Not that i'm stingy o, but there is this my friend that anytime i tell him to join me when i'm eating, he dosn't waste time to wash his hand or pick spoon to help me finish my food with me.. even if the food is very small, he won't consider it..

If the food is not enough, i will not mind.. But he dosn't care whether the food small or not..

And i'm not that type that will bring out food and won't ask you to join, even though i don't mean it..

E be like say i go dey stop to ask him to join me oo..

I'm not saying you are stingy o, but should incase you don't want someone to join you when you're about eating, what will you do?

stop saying come and join me

Your friend na long throat.

Mariangeles:
Your friend na long throat.

as in eh.. Him no dey understand say the come join no be serious one.

Mariangeles:
Your friend na long throat.

E get as e go be say i wan eat and i no tell am come join..

Mylordmygod1:
Not that i'm stingy o, but there is this my friend that anytime i tell him to join me when i'm eating, he dosn't waste time to wash his hand or pick spoon to help me finish my food with me.. even if the food is very small, he won't consider it..

If the food is not enough, i will not mind.. But he dosn't care whether the food small or not..

And i'm not that type that will bring out food and won't ask you to join, even though i don't mean it..

E be like say i go dey stop to ask him to join me oo..

I'm not saying you are stingy o, but should incase you don't want someone to join you when you're about eating, what will you do?

Just get enough next time. There is hunger in Nigeria.

Why invite someone to join you when you don't actually mean it?

Don't even try to condemn the guy because he didn't ask you for food. You invited him and he did nothing wrong by joining you. So, can't blame him knowing full well theres hunger in the land.
Who would see an opportunity to quench hunger this period and not jump at it?

If he was of the habit of dipping hands into your food uninvited, it would have been a different thing but that doesn't seem to be the case here. So

Abeg free the guy and stop calling him to join you.

Ladycewhy:
some phrases are for formalities.

Come and join me
How are you?


They are not really meant by the person saying it. It's just formalities.

So most times, the replies are

Come and join me --- thank you
How are you? --- I'm fine .

That's a delicate phrase to use in this period and shouldn't be abused otherwise you face the consequence.

Mercychen:
Why invite someone to join you when you don't actually mean it?

Don't even try to condemn the guy because he didn't ask you for food. You invited him and he did nothing wrong by joining you. So, can't blame him knowing full well theres hunger in the land.
Who would see an opportunity to quench hunger this period and not jump at it?

If he was of the habit of dipping hands into your food uninvited, it would have been a different thing but that doesn't seem to be the case here. So

Abeg free the guy and stop calling him to join you.

so even if it is three seed of rice, there is nothing wrong with it abi?

Mylordmygod1:
so even if it is three seed of rice, there is nothing wrong with it abi?

Lol.. Why would you even invite someone to three seeds of rice? Na wa o...

No make me laugh, abeg.

Mariangeles:
Your friend na long throat.

.see them. "Judgiana."
Later she'll say someone is judgmental.

You never do long throat for your life before?
Come here and be forming madam perfect.

Biko, acho kwam otutu okwu na ututu a.

I'm out!

Mercychen:


Lol.. Why would you even invite someone to three seeds of rice? Na wa o...

No make laugh, abeg.

be sincere, if your friend ask you to join her knowing well that the food will not be enough for her alone, what will you do?

Mylordmygod1:
be sincere, if your friend ask you to join her knowing well that the food will not be enough for her alone, what will you do?

I would simply say thank you because I know she can't prolly be serious about me joining her in that small food. However, one thing you should know is, we all are not the same therefore won't reason the same way or view things from the same angle. While your friend may not see anything wrong in it, I might think otherwise but that doesn't make him bad. It's a matter of choice.

Mercychen:


I would simply say thank you because I know she can't prolly be serious about me joining her in that small food. However, one thing you should know is, we all are not the same therefore won't reason the same way or view things from the same angle. While your friend may not see anything wrong in it, I might think otherwise but that doesn't make him bad. It's a matter of choice.

i'm not saying he is bad, just that he dosn't understand that come and join is of two types, * the one you mean it, and the one you don't mean it..
imagine how you will feel if you have that type of friend.

