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Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Godbless3(m): 11:19pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
There is no crime if the wife earn more than the husband or even older than. The truth is, in relationship people hide their motive/intention from their opposite and its up to the opposite to test his/her partner in several unrevealing ways and look for tiny red flag. Something must always attract a man/girl to each other. Don't believe in that shits call love. 9 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by pocohantas(f): 11:21pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
nenyewrites: A woman that can type this needless epistle on how she married a man below her who only wanted a loan, wouldn’t have missed out mentioning it if she indeed gave him MANY LOANS. Sister, she gave no loan. Except you are the account officer, then you can tell us more about this couple. She simply wanted him to go out there and start from ground zero. If you have money and you can’t use it to help your spouse, what is your impact? It is only normal they get angry. Like how da fck do you have a rich partner and you are out there breaking your back. Isn’t this the same excuse women give for underperforming in their homes? “He is not supportive. He doesn’t make life easy for them”. There is no single justifiable reason for her action. She should go eat her money alone. 17 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by GauRanTor(m): 11:21pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
[quote author=Seun post=107687156]The main problem was that she didn't give him money. Why would you marry a guy if you dont trust him with money? What she called emotional and verbal abuse sounds like they were fighting but she wanted to make herself the sole victim. The husband should have handled it better. He is not entitled to her money. But I think the lady contributed more to the failure of her marriage than she realizes. She speaks of trying to get him to aspire higher which means she was not satisfied with his professional and financial status. So why marry him if his level was not high enough for you? She could have just given him money from time to time like most men who are richer than their wives tend to do.[/quote Oga seun twaale I swear you hit the nail well. I just fink that people normally see all these signs of incompatibility before marriage but they choose to be blinded by 'love' too bad. 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Ynix(m): 11:22pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Munzy14:Once I noticed that someone is close to me because of what he or she stands to get alone I immediately cut them off 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by rollywise(m): 11:23pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
She asked her daughter their only child to bear her name instead of her hubby's family name. She said the name's got no affluence attached to it |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by brainhack(m): 11:23pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Godbless3: May God open our eyes to the tiniest red flag. May we never end up getting married to someone with a shallow and twisted world-view. 2 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by jaxxy(m): 11:23pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Seun: I swear I thought seun was a gentleman. I’m shocked |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by jornwhite: 11:24pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
bukatyne: i thot michelle obama was a black woman, incase you don"t know there is no much difference between how a black american women think n how naija women behave, you see oprah choppin her money alone and how kim kardishian stood for west financially is only synonymous with gurlz beyond black skin 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by sinola(m): 11:25pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Amotolongbo: I'm sorry for you... With this perception, you'll be a terrible wife. |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by BlackSan: 11:26pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Sorry honey but I don't go by that ideology. |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by KillIgbohoN0W: 11:26pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Seun: GBAM! I swear Baba I thought you were one of those annoying set of politically correct people who believe a woman can never do wrong. All I see here is a woman that refused to help/support her man even though she could without any issues. If this case were reversed, the man would be called stingy, wicked, irresponsible etc. He would be attacked viciously for not providing for his family. Now its a woman & she has the guts to even come out in public and reveal this embarrassing detail about herself. Women truly are about money. I pity any man who doesn't know this. 10 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kokaine(m): 11:28pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Seun:the wonderful thing is if the whole dynamics change mid way into the marriage. That's like him falling down or she rising up the financial ladder. These things constitute internal stress to a man who has ego. He'll definitely drift off spiritually and run away because that would no longer be home to him. And it will be very difficult for a woman who wasnt born into wealth to accommodate him patiently without giving attitudes at some point that will be very noticeable to him. |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by KillIgbohoN0W: 11:28pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
I swear down any confused feminist on this thread wey attack Seun will be decapitated instantly! Try me & see 5 Likes
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Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by KillIgbohoN0W: 11:29pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Seun: Another GBAM! Why can't women also provide like men since they always claim to be breadwinners too? 2 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kokaine(m): 11:30pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
The titans of nairaland came out to respond to this post. That means this is such a sensitive topic to African men. 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by cococandy(f): 11:30pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Pierocash:“In the so called west” men are also more hands on with family upkeep. It’s easier to be a wife who contributes financially if the man doesn’t leave all the domestic work for you. EOD!!! Take it to the bank. Nigerian men want women who play the roles of providers with them but will catch fire when they asked to help around in the home. Whack mentality! 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by SweetDipBenny(m): 11:30pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Nigerian women Smh |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by KillIgbohoN0W: 11:30pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kholiwe(f): 11:31pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
cococandy:1000 likes 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kholiwe(f): 11:32pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
KillIgbohoN0W:Look at this useless fool. Nairaland men are shameless 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by KillIgbohoN0W: 11:32pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
pocohantas: I swear to God I was looking for you on this thread. Good thing your brain is connected today. 2 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by cococandy(f): 11:32pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
KillIgbohoN0W:Go and take your meds 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Susily(m): 11:32pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
nenyewrites: She never made mention of supporting him in her story even when he asked her for a loan for a project. No need assuming things. She never mentioned supporting him in her story 4 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Verysmart101: 11:33pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Amotolongbo: No man ever wishes to marry a woman for her money buh as a wife for crying out loud y can't u support or help him grow financially.U don't trust ur husband but u want him to trust you right? Honestly the part u said "he is trading his pride" is just emotional manipulation by women cos this is husband and wife not boyfriend and girlfriend pls.A reasonable woman should have been able to support her hubby with something she can afford to lose.If u can't give ur hubby money when he is in need then u shouldn't be trusted either. 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by KillIgbohoN0W: 11:33pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
[s] cococandy:[/s] Dirty fat gold digging piglet Your gender and entitlement mentality na 5 & 6 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Double0h7(f): 11:34pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
This pissed me off . Who is she advising after scattering her own relationship? What point was she trying to make. Someone should tell her to shut up! If she is the breadwinner then she failed in her role, if she loved the man like she claims why wouldn't she build him up and invest in his dreams? Isn't it meant to be their home, two become one and all that? I'm so pissed off after reading this, she still wants to play some sort of victim after all that. 5 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by KillIgbohoN0W: 11:34pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
[s] Kholiwe:[/s] Disgusting piglet Your gender is of no use to the earth. Leeches. 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by cococandy(f): 11:34pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
pocohantas: First of all, their income should be joint income not a case his money or her money. It should be their money regardless of who earns it. But we are not ready for this conversation because people are stuck on their ways and what gender plays is supposed to play what roles . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kholiwe(f): 11:35pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
KillIgbohoN0W:Go and tell your mother and sisters they are useless . You look hungry 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Uchemus(m): 11:35pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
SILVERLINES:[/s] but girls who want guys to pay their bills aren't useless? 3 Likes |
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