Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by drightguy(m): 1:39pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Any man who didn't experience marriage is like soldier who didn't set foot on the battlefield. To him a minie ball from Shiloh used in battles is just an artefact but to a combat vet. It's a hunk of metal. Peace 2 Likes |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by phemmyfour: 1:41pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
The5DME: It seems lots of folks in Nigeria are getting married for the wrong reasons, hence the plethora of negative complaints about marriage on frontpage. So I ask again, what are the reasons a man/woman of age should get married? companionship. Loneliness kills |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by MortalKombat(m): 1:42pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Marriage is essential but not compulsory.
Woe betide you if you get married to the wrong person.
Forget the high rate of divorce nowadays,we still have millions of people who are enjoying their marriages all around the world.
If you've ever been heartbroken,don't give up on love.....That person was not just meant for you. |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by emerged01(m): 1:46pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
emmanuelbrown26:
Jah himself regretted creating Eve Proverbs 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD. .....finds favour not a curse |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by Revolva(m): 1:46pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Noting o cos na woman de benefit from marriage
Again this country girls these days aint noting to write home about 1 Like |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Divoc19: That's a yes of course I wouldn't have done it if I knew better. I just realized I could still have it all without getting married To hell with society or church if you have money @ Heathrow44
u re not divorced, u re still married? I would like t get to know u better, well I remember u, u attacked me viciously one time about a comment i made on mercy chinwo and I hope u re changed for the better |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by poweredcom(m): 1:56pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Marry for which naija
When 90 percent na olosho dem be ...eve. the one that is not olosho has a selfish attituted and always entitled and not trusted
@womenareapezz and @savedday come and see this 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by Kwinesther: 2:17pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Nazgul: Marriage is a wonderful thing. The reason why people see it as nonsense is because sexual immorality is as easy as drinking water.
So to your question... reasons why I feel or want to get married are.
1. Companionship. There are times when you would want to talk to someone, just sit, talk and pour out what's bothering you to a listening ear. With the right spouse, you'll always enjoy geninue companionship, enjoy gossips together. Baby Mamas or olosho cannot give you this cos what you have with them is purely transactional.
2. It lowers your risks of contacting STDs. An older cousin of mind told me that for the past 12 years he's been married he has never been treated for any STD. If you're married to a faithful partner, and you're faithful to your partner as well, you would never suffer from STDs.
With Baby Mamas or oloshos your heart would always race wherever you develop any strange feeling or symptom after having sex with them. I've read countless topics here on Nairaland where the guy in question would tell us how the condom bursted and he wasn't aware and how he started seeing some rashes on his manhood. Such a person would never have peace of mind until after a medical test. A marriage to a good spouse eliminates all that.
3. You can plan together . I'll use my parents as an example. When my dad was building his house in the village, my mom contributed a great deal to it. Even the first car he bought which was a Jetta volkswagen, as I grew older I learnt that it was actually my mom who bought the car for him, because he had so much on his hands and didn't want to miss the car, and the funny thing was that my mom never mentioned it not even once, it was my dad who told me.
With the right spouse, you can achieve a lot together, you can build, set up businesses, invest together and support each other. Olosho or baby Mamas cannot give you this cos whatever business you setup for them is theirs and theirs alone. And wouldn't support you with a penny when things go south for you.
4. Raising your kids together . Raising kids alone is very tasking. I have a 4 year old nephew (he'll be 5 this year) who I try to use to see what parenting looks like. There was a time his mom (my cousin) came with him to spend the weekend in my place (Friday to Sunday), that was when I understood that it takes more than depositing your semen into a hole to raise kids.
From waking him up, to bathing the child, to actually spending ample time together with him talking and bonding...this isn't something a baby mama can do. It takes being married to the right person for you to achieve this.
5. Eating good food . This night I just came back from buying beans (elewa) and bread. Most times I feel very lazy to go into the kitchen, there are times I can stay up to 6 months without visiting my kitchen.
