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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Dereformer(m): 5:20pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
KarinaLove: See them ooooo |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by bezimo(m): 6:17pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
ziondaughter247: I lived in France for a while and now Canada for over 6 years and know first hand what the situation is regarding the disaster 9ja women have become who were brought over as wife..because you are a useless loser who haven't smelled plane doesn't mean I don't know what I am saying. Look at this useless nonentithy talking about India Bangladesh...who goes there?..is that were you are..did you check my posts over the years to know where I live or you are just one of those noise making nuisances here defending the shitty trend that have come to be identified with 9ja women brought abroad as wives.. Real men built societies and the women did what..frying akara in the kitchen? been a liability to everyone around them like we see in 9ja..right? Get out of here..nonsense.Where I have been to by grace I am sure no one in your useless poverty decorated generation have smelled there. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Dereformer(m): 6:22pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Klass99: Please share the link. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Klass99(f): 6:25pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Dereformer(m): 6:59pm On Nov 10, 2021 |
Ndipe: Please explain Honor killing and mercy killing. |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Kiasa: 1:24am On Nov 11, 2021 |
abbey621: Nigerian men don't fear their Nigerian wives because they know she won't leave him when he cheats. The most she'll do is nag him and fight the side piece. |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by abbey621(m): 1:56am On Nov 11, 2021 |
Kiasa: Maybe before the year 2000 this was true but Nigerian women right now don dey para pass men. Dem go first finish you for social media and then deal with you spiritually or emotionally. She'll have you sleeping with one eye open and afraid of your own shadow 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Bifwoli: 2:01am On Nov 11, 2021 |
The only people who 'd regret going abroad with their spouse = the cheating type. I rest my case. 2 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by ziondaughter247: 11:52am On Nov 11, 2021 |
bezimo: Why should i check your posts? Are you not a non-entity? Lmao, you are not even worthy to clean my shoes. Mumu |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 11:55am On Nov 13, 2021 |
Even the ones who haven't smelt seme border are forming "scared". Wonders shall never end 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Exceed15: 12:10pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
WoundedLamb: Ehn to avoid All these.. don't bring her over |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Exceed15: 12:25pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
bilulu: I pity you.. u no dey hear word |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Exceed15: 12:32pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
bezimo: Infact oil dey ur head.. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by pseudonomer: 12:39pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
ednut1: If your spouse cheat, you divorce or cheat back, you don’t have to lie to destroy him/her, it’s totally wrong. |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by WoundedLamb: 3:23pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Exceed15: Lol... you know this is an old post, bro? Well, your conclusion is not invalid. I see why you'd say that. But how does that really help anyone? If you don't bring your wife over, you'd still be doing your cooking, laundry, etc., without the comfort of a family (and according to most Nigerians I know, the western world is boring without a family). And a man who already doesn't have any problem doing those things normally wouldn't have an issue bringing someone over to share them with him. The men who complain are those who see all these as things only the women as meant to do. The issue is that these men bring their wives over with certain expectations. A man would see another man cleaning and say, "go and marry and stop all these nah". It's almost as if they see getting married as a way of escaping all home chores. When the woman then comes over and can't meet those expectations, issues set in. And these same men can't get married to white women cause they'd still have to share those tasks with them (don't mind those guys shouting "white women are the best". They are just fantasizing, lol). Anyway, things are changing. The immigration system in most countries now favours academic competence/skill over money (either through education or the skilled worker program). For the education route, many men are now using their wives as primary applicants and then joining them later. This way, the man can start working on arrival while the woman is still in school. For the skilled worker program, anyone with more years of formal working experience and/or academic qualifications can be filed as the primary applicant and the other person's qualifications can be used to get more points. The beauty of these approaches is that nobody would feel they brought the other abroad and therefore entitled. Happy new year, friend. May this year bring you closer to your dreams! 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by 2buffagain(m): 5:55pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
samonak: I can see you are still a Nigerian in Nigeria, with backward thinking. All these efulefus making noise about "washing wife undies". Here, it is washing machine we use. Any reasonable man who is not a divorce-bound idiot can put his wife's clothes along with his own in the machine while doing his laundry. Your type will also be the ones where your wife is suffering and cramping while going through her period and you won't help out. Be giving these female people small compassion. These are the micro-things that build up resentment longterm. Stop being clueless. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by samonak(m): 6:54pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
2buffagain: To be frank, a goat has a higher IQ than you. Where in my write up did you hear me mention any thing about sharing house hold chores or responsibilities with a woman making you less of a man? In fact if u refuse to help in sharing the house hold duties with the woman claiming " Alpha male" you cease being a husband and become a tyrant. The point I am trying to say is when men like you, leave everything thing for their wives to do including putting food on the table and taking care of the kids. As a MAN God has given you the sole responsibility of being the head of the family and charting the course the family is to take. Helping your wife with some chores doesn't make u less of a man, it is when you allow her take over your responsibilities that's the issue. Better read very well before spewing thrash. Na so una go de fail exams. Ode |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by bilulu(m): 10:16pm On Jan 16, 2022 |
Exceed15:Oga why u dey pity me? |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Exceed15: 3:22pm On Jan 18, 2022 |
WoundedLamb: Amen |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Oloniyan(m): 3:21pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Klass99: Ma'm I'd love to read the wife's version if i can see the link. thanks |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Klass99(f): 11:20am On Jan 20, 2022 |
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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by adetayoonas(m): 2:02pm On Jan 30, 2022 |
Ndipe: That's a cruel law |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Ndipe(m): 7:35pm On Jan 31, 2022 |
Very cruel indeed. Read this, https://mtlawoffice.com/news/man-in-michigan-owes-child-support-for-child-who-isnt-his adetayoonas: |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by kaymart: 4:43pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
tyup:Nothing wrong? He killed her and u say "nothing wrong"? |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Mandela887(m): 7:25pm On Mar 16, 2022 |
suzyberry:98% of women never take men abroad.... Any woman that brings a man abroad that means she is getting old & no one is ready to marry her in that abroad she is living |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by 1Sharon(f): 6:42am On Mar 24, 2022 |
kaymart: If only you knew |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by kaymart: 6:45am On Mar 24, 2022 |
1Sharon:Pls, tell me what I don't know.... |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 7:25pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
Aaronsrod: But the Holy Spirit is also a helper. Does it mean He is your servant? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by adubam(m): 10:07pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
nenyewrites: He's a superior helper |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 10:14pm On Apr 05, 2022 |
adubam: Superior servant? 1 Like |
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