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What Can I Do by Iamzealousman: 12:58pm On Nov 21, 2021
There's this girl I met in a city, when I met her I was working. She's a good girl. Though she's independent financially. I asked her out once last year August she said no. Though ever since I asked her out she started moving more closer to me.
But unfortunately I lost my job that same August and I wasn't motivated with her anymore. Because she became financially better than me and all sort.
I moved away from that city in search of a job, till now I have not gotten another job.
But around February this year, she called me to inform me that she's gotten a job. And she complained that I haven't been calling her. That are we fighting?
I ensured I stopped contacting her anymore ever since I left that city.
I noticed after she got to Lagos she calls me more often. Even with the fact that I told her of my job status.(unemployed). She still keep calling
In fact around June this year she told me that she misses me. I said okay that I missed her more.
She has been trying to get jobs for me tho. She even informed me of a vacancy at her place of work. But unfortunately I missed out at the last stage of the interview.

Tho I like this girl but dating a girl financially buoyant than me is a problem.
And I don't really know what she wants if it's a relationship or friendship.
I wanted a relationship with her tho.

Part of the reasons why I don't know what she wants is that when we were in the same city. We go to church programs together etc and after work every day we walk together. People noticed this and they thought we were dating so she said we shouldn't walk openly together.

Now, I don't even call her she's the one that calls.
Re: What Can I Do by HRHQueenPhil(f): 1:04pm On Nov 21, 2021
Iamzealousman:

There's this girl I met in a city, when I met her I was working. She's a good girl. Though she's independent financially. I asked her out once last year August she said no. Though ever since I asked her out she started moving more closer to me.
But unfortunately I lost my job that same August and I wasn't motivated with her anymore. Because she became financially better than me and all sort.
I moved away from that city in search of a job, till now I have not gotten another job.
But around February this year, she called me to inform me that she's gotten a job. And she complained that I haven't been calling her. That are we fighting?
I ensured I stopped contacting her anymore ever since I left that city.
I noticed after she got to Lagos she calls me more often. Even with the fact that I told her of my job status.(unemployed). She still keep calling
In fact around June this year she told me that she misses me. I said okay that I missed her more.
She has been trying to get jobs for me tho. She even informed me of a vacancy at her place of work. But unfortunately I missed out at the last stage of the interview.

Tho I like this girl but dating a girl financially buoyant than me is a problem.
And I don't really know what she wants if it's a relationship or friendship.
I wanted a relationship with her tho.

Part of the reasons why I don't know what she wants is that when we were in the same city. We go to church programs together etc and after work every day we walk together. People noticed this and they thought we were dating so she said we shouldn't walk openly together.

Now, I don't even call her she's the one that calls.

Continue to maintain that friendship with her, but begin to check her out mentally, mature wise, spiritually, supportive wise
She is a good woman if she informs u of job vacancies and calls u knowing u are very rich right now so don't lose her
She is also looking at u and other men , that's why she doesn't want pple assuming two of u are dating
Attend Shiloh starting December 7..
Congratulations u will get that job and more miracles...

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Re: What Can I Do by Ocholu: 1:30pm On Nov 21, 2021
Ok
Re: What Can I Do by Boogyman557: 1:40pm On Nov 21, 2021
Holly Gram cool Na people like una de hardly make am 4 dis life. SEE BANI wey don de GIVE u green light, u come here de CAPRISUN NONSENSE. pesin way u go invite come ur AP, treat her well... amabobi no let me LOAD my KALA 4 dis hot sun ooo. WTF MAN
Re: What Can I Do by NarcissistKing: 2:14pm On Nov 21, 2021
Get yourself financially buoyant before a relationship. Don't be carried away by the affections she's showing.
Re: What Can I Do by Iamzealousman: 4:02pm On Nov 21, 2021
HRHQueenPhil:


Continue to maintain that friendship with her, but begin to check her out mentally, mature wise, spiritually, supportive wise
She is a good woman if she informs u of job vacancies and calls u knowing u are very rich right now so don't lose her
She is also looking at u and other men , that's why she doesn't want pple assuming two of u are dating
Attend Shiloh starting December 7..
Congratulations u will get that job and more miracles...
Thank you for this
Re: What Can I Do by Oglock(m): 4:05pm On Nov 21, 2021
Irredeemable Simps Are Useless... All Of Them

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Re: What Can I Do by Cerebellum: 4:11pm On Nov 21, 2021
The lady does not want you for any relationship, she only wants to be a friend, don't you understand?
Some niggars are just naturally dumbb!