As a married man, your wife would spoil you with good food, not the junks you've been struggling with during your bachelor days. The first time I ate Nkwobi in my life, was in my uncle's house, and it was prepared by his wife. Imagine having a wife who can prepare all that, believe me, by 6pm you're home cos you'd be perceiving her food right from your office. Awwwnnnn! Sweet something. God made marriage so beautiful. Can't wait... |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by Divoc19(f): 2:20pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
I don't attack people. That is definitely not me Heathrow44:
u re not divorced, u re still married? I would like t get to know u better, well I remember u, u attacked me viciously one time about a comment i made on mercy chinwo and I hope u re changed for the better |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Divoc19: I don't attack people. That is definitely not me
u were, check ur old posts, I was attacked by u for my opinion, but anyways is alright, are u still Married then? despite u wishing u didn't dare enter marriage |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 2:45pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
2ndchildhood: He's single and still has it all He doesn't have it all. Don't confuse "having money" to "enjoying true companionship". CR7 would have loved to enjoy true companionship like his own father, however - he has not been lucky to find a woman like his darling mum. Men Marry Women Who have nearly the same Attributes Like their Darling Mothers. (Here is A Natural Orientation that you should Consciously Know Now). CR7 doesn't enjoy Releasing His TRUST To Any Woman because He FEARS That They Will ONLY Care About His Money. However; Things are gradually changing for him now as He is getting to Settle Down as He ages. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 2:48pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
2ndchildhood: He's single and still has it all He doesn't have it all. Don't confuse "having money" to "enjoying true companionship". CR7 would have loved to enjoy true companionship like his own father, however - he has not been lucky to find a woman like his darling mum. Men Marry Women Who have nearly the same Attributes Like their Darling Mothers. (Here is A Natural Orientation that you should Consciously Know Now). CR7 doesn't enjoy Releasing His TRUST To Any Woman because He FEARS That They Will ONLY Care About His Money. However; Things are gradually changing for him now as He is getting to Settle Down as He ages. |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by ChronicGp(m): 2:51pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Free Sex anytime � |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 2:56pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
PoliteActivist:
Only a single person can be this authoritative about marriage being wonderful. (See quote below). A married man can only write this if his wife is reading while he writes
Marriage CAN be a good thing (never wonderful) with the right person, but even then it is still dampened by the fact you are trading your freedom and private space for it!
True. It is a worthy sacrifice that elevates you into more advanced mandated responsibilities. Many People who want to remain single do so to run away from the surface responsibilities. It is when you get in that you truly know that you are in for the real deal of redefining yourself to becoming "not just a husband" but a "providing father". 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 3:03pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Nazgul: Marriage is a wonderful thing. The reason why people see it as nonsense is because sexual immorality is as easy as drinking water.
So to your question... reasons why I feel or want to get married are.
1. Companionship. There are times when you would want to talk to someone, just sit, talk and pour out what's bothering you to a listening ear. With the right spouse, you'll always enjoy geninue companionship, enjoy gossips together. Baby Mamas or olosho cannot give you this cos what you have with them is purely transactional.
2. It lowers your risks of contacting STDs. An older cousin of mind told me that for the past 12 years he's been married he has never been treated for any STD. If you're married to a faithful partner, and you're faithful to your partner as well, you would never suffer from STDs.
With Baby Mamas or oloshos your heart would always race wherever you develop any strange feeling or symptom after having sex with them. I've read countless topics here on Nairaland where the guy in question would tell us how the condom bursted and he wasn't aware and how he started seeing some rashes on his manhood. Such a person would never have peace of mind until after a medical test. A marriage to a good spouse eliminates all that.
3. You can plan together . I'll use my parents as an example. When my dad was building his house in the village, my mom contributed a great deal to it. Even the first car he bought which was a Jetta volkswagen, as I grew older I learnt that it was actually my mom who bought the car for him, because he had so much on his hands and didn't want to miss the car, and the funny thing was that my mom never mentioned it not even once, it was my dad who told me.
