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| The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by blankees(m): 11:14am On Jun 10, 2011 |
Halo pals Am into a very serious relatnship which i pray will end up in marriage. My friend happens to be a virgin and i tink i will classify myself as one too since i have not had sex for over twenty years now. We had promised each other sex only after our marriage. Now,our challenge is dat, she had an irregularity in her menstraul period last month, after wch we decided it is neccessary she sees a doctor. After seeing the doctor, he said she had some bacterial infection in the stomach and prescribed some antibiotic drugs for her. He also said the only way to reduce such infections later is for her to get married on time cos frequent sex will reduce such, shez just 23 now and about to graduate and am 28 though am working. Am really afraid cos i dnt want to break my vow. I intend to settle down in da next one or two yrs after her service. Pls ur advice will go a long way to help us overcome dis situation especially on medical grounds. Tnx. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Pweety4me(f): 11:27am On Jun 10, 2011 |
Doctor's no be God, you put ur faith in god u hear?  |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by feminineA: 11:28am On Jun 10, 2011 |
I like the fact that you two want to keep yourself before marriage. Plz stick to it there is blessing in it. Now u are workn and she's about to graduate i gues her final yr. Pls wait for her to graduate then marry her. You dö'nt need to wait any longer so as not to giv the devil a chance. You could do a small wedn. Pay her bride price, get to the registry and u re married. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Creamish(f): 11:59am On Jun 10, 2011 |
blankees: Firstly . . ur 28 and uv not had sex for over 20yrs . . . when did u first have sex? wow . .  2ndly . . .the Doc has given u his advice based on experience. There is a greater being than the Doc. If indeed u intend to wed her after her service year, talk to God about it. He can do all things. Secondly, if its a bacterial infection, there are drugs for it. He is not insisting that it will be frequent if u guyz r not married . . . he is just saying it can be averted with frequent sex. There is a possibility she may not have it again even if she dosnt get married in 5 yrs . . . Good luck.  |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by 190: 12:13pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Creamish:  |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Dyt(f): 12:15pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Does dat mean u had sex earlier yrs of ur lyf? |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by SAGoddess: 12:17pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Creamish: LOL, I thought the same, he stopped intercourse when he was 8, when did he start, at age 4?  |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by llemisy(f): 12:46pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
is just a piece of advice frm doctor ,,is,nt mandatory just be prayerful nd evrything would work out good for yu,,,,,, |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Mynd44: 12:53pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Intresting |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by BABE3: 1:04pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Pls where's[b] Da Doctor[/b]? I'm still trying to fathom how the reproductory/urinary area is significantly linked to the stomach---  Btw, What exactly is going to chase the bacteria away? The friction and heat applied to the wall of the v@gina during during sex (that has nothing to do with the stomach), or the semen ? If it's the former, ask the doctor if she can use a didlo instead, if it's semen, ask him for alternatives ( water?) And if he says there are no alternatives, then ask him if y'all can try blow-jobs---direct entry into the stomach--no hassle. Goodluck;Though me kinda think your story is made up. Plus you're 28 and you stopped having carnal knowledge 20 yrs ago? Omo you bad o! I hail thee! |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by blankees(m): 1:16pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Pweety4me:Tanx, for sure i hv an unwavering faith in God. Creamish:Tanx, hv been prayin to God abt it, am sure he will see me tru. Dyt:I dont tink dat really matters now, i did hav sex wen i was arnd 6 but stopped afta dat year. SA Goddess:its not really funny dude. llemisy:Tanx, i'll always. BABE!:Bro, am serious, its not a make up story, its da reality am facing now. Tanx all da same for the advice, though didnt go togeda wit her to see da doctor, but i tink i will need to see the Doctor too. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by BABE3: 1:20pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
^^ Yh, you def. should. Go see whatsup yourself--- Again Goodluck. But you bad sha---8 yrs-old boy havng sex. Ko easy. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by SAGoddess: 1:26pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
You could have said when you started shaggingg instead, if you stopped at age 8. . . . .how about that!!! |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by MMM2(m): 1:37pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
op did u started have sex in ur mother womb, or be4 u were born. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by DaDoctor: 2:06pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
BABE darling, there is actually no direct link between the two so i wonder how come, However, there could be URINARY TRACT infection that could would affect the reproductive system and cause slight dis functions to the womb, perhaps that was what the doctor said, but he didnt get it right. IF I MAY KNOW WHAT DID THE DOCTOR CALL THE SICKNESS/DISEASE my advise is this, DOCTORS TREAT, BUT GOD HEALS AND HAS THE FINAL SAY. JUST GO ON AND BELIEVE, LOEV IS ALL THAT MATTERS. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by BABE3: 2:10pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
^^ Yh! I guessed as much---he probably didn't hear "it" right. Good advice you gave. I really wanna know the name of the disease too. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by oohunt: 2:14pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Hmm, na waa for this kind doctor. I would go back to him/her and clarify how and why a stomach infection affects the reproductive system. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by blankees(m): 3:42pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Da Doctor: Tanx for the advice Doc, my friend actually had a scan and she said the doctor said as in result of the bacterial infection in the stomach, she now has a lot of fluid behind her uterus, probably dat was wat caused the irregularity, dont knw if u can make a meaning from dat statement. Am actually not wit her now cos shez in skool dats y we didnt go to see the Doctor togeda. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by JeSoul(f): 3:44pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