You can turn her Into FWB which is up to you.
Re: What Can I Do by Truvelisback(m): 4:19pm On Nov 21, 2021
Iamzealousman:

There's this girl I met in a city, when I met her I was working. She's a good girl. Though she's independent financially. I asked her out once last year August she said no. Though ever since I asked her out she started moving more closer to me.
But unfortunately I lost my job that same August and I wasn't motivated with her anymore. Because she became financially better than me and all sort.
I moved away from that city in search of a job, till now I have not gotten another job.
But around February this year, she called me to inform me that she's gotten a job. And she complained that I haven't been calling her. That are we fighting?
I ensured I stopped contacting her anymore ever since I left that city.
I noticed after she got to Lagos she calls me more often. Even with the fact that I told her of my job status.(unemployed). She still keep calling
In fact around June this year she told me that she misses me. I said okay that I missed her more.
She has been trying to get jobs for me tho. She even informed me of a vacancy at her place of work. But unfortunately I missed out at the last stage of the interview.

Tho I like this girl but dating a girl financially buoyant than me is a problem.
And I don't really know what she wants if it's a relationship or friendship.
I wanted a relationship with her tho.

Part of the reasons why I don't know what she wants is that when we were in the same city. We go to church programs together etc and after work every day we walk together. People noticed this and they thought we were dating so she said we shouldn't walk openly together.

Now, I don't even call her she's the one that calls.

1. Money, u no get.
2. Job, u no get. A lady knowing ur critical state yet is giving u a full green light, yet U still come still dey form. Na who u dey form for? How many Naija ladies would do this? See ehn, If i be ur papa, i for tear u hot slap, truth.

Re: What Can I Do by Iamzealousman: 6:50pm On Nov 21, 2021
Truvelisback:

1. Money, u no get.
2. Job, u no get. A lady knowing ur critical state yet is giving u a full green. U come still dey form. Na who u dey form for? How many Naija ladies would do this? See ehn, If i be ur papa, i tear u hot slap, truth.
Hmm
Re: What Can I Do by Truvelisback(m): 7:44pm On Nov 21, 2021
Iamzealousman:

Hmm
Guy, no go fall my hand. Take her serious. Ladies that could do that are very few and rare to find. Never let ur being BROKE reduce ur self-esteem. Just be cool and be a man to her. She will respect u. 99% of Naija ladies would rarely date u with ur present state(dem go bone u) but she didn't look at that, rather she took it up on herself to make sure u stand on ur feet again and she still went as far as developing feelings for u and desire to have u. Think abt it, Bro.
Re: What Can I Do by aanuoluwami14(f): 7:47pm On Nov 21, 2021
She likes you and you like her too. Go for her and look for job. She might even help you get a job. Go after what you love.
Re: What Can I Do by Iamzealousman: 1:41pm On Nov 22, 2021
Cerebellum:
The lady does not want you for any relationship, she only wants to be a friend, don't you understand?
Some niggars are just naturally dumbb!

You can turn her Into FWB which is up to you.

This is my fear
Re: What Can I Do by Iamzealousman: 8:04pm On Nov 22, 2021
Cc Rocktation, Farano
Re: What Can I Do by Iamzealousman: 4:27pm On Nov 24, 2021
sad
Re: What Can I Do by AmancalledGod: 4:50pm On Nov 24, 2021
See this baba dey form for babe wey like am.... mtcheeew

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