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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by studentofTruth: 7:06am On Nov 16, 2021
Legends don't talk much. No time to shalaye!

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by studentofTruth: 7:09am On Nov 16, 2021
Lee29:

You're not an atheist but simply a rebellious soul who refuse to submit to the supreme authority over all.

Can you prove the so-called supreme authority?

Let's get an amputee so your supreme authority can authorize the limb to regrow in our presence.
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by iamtardey: 7:10am On Nov 16, 2021
lipsrsealed
Haykinsofficial:


U dive into a water-less pool?! Shey u wear bra for face ni?
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by 1Sharon(f): 7:25am On Nov 16, 2021
SaveMeLord:

You serve a food monster? And you are happy? Say the truth. Are you really happy with your present master. A mere food monster undecided what has it done for you?

Don't you dare blaspheme my God lest he smite you.

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Ofadaman(m): 7:25am On Nov 16, 2021
FanOfMyself:

Which tribe are you from and what's the tribe of this your friend.

I'm Igbo, he's Yoruba

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Ofadaman(m): 7:26am On Nov 16, 2021
irijuola:


This one weak me. If na me, one day when he starts consoling and admonishing me, I'll just start with parables that will be hitting him in the right places. Human beings!!!!

I think it's safer to keep your frenemies closer

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Ofadaman(m): 7:27am On Nov 16, 2021
Kirkman:

You calm aswear if na me when he comes one of these days with his pretentious consolations I will give him a brain resetting slap and tell him to geddifock out of my line of sight.

Lolz, I don't want to rock the boat, I'd keep telling him what he wants to hear until I'm out of that place

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by vickydevoka(m): 7:27am On Nov 16, 2021
MeghaneMorgane:
The only people I open up to are people that I know can help me solve my problem. If you can’t proffer me a solution, forget about it.

When I’m in a very tough situation, I tell just my parents.

I have one principle I follow: If I tell you anything, it’s because I’m ok with other people hearing about it. When I don’t want anyone to know about it, I tell nobody
This is the comment I love most. Very honest you are. Everybody especially ladies, have one person de open up to. Unless u are living a fake Life (not wanting people to knw de real u)
What I don't do is that, I don't tell people what will hurt me if hear it outside. I'm de last person that will tell u something n ask u not to tell anybody else ( bcuz I knw human being must tell). Though b4 I use to tell my siblings some secret about myself m ask Dem not to tell anybody else, still de will tell my other siblings n ask them not to let me know.
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Aguiyimba(m): 7:28am On Nov 16, 2021
I trusted one like that, told her everything about me she took advantage of my weekness do me strong things well God is alive anyways

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by studentofTruth: 7:30am On Nov 16, 2021
Ofadaman:

I think it's safer to keep your frenemies closer
Exactly. Play their own game on them.
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Ofadaman(m): 7:37am On Nov 16, 2021
irijuola:


This one weak me. If na me, one day when he starts consoling and admonishing me, I'll just start with parables that will be hitting him in the right places. Human beings!!!!

Lol, you mean o, the thing is, the guy has been there for me when I needed help before, and he gives good advice, but I'm beginning to see him for what he is, he'd be happy to see me do well but not better than him. This new job will make me earn trice as much as he earns and he's struggling to believe that I'm be the one in a position to offer help to him, he's always known it all, I took all his advice, I just figured be didn't just want me to grow above him in any way. I see how he brings this job thing up so frequently in every discussion we have, if for instance, we go get food to it, he'd say stuff like 'in few weeks now, you go done get money to they order food for me', every conservation ends up with me getting the job and earning better", no matter how I try to avoid the conversation. He's drowning in envy and I'm worried that I need to avoid him before he does something unimaginable ,I'm scared

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Vipro(m): 7:39am On Nov 16, 2021
Kobojunkie:
So where in the Bible did Jesus Christ in fact state that for His followers, depression will never last longer than it did for Him? undecided

By the way, do you know approximately how long David's. Elijah's, Job's, Joseph's, or even Daniel's depression periods lasted? undecided

P.S. Jeremiah is one person that it is clear His depression lasted a very long time that it even earned him the nickname the "wailing prophet" though. undecided
How come you know all these stories?

Well being an atheist is just a way to satisfy one's evil deed,if I may say.

Get close to Jesus
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Kajaard: 7:49am On Nov 16, 2021
Lollittaa:
if you aren't a cynic, and a know-it-all for a day, will you die?

That dude talks too much. Jeez.
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by chuksp09(m): 7:50am On Nov 16, 2021
Ofadaman:
Told a close colleague I'd be resigning and moving to a new job gave him details about the new company, colleague legit sorted out my prospective employer info, and called them to inform them that he's also interested in the job and he has more to offer than me, since he's has more experience , dude also told them I lied about my achievements, new HR called me to inquire, I was shocked but the HR told me ,I need to be careful about whom I speak to about my job searched until I've signed an agreement.
Colleague also reported to my line supervisor who has made life really hard for me, even though I know about his betrayal I've never mentioned to him that I knew what he did, instead I just wonder how callous people can be, he constantly ask about the status of my new job and consoles me whenever my supervisor acts up.
Damn!
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Nobody: 7:54am On Nov 16, 2021
brightfuture24:
Nigerian atheists are the funniest set of people in the world grin. An embarrassment to the global society of atheists. The most misinformed, misdirected and confused-as-hell wannabe bunch. I can't stop laughing o.

