This isn’t to bash no one.

Far back in the year 2016, I do use these words wrongly but I discovered my boss at work uses it differently, I then took conscious effort to correct this and it’s been working for me.

E.g.,
I’m coming home.
I guess I’m the one you’re talking to?
Am I the one expected to do that?

How to overcome this?
1. Conscious effort.
2. Proof read; even if it’s your chats

Don’t feel bad, just keep it in mind and you’d be fine.

Cheers!