iLegendd:


People really get wahala sha.

They accuse you and you prove them wrong with picture, they say it's childish, you don't need to prove yourself or snap.

You didn't prove it, they scream, "he can't even prove himself."

You reply them, they start abusing you.

You ignore them, they say you're proud and feel you're too big to reply.

Mehn, person wey no get mind no fit handle the kain things I dey handle with these jobless attackers for this forum.

I have a thick skin, so no issues. I also noticed some people I haven't replied their DMs are the ones always attacking me. Nah wah o! No be by force I go reply you na. Una dey pay me to reply?

Everything dey always turn to fight for this side of the world. I blame it on poverty, depression, joblessness, and free MB from MTN and Airtel.

Everybody is a giant online and can abuse whoever they want.

You didn't answer your own question on how to reply a girl of she asks you for money

RoyalBoutique:


You didn't answer your own question on how to reply a girl of she asks you for money

I have and ended it with kindness, but if you want a detailed answer, read this post I created in 2019. https://www.nairaland.com/5425745/women-how-bypass-womans-demanding

Or this one I created in 2018.

https://www.nairaland.com/4554493/women-manipulative-power-word-favor

iLegendd:


I have and ended it with kindness, but if you want a detailed answer, read this post I created in 2019. https://www.nairaland.com/5425745/women-how-bypass-womans-demanding

Or this one I created in 2018.

https://www.nairaland.com/4554493/women-manipulative-power-word-favor

ok sure thing

iLegendd:


I don't have a heart at the moment. Thank you.

iLegendd:
The aim of this post is: don't lend money to people — it's dangerous. Dash them if you have, but NEVER lend money.

This is the principle I have maintained right from childhood and it has helped me.

I have this female friend, fine girl. She has a boyfriend, but I haven't seen the guy face-to-face. We don't chat often, but when we meet in person, outside, it's always a good moment.

She's learning makeup and all that. She hardly calls and same as me.

Yesterday, she called and said she wants to chat with me. In my head, I knew it's about favour and luckily, I don't do favor for people no matter who you are.

I take your cries to God. When someone is asking me for something and adds the word favor in it, there is zero chance of getting it. The word "favor" is too manipulative for me.

So, below is the chat on how to decline requests on favor, lending, and borrowing.

True; mine is 'don't lend out money you can't afford to lose.'

baba ilegend , n*ggas no go learn from you now oo, tommorow Dem go open thread they complain how woman chop their money, how people wey Dem help abandon them, I raised the same point in the redpill thread, just yesterday, I don't do favor anymore cause I Know human they forget easily how you helped, highest I find you small thing make you use hold your side but you see , favor) borrowing, I no do.

Let's make a deal @op

Allow me ask for a favor
Reject it as you have done with this girl.
And dash me money too
Easy!
Deal?

iLegendd:


I don't have a heart at the moment. Thank you.

Lol... Okay, but still have me in mind when you do... Thank you.

Ayoleeboy007:
5k as transport, you try o. But your Mumsy story was it true?5k as transport, you try o. But your Mumsy story was it true?

I can do that too.. be you who, call me before coming to my place. Is a principle

Georgekyrian:


I can do that too.. be you who, call me before coming to my place. Is a principle

That's the rule. Not everyone likes such surprises. It's even worse when it's a girl that's monitoring you.

I'll tell her I'm at home, but she should go back.

Your site is not going. Is wootalk out now.

chuksdsilent:
Your site is not going. Is wootalk out now.

Maintenance. Yes, WooTalks has alwy been out. Send a WhatsApp message via the number on my profile.

iLegendd:


I don't broke-shame people, but people broke-shame me. All I do is reply or ignore. Some of you that attack always hate it when the person attacks back. You want them to keep mute, act mature, and enjoy the abuse or attack from you.

In the history of Nairaland, have I ever quoted you first or attacked you first? No.

Why cry when the person you attacked attacks back? So, you want to feel like a victim now, right?

Alright, go ahead. My last reply to you to avoid trouble.

Boss abeg no vex for dem!!
abeg help me with glo credit,I never call my mama this month abeg!!!
0.8.114.75.7104

Johndagr8t:



Boss abeg no vex for dem!!
abeg help me with glo credit,I never call my mama this month abeg!!!
0.8.114.75.7104

Your own na play. Typical naija, alway like taking advantage with their unending story

Lol...too much cap bro ...just talk say "No...I can't" simple

posty56:
baba ilegend , n*ggas no go learn from you now oo, tommorow Dem go open thread they complain how woman chop their money, how people wey Dem help abandon them, I raised the same point in the redpill thread, just yesterday, I don't do favor anymore cause I Know human they forget easily how you helped, highest I find you small thing make you use hold your side but you see , favor) borrowing, I no do.

They won't o! I pray they do.

dobnina:

So you locked your mum outside and you are proud to say it.
Mr principle.
Every woman should pray not to have a son like you.

If him Mama abort am na...dem go say the woman wicked...Mr. Principal.

Nice one, works for me well.
If I want to give you money, I'll dash it out. And I only give out what's convenient for me. Life is give and take. @iLegendd those days when you didn't have enough and was struggling, were you bold enough to ask people to give or lend you money??

dontrulee:
Nice one, works for me well.
If I want to give you money, I'll dash it out. And I only give out what's convenient for me. Life is give and take. @iLegendd those days when you didn't have enough and was struggling, were you bold enough to ask people to give or lend you money??

Nah — I hate to bother people. Though, at a point, a cousin gave me 10k and I used it to buy domain and hosted my first site.

That was the only money I ever summoned courage to ask for in my entire life. I hate to pester people. It makes me feel weak and lazy.

iLegendd:


Nah — I hate to bother people. Though, at a point, a cousin gave me 10k and I used it to buy domain and hosted my first site.

That was the only money I ever summoned courage to ask for in my entire life. I hate to pester people. It makes me feel weak and lazy.

I get your point. Same with me. Now I know why it irritates you when people pester you for things when you yourself don't pester others. It can be so annoying and frustrating.