Y'all are nothing but a bandwagon of unintentional comedians, always on the offensive, consistently fighting, dragging, arguing, claiming they don't believe in God yet spending the entirety of their lives in back and forth ridiculous, ramble-studded arguments about God.

Look at this one right here. She even quotes the Bible to make her point. How shameful. Awon atheist, you're one of those that will start calling on God to "prove you wrong about his existence" whenever you're in some tight corner. Sis, rest. Atheism isn't a joke for gullible, confused kids.

Atheism is not a religion like yours... If I don't believe in God, I don't believe in God... It's simple...

I quoted the Bible on a romance thread... undecided

What's my business with Christians? You didn't get what I did with the quotes, then you're daft...

Atleast, I'm not an African retārd like you who expects the Arab in the sky to solve my problems.. African Christians are the dumbest sets of humans on this entire planet... undecided

We wonder why Africans made good slaves...
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by neonbash0: 7:56am On Nov 16, 2021
I've never been one to open up to people. I'm what you call a working story.

If I meet a person, I literally can detect what impression you have of me and I'd total my fabricated life's story to that end.

I don't think I even know who I am. Other than the fact that I can fabricate stories. I literally love when folks think the worst of me. Don't know why but I love it.

People love to hear the misery of others. And i can cook up as many self loathing tales outta my ass for them to fill a football pitch and then I sit back and laugh when they start spreading those tales of my supposed misery.



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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by chuksp09(m): 8:02am On Nov 16, 2021
neonbash0:
I've never been one to open up to people. I'm what you call a working story.
If I meet a person, I literally can detect what impression you have of me and I'd total my fabricated life's story to that end.
I don't think I even know who I am. Other than the fact that I can fabricate stories. I literally love when folks think the worst of me. Don't know why but I love it.
People love to hear the misery of others. And i can cook up as many self loathing tales outta my ass for them to fill a football pitch and then I sit back and laugh when they start spreading those tales of my supposed misery.
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Ain't that a bitch?�
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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by studentofTruth: 8:05am On Nov 16, 2021
Ofadaman:


Lol, you mean o, the thing is, the guy has been there for me when I needed help before, and he gives good advice, but I'm beginning to see him for what he is, he'd be happy to see me do well but not better than him. This new job will make me earn trice as much as he earns and he's struggling to believe that I'm be the one in a position to offer help to him, he's always known it all, I took all his advice, I just figured be didn't just want me to grow above him in any way. I see how he brings this job thing up so frequently in every discussion we have, if for instance, we go get food to it, he'd say stuff like 'in few weeks now, you go done get money to they order food for me', every conservation ends up with me getting the job and earning better", no matter how I try to avoid the conversation. He's drowning in envy and I'm worried that I need to avoid him before he does something unimaginable ,I'm scared

Calm down. Don't let anyone rob you of your peace.

Just continue keeping calm. What's yours will be yours.
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by FanOfMyself: 8:19am On Nov 16, 2021
Ofadaman:


I'm Igbo, he's Yoruba
They are very jealous and envious people. Be at guard whenever you are around any Yoruba man. I prefer Fulani to them.
Nwannem

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by NoToPile: 8:52am On Nov 16, 2021
Ofadaman:


Lol, you mean o, the thing is, the guy has been there for me when I needed help before, and he gives good advice, but I'm beginning to see him for what he is, he'd be happy to see me do well but not better than him. This new job will make me earn trice as much as he earns and he's struggling to believe that I'm be the one in a position to offer help to him, he's always known it all, I took all his advice, I just figured be didn't just want me to grow above him in any way. I see how he brings this job thing up so frequently in every discussion we have, if for instance, we go get food to it, he'd say stuff like 'in few weeks now, you go eatdone get money to they order food for me', every conservation ends up with me getting the job and earning better", no matter how I try to avoid the conversation. He's drowning in envy and I'm worried that I need to avoid him before he does something unimaginable ,I'm scared

Avoid him, people like that are terrible and can kill. I pray you get the job an leave , then keep him at arm's length abeg oo.
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by NoToPile: 8:57am On Nov 16, 2021
FanOfMyself:

They are very jealous and envious people. Be at guard whenever you are around any Yoruba man. I prefer Fulani to them.
Nwannem


No need to bring tribal issue to this

The most envious ,jealous and bitter person I ever met is an Igbo lady I lived with during NYSC and I definitely cannot say 'they are jealous and envious people'
because that is her own personality.

That lady showed me pepper
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Nobody: 9:18am On Nov 16, 2021
Datboredberry:
Atheism is not a religion like yours... If I don't believe in God, I don't believe in God... It's simple...

I quoted the Bible on a romance thread... undecided

What's my business with Christians? You didn't get what I did with the quotes, then you're daft...