With the right spouse, you can achieve a lot together, you can build, set up businesses, invest together and support each other. Olosho or baby Mamas cannot give you this cos whatever business you setup for them is theirs and theirs alone. And wouldn't support you with a penny when things go south for you.
4. Raising your kids together . Raising kids alone is very tasking. I have a 4 year old nephew (he'll be 5 this year) who I try to use to see what parenting looks like. There was a time his mom (my cousin) came with him to spend the weekend in my place (Friday to Sunday), that was when I understood that it takes more than depositing your semen into a hole to raise kids.
From waking him up, to bathing the child, to actually spending ample time together with him talking and bonding...this isn't something a baby mama can do. It takes being married to the right person for you to achieve this.
5. Eating good food . This night I just came back from buying beans (elewa) and bread. Most times I feel very lazy to go into the kitchen, there are times I can stay up to 6 months without visiting my kitchen.
As a married man, your wife would spoil you with good food, not the junks you've been struggling with during your bachelor days. The first time I ate Nkwobi in my life, was in my uncle's house, and it was prepared by his wife. Imagine having a wife who can prepare all that, believe me, by 6pm you're home cos you'd be perceiving her food right from your office. Liked, Shared and Followed. What did PoliteActivist write about this ? I would really love to read it. He writes nicely and wisely. |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 3:03pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Nazgul: Marriage is a wonderful thing. The reason why people see it as nonsense is because sexual immorality is as easy as drinking water.
So to your question... reasons why I feel or want to get married are.
1. Companionship. There are times when you would want to talk to someone, just sit, talk and pour out what's bothering you to a listening ear. With the right spouse, you'll always enjoy geninue companionship, enjoy gossips together. Baby Mamas or olosho cannot give you this cos what you have with them is purely transactional.
2. It lowers your risks of contacting STDs. An older cousin of mind told me that for the past 12 years he's been married he has never been treated for any STD. If you're married to a faithful partner, and you're faithful to your partner as well, you would never suffer from STDs.
With Baby Mamas or oloshos your heart would always race wherever you develop any strange feeling or symptom after having sex with them. I've read countless topics here on Nairaland where the guy in question would tell us how the condom bursted and he wasn't aware and how he started seeing some rashes on his manhood. Such a person would never have peace of mind until after a medical test. A marriage to a good spouse eliminates all that.
3. You can plan together . I'll use my parents as an example. When my dad was building his house in the village, my mom contributed a great deal to it. Even the first car he bought which was a Jetta volkswagen, as I grew older I learnt that it was actually my mom who bought the car for him, because he had so much on his hands and didn't want to miss the car, and the funny thing was that my mom never mentioned it not even once, it was my dad who told me.
With the right spouse, you can achieve a lot together, you can build, set up businesses, invest together and support each other. Olosho or baby Mamas cannot give you this cos whatever business you setup for them is theirs and theirs alone. And wouldn't support you with a penny when things go south for you.
4. Raising your kids together . Raising kids alone is very tasking. I have a 4 year old nephew (he'll be 5 this year) who I try to use to see what parenting looks like. There was a time his mom (my cousin) came with him to spend the weekend in my place (Friday to Sunday), that was when I understood that it takes more than depositing your semen into a hole to raise kids.
From waking him up, to bathing the child, to actually spending ample time together with him talking and bonding...this isn't something a baby mama can do. It takes being married to the right person for you to achieve this.
5. Eating good food . This night I just came back from buying beans (elewa) and bread. Most times I feel very lazy to go into the kitchen, there are times I can stay up to 6 months without visiting my kitchen.
