious or false. It's the same thing I'm doing, except reverse by counteracting these peddled lies with correct information And then later gave a caveat: "Certain truths will still apply if the populace wasn't as poor, uneducated and largely conservative" And further went down to explain the interweaving of several factors. It doesn't make you right though because you're coming from a point of view that is very surface level, neglecting all other aspects that crystallizes the need for marriage. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 1:21pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin: I'm right and you are wrong...and all your comments proves it Is it now bad to be wrong?? Sister vocabulary?? Accept it and move on. You win some and lose some....please hold this L |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 1:37pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: Lol at "I'm right and you are wrong" on whose metrics? just by gloating and deleting my posts alone shows you're wrong. Otherwise, if you were so right. Why delete them then proceed to claim yourself a winner? ![]() Anyways, I'm done with this conversation. You can choose to believe whatever. Nairaland isn't even the place were level-headed, in-depth discussions take place. I don't even know why I choose to indulge. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 1:38pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: @Hyerin This is the first comment i've been talking about. Spew all your Grammars to defend it and let's end it |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 2:03pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Toseenlove:Yeah. Garbage that I'm bold enough to spew unlike a coward like you who couldn't say such with his main. ![]() |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by debbydams(f): 2:09pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
siofra:I'm surprised too |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 2:21pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin: you still ignoring that my comment..lol You are done, finally!! Thank God |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 2:23pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: This is the first comment you've been talking about THAT YOU POSTED ON THE THREAD and later mentioned for me to see it to which you did TWICE but let me respond sha. I'm failing to see the correlation between what you've said and what the OP is talking about. There was no mention of preferences or money. You're the one who setup a straw man and began to attack it. You also act like men don't state their preferences as well in the pursuit of romantic relationships and even marriage. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 8:10pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Very apt. I owe you a kiss for this post. Please remind me when we meet. ![]() |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Victerica(m): 8:46pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
Firefoxy: Were women sleeping, when the oppression started? Why did women allow themselves, to be oppressed? |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by vineakachi(m): 10:26pm On Nov 02, 2021 |
if I read this then I have justified my joblessness |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 11:22pm On Nov 04, 2021 |
Beloved3: Can you please stop making comments like these to me? 3 Likes |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by eazzzy1(m): 2:48am On Nov 05, 2021 |
This isn’t the reality of things in the real world. Many women all over the world still need and will continue to need men. Women have always been selective of the guys they mate with, a woman can reject 20 guys only to date a married guy with three side chicks. There’s something called the pareto principle - it states that 80% of women are competing for the top 20% of guys. Most guys know this and are steady on their grind to join the top 20%. Most guys in this top 20% don’t even want relationships. If women were as strong as guys, women will rape guys too. Have you seen the number of women using juju to trap men? Getting men for themselves against the man’s will. Isn’t that just as bad as rape? Even working women still want men with money, women having their own money will not reduce their need for men, it only increases their requirements/standard for their ideal man. Most men just want to have sex, it’s the women who demand relationships. It’s the same all over the world, even in woke societies. Go on any dating app, you will see women with words like “I’m not here for casual sex, one night stand or flings, I need something serious that will lead somewhere” bla bla. Go to churches there are women rolling on the floor, buying their own gowns and ring as a show of faith to getting a man. Take a look at any any pre-wedding pics thread on nairaland and see who has the “God when, I tap into this, I’m next” comments. TLDR; Women will always need men. A woman rejecting a man doesn’t mean she doesn’t need men, it means she doesn’t need that particular man. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by jaiyeorie: 12:58pm On Nov 17, 2021 |
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