Atleast, I'm not an African retārd like you who expects the Arab in the sky to solve my problems.. African Christians are the dumbest sets of humans on this entire planet... undecided

We wonder why Africans made good slaves...
You think you're corny, sarcastic or smart with that quotes thing? Nah, little girl. Just made yourself look more ridiculous than you actually are, and that's saying something.

People like you amuse me. Let me guess, you're not more than 19 and you probably read some shit article online that led to your so-called atheism. Rest, girl. This is getting dry.

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by jaiyeorie: 9:19am On Nov 16, 2021
Abiodun is not well o - Toke Makinwa vs Falz How much?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSlMnqMHFek
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by BabaIbo: 9:30am On Nov 16, 2021
Zico777:

Starbucks don get owner o!


She has only one original owner which is God.

Owner i.e married or dating?
If it is the former, she is off my observation(sight) but if it is the latter, that one no consign me i.e she is as good as single in my sight and that may make me more determined.
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Nobody: 9:30am On Nov 16, 2021
brightfuture24:
You think you're corny, sarcastic or smart with that quotes thing? Nah, little girl. Just made yourself look more ridiculous than you actually are, and that's saying something.

People like you amuse me. Let me guess, you're not more than 19 and you probably read some shit article online that led to your so-called atheism. Rest, girl. This is getting dry.
No... I'm not trying to be smart... My point is simply this: if your Christian God regards the beings he created as swines who are despicablely wicked, who am I to think otherwise of you folks... undecided

Typical of a Christian to think I had to 'read' something to have my views on religion... undecided

You have a brain... You've experienced life... You don't need a book to tell you what to believe...

I don't believe in your fictional, egoistic, murderous God... If you do, that's your business... I don't judge every gullible dimwit...

My opinion of religion is my business...

Take your evangelism and shove it deep up your despicable ass... If you look at the sky and see the Arab you worship up there, that's your concern... Psycho.
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by BabaIbo: 9:32am On Nov 16, 2021
brightfuture24:
You think you're corny, sarcastic or smart with that quotes thing? Nah, little girl. Just made yourself look more ridiculous than you actually are, and that's saying something.

People like you amuse me. Let me guess, you're not more than 19 and you probably read some shit article online that led to your so-called atheism. Rest, girl. This is getting dry.


Ignore her please, replying her will make her feel important.
You suppose know sey na be everybody dey dey give attention for this forum.

You should know she is either a kid or a male using a female's gender online.

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Shemadex(m): 9:37am On Nov 16, 2021
Opeyemiextra:
Because it was used against me and I lost things and people as a result. Considering the fact that I don't discuss myself with people, I don't know how I 'lose guard' with this one. She really dealt with me and was the one still consoling me before I got to know everything that happened.

Whenever I remember the whole incident, I fear people and the extent they can go. Because of this, I am extra careful with humans especially the very religious ones. They hide a lot under that disguise.
thruth sister
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Zico777(m): 10:20am On Nov 16, 2021
BabaIbo:


She has only one original owner which is God.

Owner i.e married or dating?
If it is the former, she is off my observation(sight) but if it is the latter, that one no consign me i.e she is as good as single in my sight and that may make me more determined.
The latter of course!
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by SeriouslySense(m): 11:39am On Nov 16, 2021
Yes, you become an object of pity, which is not necessary. Or a subject to talk about.

It's much better to talk to people in your life, who have gone through difficult situations, and learned from them, they can offer the process, how they confronted their struggles.

cayorday89:

This exactly is my point, is it a secret? No. Do you still have to share it with every Tom, Dick and Harry? No. Reason is if you do you will either not get the solution, you become a person of pity which is not the plan initially or you are also told the person's struggle which could even be greater than yours. Do have a great day boss.
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Lee29: 12:19pm On Nov 16, 2021
studentofTruth:


Can you prove the so-called supreme authority?

Let's get an amputee so your supreme authority can authorize the limb to regrow in our presence.

Prove

Just like a pot asking for a Prove of the man that formed it with clay. You're just a rebellious soul forming woke.

I hope you're aware of what awaits those who reject God as King over them Luke 19:27

You better use your sense and embrace God before it is too late

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Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by anu3: 12:34pm On Nov 16, 2021
Datboredberry

Christian's Christ said:

"Cast not your pearls before swine lest they trample on then then charge after you...

And
The heart of man is desperately wicked..."


Good. I hadn't ever related it strongly with this topic before; although, Jesus was talking about judging and correcting others truthfully without Hypocrisy in one's heart in that context (Matt. 7:6).
Re: What Made You Decide To Never Open Up To People Again? by Hitwe99: 12:50pm On Nov 16, 2021
Had this guy I called best friend.wey back in 2017 .my own Na because of my new babe ooo that time. Told my friend am yet to bang my new girl then that we only smooch ,could you people believe this guy went to meet this girl and tell her everything ,that am yet to bang her and still rubbish me .omo when I hear the story for my back,the thing pain ehhnn.Na wetin cause fight between that girl and I.

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