| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by noskcid(m): 3:32am On Dec 10, 2021 |
That’s an enlightening slap or a correction slap |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by mrblessed(m): 3:41am On Dec 10, 2021 |
That there is no outrage about domestic violence and physical abuse on this thread says a thing or two about our understanding of abuse and violence. Maybe this story doesn't just fit the narrative. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by jtobiora(m): 3:49am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Always remember that sentence "I am sorry!". If offered sincerely, a lot can be healed in that marriage. By the way, I guess social media would have been on fire now if say na the man hit you! |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by MrFly(m): 4:00am On Dec 10, 2021 |
He isnt planning to hurt u in a big way, the slap u gave him brought his brain to factory reset mode |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Germi9: 4:01am On Dec 10, 2021 |
You reset him memory |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by DGreat104(m): 4:02am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Sharp Sharp NovesaTillie:
Now that you have shown him that you are not an ordinary female why do you feel like you just signed your death warrant. Leave that environment before your family discovers your dead body. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Burgerlomo: 4:18am On Dec 10, 2021 |
sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.
He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.
I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.
My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? Go on your knees and ask for his forgiveness and I believe he will truly forgive you because as he's right now, he is a time bomb which about to explode if care is not taken. 1 Like |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by okoroemeka(m): 4:19am On Dec 10, 2021 |
sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.
He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.
I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.
My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? he is using your weakness against you and that is mental warfare,he will not harm you but he wants to grind you down mentally in a war of attrition,first do want he intends to achieve by begging him early in the morning and make sure you wear flimsy night gown because he will nack you after the begging,then after the nacking that's when you will sit him down and talk to him about how he insults you and call you names,if he has any complians about you LISTEN and make corrections,the general that wins the war without a fight is the best general. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Ofadaman(m): 4:21am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Lol, see this life, you wanted him to hit you and beat you, so you can have enough reason to call him a wife beater and look for claim for domestic violence, now that he did the opposite you feel uncomfortable, wait, you don't want him to play with the kids, are they not his kids too?.
Get a grip of yourself. 2 Likes |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Bluewitch(f): 4:25am On Dec 10, 2021 |
sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.
He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.
I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.
My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? In as much I hate violence, but sis it's seems you've reset his brain...congrats... |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Bluewitch(f): 4:27am On Dec 10, 2021 |
advanceDNA:
He’s just feeling less than a man after you hit him...he can’t tell anybody becos of shame...he ddnt see the slap coming.....he knows he has been pushing you naaa..
Initiate a one on one with him... cook his best food and apologize to him that it won’t happen again.
Express your feelings that he has been abusing u emotionally... and your are not happy...
Good one .. Didn't they marry each other? Let them sort it out during the meal ...and forgive each other.... let the two parties have sense and peace..... |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Athemisia: 4:35am On Dec 10, 2021 |
HarunaWest:
Better go kneel down and apologize to that man. Since he doesn't hit you, you didnt have to hit him. Na mouth he dey use yab you, you sef go use mouth yab am back until e turn stalemate. You said he likes having sex with you, that means he doesn't hate you. All what he says is just probably the way he was brought up to see women. It lies on you to correct his notion and not to slap him. Correct an adult notion  That man is a beast... Talking down on a woman you call your wife. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by hectorswag(m): 4:47am On Dec 10, 2021 |
NovesaTillie:
Now that you have shown him that you are not an ordinary female why do you feel like you just signed your death warrant. Leave that environment before your family discovers your dead body. Wahala  |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Chigold101(m): 4:48am On Dec 10, 2021 |
NovesaTillie:
Now that you have shown him that you are not an ordinary female why do you feel like you just signed your death warrant. Leave that environment before your family discovers your dead body. The guy is a great guy. He would not lay his hands on her but she would run crazy because of his silence. That's how to kill someone slowly. He is a super star.. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by chris51(f): 5:16am On Dec 10, 2021 |
sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.
He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.
I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.