Mylordmygod1:

i'm not saying he is bad, just that he dosn't understand that come and join is of two types, * the one you mean it, and the one you don't mean it..
imagine how you will feel if you have that type of friend.

I know but how about not calling him when you don't mean it?

Look, I don't pretend. Those days, if my food was small and a friend was around, I'll just carry my plate in my hands. That way they know this is for only me.

If I want to offer you food, I'll simply dish yours separately and serve you.

Exactly the type of friends that i have.. I always make sure say my door and windows are properly locked when ever i'm eating.. Things are costly abeg.

Lalasticlala, abeg take this post to the front page, because almost all my friends they follow nairaland.. Make them understand say no be all come and join be come and join..

Mercychen:


I know but how about not calling him when you don't mean it?

Look, I don't pretend. Those days, if my food was small and a friend was around, I'll just carry my plate in my hands. That way they know this is for only me.

If I want to offer you food, I'll simply dish yours separately and serve you.

if you don't call them, they will see you like say you be bad person because that come and join is just a way of telling someone that u're about to eat, but instead of them to say thank u, they will just wash hand sharp sharp..

Radionigeria:
if you don't call them, they will see you like say you be bad person because that come and join is just a way of telling someone that u're about to eat, but instead of them to say thank u, they will just wash hand sharp sharp..

Lol.. na wa o.

Mercychen:


I know but how about not calling him when you don't mean it?

Look, I don't pretend. Those days, if my food was small and a friend was around, I'll just carry my plate in my hands. That way they know this is for only me.

If I want to offer you food, I'll simply dish yours separately and serve you.

so if your friend find u come and you're about to eat, yot go just carry food come out and began to eat just like that? Hmmm, between u and your friend, who's then longer throut?

Mercychen:

Lol.. na wa o.

maybe na now you they understand the matter.

If i ask you to join me and you start to wash your hand, before you wash that hand finish i done cover my food carry am go back inside.. You dey mad! For this buhari regime

Mercychen:

!

Bia! Gini butere nzuzu ahu?

Mariangeles:

Bia! Gini butere nzuzu ahu?

gini ne me, weli nwayo bikonu..

Mylordmygod1:
Not that i'm stingy o, but there is this my friend that anytime i tell him to join me when i'm eating, he dosn't waste time to wash his hand or pick spoon to help me finish my food with me.. even if the food is very small, he won't consider it..

If the food is not enough, i will not mind.. But he dosn't care whether the food small or not..

And i'm not that type that will bring out food and won't ask you to join, even though i don't mean it..

E be like say i go dey stop to ask him to join me oo..

I'm not saying you are stingy o, but should incase you don't want someone to join you when you're about eating, what will you do?

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Mariangeles:


Bia! Gini butere nzuzu ahu?

Get lost!

Mylordmygod1:
so if your friend find u come and you're about to eat, yot go just carry food come out and began to eat just like that? Hmmm, between u and your friend, who's then longer throut?

Read again. I said those days. Besides if its now and it's the last pot, I'll go and buy him/her drinks. Must they eat out of my food?

However, if I still have some left in the pot, I'll serve him separately. Haba!

Mercychen:


Read again. I said those days. Besides if its now and it's the last pot, I'll go and buy him/her drinks. Must they eat out of my food?

However, if I still have some left in the pot, I'll serve him separately. Haba!

ok..

Mercychen:


Read again. I said those days. Besides if its now and it's the last pot, I'll go and buy him/her drinks. Must they eat out of my food?

However, if I still have some left in the pot, I'll serve him separately. Haba!

no worry, i go carry my spoon for my pocket come visit u one day, make i kno whether u go fit tell me make i stop to eat even though u no call me! Haha

Mylordmygod1:
no worry, i go carry my spoon for my pocket come visit u one day, make i kno whether u go fit tell me make i stop to eat even though u no call me! Haha

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Mercychen:

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na joke o

Mylordmygod1:
na joke o

I know .

Mercychen:

Obi ga kpogbu gi!
O nwebeghi ihe I huru! I ka n'ebido.
Onye oshioshio obi!