Op, she doesn't want to enter hell fire twice.

Datboredberry:
The same way the men commenting here are pained...

One called me a liability... For saying I want a husband with whom I'll share the responsibilities of parenthood with...

Read the responses...

Lol..
Dat's pretty normal on dis Forum!
We Bash one another constantly!..

Don't take it Personal at all!..

And then, If a Husband and Wife are doing so well Financially, Would Bills even be much of an issue? ..

Bad Economy is dealing with us in dis Country, nor be small!!..

Datboredberry:
Liability?

Am I to cater for the family alone?

It's 50/50... A poor man can't contribute anything...

Y'all be taking sh** as though financial stability isn't one of the most important things in a long-term relationship...

When you see your child emaciated or when they are prevented from writing their exams... Or when you have to borrow so you can get the drugs... then you'll get it...

You might be a suffer-head... But work hard to give your children a decent life...

In other important matter tell your gender that toto is private part stop opening it up and down.