@OP
You are dying? It's not the end of the world mate, life goes on.

That's why it's always a bad idea to be sexually active in your mid 20s, you become so naive about issues concerning relationships and at that age,a lot of things that you call a problem make ppl see you as a stupid person.If you think that a woman having an abortion in the past makes her a cheat and makes you want to die then guy die na!so freakin' dramatic!

Its no problem really,poster.Follow your heart.

@poster pls if u really love ur fiancee as u claimed try & accept her 4 who she is

so glad that most of the posts were sensible.
OP, be glad she was comfortable enough to share that with you and move on with life.

all the best.

In Hebrew 13:4, the Bible says that,'marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge'. Pre-marrital sex is sin. The solution is repentance and salvation.

This calls for genuine repentance and turning away from all appearance of evil.

A SINNER IS NOT A CHRISTIAN, A CHRISTIAN IS NOT A SINNER (I JOHN 3:9,. 'HE THAT COMMITTETH SIN IS OF THE DEVIL, '
A CHRISTIAN IS NOT A SEDUCER, A SEDUCER IS NOT A CHRISTIAN. IF YOU SEDUCE MEN OR WOMEN TO HELL, AND YOU WANT TO GO TO HEAVEN, WHICH HEAVEN? ALL UNRIGHTEOUSNESS IS SIN (I JOHN 5:17a).

FURTHER, ARE YOU INTO LIEING,QUARELLING,FIGHTING,FORNICATION,STEALING,ROBBERY,SCAMMING,FALSIFICATION,SMOKING/DRUNKENNESS,HOMOSEXUALITY,LESBIANISM,ABORTION, self-service, PROSTITUTION OR PATRONISING THEM,CHEATING,SEDUCTION,MAKING CHARMS,IDOLATERY, ANY KIND OF IMMORALITY,ADULTERY, RITUALS, BOWING DOWN TO IMAGES, SEDUCTION, BACKBITING, GOSSIPPING, BLASPHEMY, DECEPTION, COVETOUSNESS, PRIDE,BOASTING, USING ABUSIVE AND VULGER WORDS etc? REPENT NOW AND AMEND YOUR WAYS. THE UNRIGHTEOUS SHALL NOT INHERIT THE KINGDOM OF GOD (I Cor. 6:9). HE THAT COVERS HIS SINS SHALL NOT PROSPER (PROVERBS 28:13). ESCAPE THE DANGER OF HELL FIRE. THERE IS NO REPENTANCE IN GRAVE; JESUS LOVES YOU.

IN LUKE 13:3,' I TELL YOU, NAY: BUT EXCEPT YE REPENT, YE SHALL ALL LIKEWISE PERISH'. IT IS NOT THE WILL OF GOD THAT ANY ONE SHOULD PERISH, THAT IS THE REASON JESUS WENT TO THE CROSS, AND WHOSOEVER BELIEVES IN HIM WILL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE ETERNAL LIFE. IN ROMANS 6:23,'THE WAGES OF SIN IS DEATH,BUT THE GIFT OF GOD IS ETERNAL LIFE THROUGH CHRIST JESUS

True love does not ask us to be perfect, but to be HONEST.

^Is that right.

Abortion is an issue (besides) religion if it was done by an impostor medical doctor.I advise you to be a man and ignore the news.You said she is your first,who knows if you know mastubation. Be a Man,She is a woman.
Remember how you behaved will determine her level of confidence on you in future. Man up

Guy, let her b, that is her past, if she no tell u, u go know?

omogidi:
..... and she came with this BOMBSHELL; SHE ONCE HAD AN ABORTION.

Op get a life..