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Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by EndRape2(f): 3:12pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
[My brother marriage is not boy friend and girlfriend ,if you like date one billion ladies ,you will only get mess up, and damaged when you finally settle down, All you do as boy friend and girlfriend is sex, in relationship most girls pretend to be at their best, marraige and relationship are two different game, a neat girl in relationship can become shabby in.marriage, if you like date her 100 years A girl that like sex in relationship , might keep rejecting sex in marraige, , the more partner you date in relationship, the more damaged your heart becomes which will affect your marriage and how you reacts to your wife or husband. quote author=OvertheTop post=108321266][/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by RomanGreen: 3:26pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
incogni2o: I agree with the bolded, My immediate ex girlfriend was sort of very stubborn, I'm more matured in terms of age and experience, each time I try it to correct her, she sees it that I'm trying to control her life, meanwhile a lot of the things I warned her against is happening right before her very eyes. She's the type that is very stubborn though very loving but she can be very disrespectful not minding the consequences, I guess improper home training. After I made it clear I won't be able to marry her given the constant issues we were having, she became abusive... meanwhile she has confessed to me that most things I warned her about has happened or already happening. I'll just smile and remind her the days I told her about it. She can be manipulative, but there's no way I'm getting back with her coz she will.never change. The mentality of the average Nigerian lady is sickening. God help us 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by djon78(m): 3:31pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
pocohantas: There are very many of them out there When redpillers talk say women are very manipulative Na the type of op wife them dey talk about They will so much hide there true nature And they always go for easy going men Men wey no get wahala That's how my mum's last born go marry one like that This my uncle is very soft, churchy, good looking, can't even harm a fly But he come carry cross of the worst wife anyone can think of The painful thing is because na churchy type He no believe in divorce He has been managing for years now. Those kind of women know the kind of men they Target Dem no dey near werey men 2 Likes |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by djon78(m): 3:34pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Campbellseun: Story |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by baby124: 3:34pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Bonesbreaker:I am telling you to quote where you saw it that she called his mother a witch. I read his post and he said her church does. Did she tell him her church does or did he hear a church sermon implying such. Which is what I think happened here. |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by djon78(m): 3:35pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
pocohantas: ![]() |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Igolonwaanyi(f): 3:38pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
OvertheTop: Is that all you could come up with it? Shush shush |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by NewKidInTown(m): 3:39pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
baby124:May this happen to your son.. 3 Likes |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by sandra50(f): 3:39pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
So sad..the way our women treat our mean abroad is very disappointing and embarrassing. tarantino1: |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Nobody: 3:41pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
baby124:In her church she is attending they already branded. My mother a witch she's the one who integrated this not her church. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by NewKidInTown(m): 3:49pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Mehn.. I'm very much like op always trying to please others and peace keeping but am not married yet nor thinking of it for now. I would love to see how this ends out sha. God epp us |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by MartinsD12(m): 4:01pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
50pseamer:Get your wife something to do , get work for her , being an ordinary house wife is the height of irresponsibility, raising a family shouldn't be the work of a man alone, it takes two to tangle, I don't know if you courted this your wife before you marry her , these are some serious red flags dating her could have shown you , it seems you are the one pushing for the love and oneness as a family, you even talk to her for you both to eat on the same plate which she refused, well pray she changes, these are serious red flags and I don't think that your wife understand what marriage is all about. |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Sambab(m): 4:31pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
I won't blame your wife much, but you're to blame most, cos you have turned yourself to a wife in this marriage and maked her your husband... Your wife has succeeded in her systematically manipulated you Even against your mom, but first, you must take back your position as the husband and head of your house, then all other necessary things will aline back. If I were you, I will first stop her from going to that church or attend thier service online, then we will both look for a new fresh church to be attending and praying together... Your second step: your wife has a spirit of man, she needs deliverance on this otherwise she won't enjoy any marriage unless her husband can be mumu like the one you have been practicing with her. |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by coolclarke(m): 4:38pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