As a married man, your wife would spoil you with good food, not the junks you've been struggling with during your bachelor days. The first time I ate Nkwobi in my life, was in my uncle's house, and it was prepared by his wife. Imagine having a wife who can prepare all that, believe me, by 6pm you're home cos you'd be perceiving her food right from your office. Liked, Shared and Followed. What did PoliteActivist write about this ? I would really love to read it. He writes and debates nicely and wisely. I Believe This is The Ultimate Reason For Starting Threads like this. For Debates And Sensitizations. |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by karmaolu1(m): 3:05pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
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Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by sofiscatedmoron: 3:05pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
PoliteActivist:
But you can have both without being married But u have it more when married |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by sofiscatedmoron: 3:07pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
2ndchildhood: He's single and still has it all Try it now,if u are c Ronaldo,u tell us |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by Abbeytoy(m): 3:11pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Kaiser20: I mean the children's welfare, do you have enough to pay for Baby Mama/papa I am not encouraging baby man or whatever, I am only stating the obvious. Anyway, baby mama is more cheaper |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by MessiahOfAfrica(m): 3:29pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
bluefilm: As a guy, there is absolutely no reason at all to get married.
This is because marriage will rob you off all your freedom.
Your life will all be automatically reduced to taking care of your wife and your children until you are no longer able to do that.
If that is what you want for yourself, then go for it.
But as a lady...
You get married so that you can level up your status in the society.
People tend to treat married and unmarried ladies differently most especially when it comes to giving them respect, with the married ladies being given more respect than their unmarried counterparts. Constitutionally and Politically, As A Man, You need to get Married inorder for you to run any Political Office. So, This is One Important Aspect To Level Up As A Man. So, You are Wrong to Say Marriage will Rob You off All Your Freedom. When You Grow Up from Being A Boy into A Man, You'll Understand How To Position Your Woman and Lead Her Nearly The Way You Want. It takes Time, because Women aren't Wired like Us; However - it is worth it. So, Women aren't Bondage To Reduce You Except You aren't Spiritually and Psychologically Matured Enough To Manifest and Manoeuver Them For Your Glory. Wives of Bill Gates, Dangote, Peter Obi, Tinubu, Atiku are All Women Who Are Reproduced and Are Reproducing The Energies of Their Husbands even if The Case of Divorce springs up. Marriage is An Institution. You cannot clearly Understand or Relate About Any Institution if you do not or are not passing through it. |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by rickleye: 3:32pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Nazgul: Marriage is a wonderful thing. The reason why people see it as nonsense is because sexual immorality is as easy as drinking water.
So to your question... reasons why I feel or want to get married are.
1. Companionship. There are times when you would want to talk to someone, just sit, talk and pour out what's bothering you to a listening ear. With the right spouse, you'll always enjoy geninue companionship, enjoy gossips together. Baby Mamas or olosho cannot give you this cos what you have with them is purely transactional.
2. It lowers your risks of contacting STDs. An older cousin of mind told me that for the past 12 years he's been married he has never been treated for any STD. If you're married to a faithful partner, and you're faithful to your partner as well, you would never suffer from STDs.
With Baby Mamas or oloshos your heart would always race wherever you develop any strange feeling or symptom after having sex with them. I've read countless topics here on Nairaland where the guy in question would tell us how the condom bursted and he wasn't aware and how he started seeing some rashes on his manhood. Such a person would never have peace of mind until after a medical test. A marriage to a good spouse eliminates all that.
3. You can plan together . I'll use my parents as an example. When my dad was building his house in the village, my mom contributed a great deal to it. Even the first car he bought which was a Jetta volkswagen, as I grew older I learnt that it was actually my mom who bought the car for him, because he had so much on his hands and didn't want to miss the car, and the funny thing was that my mom never mentioned it not even once, it was my dad who told me.
With the right spouse, you can achieve a lot together, you can build, set up businesses, invest together and support each other. Olosho or baby Mamas cannot give you this cos whatever business you setup for them is theirs and theirs alone. And wouldn't support you with a penny when things go south for you.
