no1madman:

If 1+1=2 . . . .then u got 2 move on.

Read between the lines, best advice

Call him and ask how he is doing. Do not mention anything about the relationship nor the disagreement between the two of you.

silent scream,
i find wislet,
n upendo98's comments,
true!
use ur head!
its ur life!
its ur choice.

On a serious note,

HOPE THE GUY WONT HAVE ANOTHER VERSION TO TELL US

IN MY PLACE WE DONT JUDGE A CASE BY HEARING FROM ONE END.

CAN I HAVE HIS NUMBER?

@op

I won't advise you to quit a relationship you have built over the years.Call your bf and have a one-on-one talk with him.Let him know your feelings and concerns.Effective communication is always the key to a successful relationship.Will you also quit your marriage if you have a misunderstanding with ur hubby?According to you, your bf is a nice guy except this attitude of his.I still think you can handle this.Call him now b4 it's late.

Well, i also like my girl to appreciate things, its always good to acknwledge whtever gud.
But I dnt see the reason he should be making noise over all he has done for u.
Good frnds dnt count wht they have doen for their frnds but wht their frnds have done for them.

Well, call him and talk to him and if he wnt u to be praising him, no big deal give him wht he wnts,
but i find that cheap.

op
how much does he has?
Or
he is just a noisemaker?

Da Doctor:

On a serious note,

HOPE THE GUY WONT HAVE ANOTHER VERSION TO TELL US

IN MY PLACE WE DONT JUDGE A CASE BY HEARING FROM ONE END.

CAN I HAVE HIS NUMBER?

you guys need to sit down and have adult conversation

table all your concerns and deal with maturely

make sure you leave facebook out of it

.

^^Can you translate that into English please.

^^^^^ ;d :d ;d :d

I'm fed up with Nigerian guys

move on with your life

oh not facebok again.

Pls I have sacrificed a lot for this relationship

lmao . . .you never halla
what have you sacrificed?
your pussy or what

^^^ thats so uncalled for

^^ my brother, that's xactly what baffles me when they make such statement. Op, shey na toto wey she offer naim be the sacrifice? Abi u bring down moon for him ni?

Quotin page-up.

Different strokes for different folks. E beat u e no beat u, u complain. Some dey pray make their give them money sef, ur own give u, u dey vex say e remember say e give u. baby thats why u guys are attracted to eachoda. Love no be mouth na action. All u divorce and break up people abeg leave una yeye western message for where una dey. No carry am come naija O! Shows uren't ready for marriage. I'm sure ur guy would know the kind of person he is and his tot might be u can handle him but apparently u can't. 3yrs na beans? U need koboko only I'm wondering what kind would be ideal for the slashing.

the way i see it, he knows how much you love him and is taking advantage of it -- shame on him. Pining for facebook complements frm him is not bad; jst shows you want some attention as do most other women. However, that you dont get the complements on facebook shouldn't make you (too) upset. . .especially if he pays you complements off it. In short i think this is a relationship that can still be salvaged provided you two make some obvious ''sacrifices.''
P.S: you'd do well to ignore 190's comment; it was at the very least chauvanistic and neanderthal.

**chauvinistic**spelling error.

I thought it was my girlfriend that wrote this, I still have to confirm cos all this happened to me but if its not then I have 3 words for you, HE LOVES YOU.

^^^^^

I don't complain about money anyway.

If he does not call you they why don't you call him?

this poster is shameless!, @op are u nt ashamed dat u claim to hav a problem wen actually u hav none?, are u nt ashamed dt u wnt facebook to ruin wt u've built over d years? Are u nt ashamed dt ur bf hav just 1 problem and u still cannot cope? Are u nt ashamed dt ur bf is a giver yet u still fin anoda reason to complain? Finanlly, are u nt ashamed for failin to let us into ur shortcomins in ur relationship? Or are u a perfect being? Let who is free of sin cast d first stone! Am waitin.

wat rubbish,don't dare call him. He is feeling too big,if he dosn't call him,let him go another better one will come.he will not hv respect u again.

wat rubbish,don't dare call him. He is feeling too big,if he dosn't call him,let him go another better one will come.he will not hv respect u again.

[quoteHERE IS MBJ SOLUTION: DONT ACCEPT MONEY FROM HIM ANY LONGER AND ALL YOUR PROBLEMS WILL BE SOLVE INSTANTLY!!!!!][quote][/quote]

FOLLOW THAT SOLUTION.

STOP DEMONIZING THE GUY.  

OK!

sleekman:

Different strokes for different folks. E beat u e no beat u, u complain. Some dey pray make their give them money sef, your own give u, u dey vex say e remember say e give u. baby thats why u guys are attracted to eachoda. Love no be mouth na action. All u divorce and break up people abeg leave una yeye western message for where una dey. No carry am come naija O! Shows uren't ready for marriage. I'm sure your guy would know the kind of person he is and his tot might be u can handle him but apparently u can't. 3yrs na beans? U need koboko only I'm wondering what kind would be ideal for the slashing.

No mind all these women, always complaining about something.

I think you should learn how to be appreciative for every little thing, it does not matter the size of what is done or the amount of money that is given, for him to always tell you that you don't appreciate him/ thank him for what he does for you, you should look into that and change, even if you are with him or not. Maybe you should not ask him for too much, especially when you guys are not yet married, you should be a little independent, instead of him giving everytime, you can give him too in return (not only sexually ooooo). Buy things too for him and study to see if he has that attitude of being grateful for every little thing you do for him.
The Facebook thing, he might be a 'private person' that does not publicize his affection, that does not mean he does not love you, you need to study the type of person he is, watch what he says to other girls, his reaction to them and his reaction to you, Before you can say, someone is ready for marraige and ready to 'marry you' you really have to study the person, make sure his positive attitude is way, more than the negative.

Thanks everyone & for those wondering am sooo far from perfect. Hav been wit him & he hasn't posted post on my wall & dats nt wat I was asking for, I was only teasing & jokingly abt him not putting comment on FB abt me when he does dat for other girls, then he took it serious & then mentioned the money.am a woman, sometimes I need to feel the love from my bf aleast since I can't cheat. As for my sacrifice, if its money I have spent it,I don't even want to remember. Thing is shld wat U̶̲̥̅̊ spend for ur bf/gf be a topic when U̶̲̥̅̊ have a misunderstanding? I may sound needy but am mostly busy & need some little loving to relax.