You're a good man, it's always difficult when marriage is one sided � if only one person keep giving their all and the other person is doing anything they like that marriage cannot work naw?!?! Hope your wife change for good of the family! |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by baby124: 4:50pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
NewKidInTown:My son will behave better and know better. |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by baby124: 4:51pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Bonesbreaker:So, did she call his mother a witch or not? Did you bother to ask the OP straight out? Or how did he come to this conclusion? |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Godstime234: 4:54pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
50pseamer: Are you me or i don't understand?. This is everything g that is happening to me in my marriage also. |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Godstime234: 4:58pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Bonesbreaker: My own wife will sign it fast fast. The op should not try this oo 2 Likes |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by NaBanga: 5:01pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Your bedroom skills are terrible. The woman is suffering. Nigerians hide so much due to fear. See how Precious almost ran mad with FFK due to lack of sex. Sufferheads.... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Godstime234: 5:07pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
movid: What about a wife's family that says u must not come to them to make a report . That both of u should sort out ur grievances . No third party. And the wife will never listen to the husband 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by OvertheTop(m): 5:18pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
neonly: It is Quite Common. Once the Wife Has Kids (She has Already met her Life Goal) she will now try to Lord over u. Reduces the sex to the minimum as a punishment and manipulation tool |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by movid(m): 6:18pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Godstime234:I understand sir but try create respect for your self sir and it shouldn't be in a violent way. Nobody can see what is going on in your home. You guys know what is going on so to give an advice in marriage situations takes wisdom so tht the person advising won't turn enemy when the issue has been resolved. Bottom line; Call her to order and try gain respect without violence.. My opinion |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by brightalo1010: 6:23pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Ebubechuwku: Listen don't confuse yourself from what you need to do and what prayer can do. some people get killed with the same pray for the marriage instead of getting off with there lives intact .someone will be dying and you fanatics will be saying pray pray pray, |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by TIJAY01: 6:30pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
I feel so sad reading this, bros she is not in love with you , just have plan B and be ready for anything any time so it will not break you down when it happens. 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by larryking540: 6:32pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
EndRape2: says who ,I wouldn't be surprised this coming from a lady ,,,will you as a lady date and marry an unexperienced guy ,let's be real here which most of you term boring or not interesting 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Nobody: 6:34pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Most comments are ignoring the fact that they do not live in Nigeria I'll assume you;re in the states. This man needs to be very careful, else he will meet himself in jail and then in MM2 with just a coat. It appears his marriage is on the path to fail and he lost control already as he failed to be the man. Here is my take: * Start taking pictures of the good deeds you do to her and most especially to the child. Keep receipts, invoices, record videos. You'll need to those in court. * Visit a registered councillor and explain your worries. Be careful not to show your mind as unstable. Keep a record of the date you visited the councillor. * Focus your attention on your baby and your career and continue the 'living' like housemates. * Never shout at her (your neighbours can report you), assault, nor lar your hands on her. This is a very fast journey to jail or Lagos. * Submit yourself to God since you're a Christian. Place your marriage in God's hands and stop trying to fix it. I wonder how you managed to wife her without seeing traces of all these. Maybe you're one of those people who will arrive from Uk and want to return with a wife in 6 weeks. 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Mystery9(m): 6:35pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
What a disobedient wife. I wondered what you people discussed in courtship. |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by Ebubechuwku(m): 6:47pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
brightalo1010: Thats true.... we are product of our actions... |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by OvertheTop(m): 6:55pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
IbrahimSkiba: You Want to TRY your Own Juju too on another One. so that when you get there....You TURN to LION. You have the signs already.... |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by IbrahimSkiba(f): 7:22pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
OvertheTop: I didn't mentioned your name in my comment Enemy of progress get behind me.. Winch 1 Like |
Re: I Think My Marriage Is In Trouble Please Help! by gracecheller: 7:35pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
Kuriosmynd:But they are not in africa 1 Like |
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