4. Raising your kids together . Raising kids alone is very tasking. I have a 4 year old nephew (he'll be 5 this year) who I try to use to see what parenting looks like. There was a time his mom (my cousin) came with him to spend the weekend in my place (Friday to Sunday), that was when I understood that it takes more than depositing your semen into a hole to raise kids.
From waking him up, to bathing the child, to actually spending ample time together with him talking and bonding...this isn't something a baby mama can do. It takes being married to the right person for you to achieve this.
5. Eating good food . This night I just came back from buying beans (elewa) and bread. Most times I feel very lazy to go into the kitchen, there are times I can stay up to 6 months without visiting my kitchen.
As a married man, your wife would spoil you with good food, not the junks you've been struggling with during your bachelor days. The first time I ate Nkwobi in my life, was in my uncle's house, and it was prepared by his wife. Imagine having a wife who can prepare all that, believe me, by 6pm you're home cos you'd be perceiving her food right from your office. Not that I necessarily disagree with your points but lets debunk them - Eating good Food - You assume the woman or lady can cook. I know a lot of people whose significant other cannot cook good food. Its mostly processed food or buying food outside. They both work long hours. - Raising Kids together - Yep, but where the man or woman works in the medical field with long hours . The kids rarely know their parents as he is always busy with this or that. - Plan together - How many couples have joint accounts where purchases are done in both names ? There are many relationships where everything is in the man's name and when he passes on , the family members jump and attempt to leave the woman out in the cold. Since she has nothing to her name. - Lowers risk of STD - hmm, there was a story here where a married woman hid the fact that she was using HIV drugs and sleeping with her husband. We know of married woman and men having affairs unprotected and then sleeping with each other. Lowering STD is not a fact without using a condom. - Companionship - There are many people who are in a relationship yet leave separate lives. They don't understand or share common goals. Like 2 strangers sharing a bed and nothing else. If I were to poll 100 people and ask . What's there S.O fav colour, movie, food, vacation destination, etc. only 40% would know. |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 3:36pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
PHIPEX: Synergy, many people underestimate the power of synergy. 2 good heads will always be better than 1.
A good couple will outperform a single parent in all ramifications under same condition. Marriage acts like a team in all aspect of human engagement and a good team outperforms a single player.
What has marriage to do with this. Don't you have synergy whenever two or more people are working together? Do they have to be married? Then there are dysfunctional marriages with opposite of synergy |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by smart177: 3:37pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
PoliteActivist:
Wrong! You can have both without being married Kindly explain how can one get companionship without ever getting married.? PoliteActivist:
Wrong! You can have both without being married Kindly explain how can one get companionship without ever getting married.? |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by emmanuelbrown26: 3:51pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
emerged01:
Proverbs 18:22
He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the LORD.
.....finds favour not a curse But it's in d Christian Bible na, Jah regretted creating woman after woman went to d serpent for an apple |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by SugarGirl44(f): 3:53pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
Some woke people are against marriage and having kids, my advice is for them to check how miserable old people who refused to get married and have kids are. There’s no need for long talks. |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by emerged01(m): 3:57pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
emmanuelbrown26:
But it's in d Christian Bible na, Jah regretted creating woman after woman went to d serpent for an apple Quote the scripture make I learn na |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 3:58pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
bluefilm: As a guy, there is absolutely no reason at all to get married.
This is because marriage will rob you of your freedom.
Your life will all be automatically reduced to taking care of your wife and your children until you are no longer able to do that.
If that is what you want for yourself, then go for it.
Well said |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 4:01pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
abobote: Children children children and children Ronaldo Davido Whizkid etc |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by respect80(m): 4:04pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
There is no reason to get married at all. Just keep playing... Dey play |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by emmanuelbrown26: 4:05pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
emerged01:
Quote the scripture make I learn na Oga go back to d Christian book and read it |
Re: What Are The Reasons One Should Get Married? by PoliteActivist: 4:07pm On Jan 09, 2023 |
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