blankees:Kudos on wanting to keep your vows to each other. My advice is to get a second and maybe third opinion from another doctor. Doctors are not always right. Tim Tebow a now famous athlete is a child born to mother who was strongly advised by all her doctors to abort him at risk of death to both him and her. She was a christian and refused. Today they are both healthy and testifying. In all this, balance the advice from the doctors against both your instincts and your faith - and all shall be well. Goodluck and Godbless. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by DaDoctor: 4:03pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
I cant truly capture the situation here but can make little inferences. The above could be possible in extreme cases, but please this case is not too common that is why i wanted to know what the doctor refered same as. Please i would for now advise you she goes for another diagnoses/re -examination preferrably with another doctor. bacterial infections can be treated even when they have got to the extreme case. Moreover, having some fluid behinfd her uterus cant just make him rule her not capable of bearing a child bla bla bla. PLEASE LET NOT YOUR HEART BE TROUBLED, DO THE NEEDED WITHOUT MUCH PRESSURES AND SEE WHAT THE OUTCOME WOULD BE. Just hope you see a specialist gynaecologist. Shallom!! |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Sex at 6?ok Are you sure your GF is not playing pranks for you to get married to her ASAP? |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by spikedcylinder: 4:18pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Are you sure the girl didn't cook up the story to rush you into marriage? |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by violent(m): 4:18pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
I dont tink dat really matters now, i did hav sex wen i was arnd 6 but stopped afta dat year. You had sex when you were six!!!! as in penetrative sex? OMG! |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Dextra(f): 4:22pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Fluid collection in the Pouch of Douglas, it could be chronic PID (Pelvic inflammatory disease). It's nothing that a very strong antibiotic taken ova a long period of time wnt cure. Except the Doctor is afraid she might end up with tubal blockage whch is a complication of PID. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
i dont believe the story. anyway, you can send her to me if you dont want to break your vow. i will help you do the needful until you are ready to take over. lmfao |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Godalone(m): 4:27pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
jennykadry:I thought as much |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by DaDoctor: 4:31pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Nice one dear, You used the word may, and that is good. There are many ways to this, Yes it can be cured , but you arent the one who carried out the preliminary diagnosis so you cant say for sure and to worsen it, the poster is not the patient here, he is just a relay. FROM MY LITTLE EXPERIENCE, BACTERIAL INFECTIONS CAN BE CURED LIKE YOU ALSO SAID, But thorough andd repeated diagnosis should be done cos doctors of varied ideologies and school of tots exist.IMAGINE THE SEX THERAPY ADVISED BY THE DOCTOR. I STILL RECOMMEND A RE-EXAMINATION/DIAGNOSIS AND SAME SHOULD BE DONE TRU A SPECIALIST GYNAECOLOGIST. |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Hahahahahaha there is only one tin i culd make out of dis purportd story.is likely d gal in question wants u to start f.uckin her b4 sumone else does and she doesnt knw hw to tell u directly.women r so crafty,it hs happened to sum guy i knw lol.i wil sugest u demand for d doctors report or alternatively make out tim to visit her in sch and den follow her to anoda hospital for a fresh test,there culd be posibility she is lyin to u(jst my opinion sha)-----AND secondly bros u too much oo,so u startd f.uckin wen u were six yrs and stoppd wen u were eight yrs ?infact i hv deduced dat two of u r bloody LIARS****mcheew**** |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by Roland17(m): 4:43pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Nairaland and exaggeration, why nollywood no go blossom, with creative story tellers like this one, do you mean you had sex wen you were 8yrs? common man, we don old pass that lie.that lie don spoil the story, better luck next time, |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by LongOne1(m): 4:55pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Roland17: @ poster; more kudos to your elbow on your vow. Please don't rush into anything yet, particularly as you have waited this long. @ Roland 17, don't know how true this is but: At what age do boys start having erections? In: Male Puberty [Edit categories] Improve Answer: There isn't a 'set age' when a boy gets an erection; it can happen at ANY age in a male's life, and yes, that includes babyhood. When young boys have them, they're not necessarily caused by being sexually excited, but they CAN occur. Most boys start getting erections because they are sexually aroused around the age of 12 or 13, although it can be earlier or later. NEVER make fun of a boy for getting an erection! If you notice, pretend you didn't. The boy is probably really embarrassed as it is. Every guy gets an erection sometime. Read more: http://wiki.answers.com/Q/At_what_age_do_boys_start_having_erections#ixzz1OtApqjGC |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by violent(m): 4:57pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Dextra: Yeah i agree. I suppose the doctor fears that this might progress rapidly from bad to worse in the case the PID ruputures through the inflammatory oratory tubes, given rise to the pheripheral verbal complex. In this case, antibiotcs taken could rapidly inflame the mustugal pathway, inhibiting the passage of Iron and calcium. We are doctors, we must let our e-friends know that! |
| Re: The Doctor Said She Should Get Married On Time by bababuff(m): 4:57pm On Jun 10, 2011 |
Kai! what a story, you lying thwart.  But I believe you, cos my kid sister started having sex at age 4 and had a baby at age 6. Then she stopped having sex. Now, she is 21 years and thinks she is a virgin. |
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