My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? I admire your husband. You wanted to turn him to a violent man but he didn't fall for it. You deserve the silent treatment he is giving you. I pray you don't push him to another woman. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by chris51(f): 5:16am On Dec 10, 2021 |
chris51:
I admire your husband. You wanted to turn him to a violent man but he didn't fall for it.
You deserve the silent treatment he is giving you. I pray you don't push him to another woman. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by SKYHIGHfx: 5:16am On Dec 10, 2021 |
daddytime:
You've been expecting him to hit you which never happened so, you ended up doing the hitting.
The power of the subconscious mind.
Whatever we harbour and nurture in our subconscious, does surely come to fruition in one way or the other.
Let's learn to condition our minds to always think positive.
Your husband is still obviously in shock or the slap did reset his brain to default settings.
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| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by HRMK: 5:26am On Dec 10, 2021 |
SEE YOURSELF NOW! |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Filmdirect: 5:26am On Dec 10, 2021 |
efficiencie:
You are likely right. If he has stopped having sex with you then he is most likely already in the process of planning to hurt you badly. First, if all you said about him is true then I wonder where you kept your brain when he was proposing to wed you. Second, if you can slap your husband then I can guess that you are the person provoking your husbands attitude towards you. You are not submissive to your husband. By your own admission, your husband cares for the kids, does his obligations to you financially and before now performs his duties as a lover. Your husband is likely in the top 10% of men globally who don't fool around but your insubordination has provoked his domineering stance towards you. If this is the case you need to swallow your mumu pride and beg him for forgiveness. Beg him to forgive your insubordination and if his behavior does not change within a week, confess all that happened to your parents/pastor/counsellor and ask them to plead on your behalf. Lastly, you will gain nothing from contending with your husband. If you wanted a sparing partner you should have remained single. A real man that believes in protecting, providing, sacrificing and leading his home is the last person you want to fight because it takes an amount of violence in men to be able to protect, provide, sacrifice and lead. You don't want to confront that part of him. Instead of contending with your husband be the woman and conquer on your knees. From my observation of good men, they are easily confused by a submissive wife. Submission makes a real man weak and vulnerable and that is why wise men are wary of those who seek to please them! My God! How did you come to such judgment against her from what you read? Nowhere in your response do you show the OP concern. Nowhere do you give her words creed. She is a human being, not an object! Have you never been bullied so much until you snapped? You think a woman once she becomes a wife has no snapping point? If what she says is true, is it unrealistic that she was so pained she lashed out and slapped him? Why can't he be slapped? You sound like you are talking to a slave. She is his half. TOGETHER they are ONE. It takes an amount of violence in men to be able to protect, provide, sacrifice and lead? You are so biased. So Jesus that protects, provides, sacrifices and leads is prone to violence? So the offshoot of kindness is violence? Is this even rational thought? This sort of advise is why women die in marriages rather than seek help. He's demeaning her, emotionally rubbishing her but she is the one causing it by somehow not being submissive? Where did you get that she has mumu pride? Listen to how you have joined her husband to tear her down further...yet you don't even know her. All you see is a female, a wife. She doesn't have to beg him. She is his wife. She needs to talk to him and in love tell him how much he hurt her and TOGETHER they need to make it work. If the fear is still constant she needs to leave for a while, and she needs to tell people she trust what is going on. The last thing we need to read about is another dead wife. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Slurity(m): 5:35am On Dec 10, 2021 |
sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.
He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.
I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.
My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? Your husband have exact characters like me in the are of his reaction after the slap. My own case is not even a slap from my wife, she only lock my cloth and drag me shouting that I must beat her in the present of my immediate younger sister leaving with us. This action hurt me to the bone but surprisingly without planning it. I did not react negatively to this her actions, in fact I was the one begging her for us to settle the misunderstanding. Let me now tell you what you have done to your husband, it is either one of this two fact. It is either he now hate you like shot and only want to be in your life because of the children or he is taking his time to hurt you back big time as you suggested. It is 70:30% because you added that he don't want sex anymore. That is a clear indication that his love for you has evaporated by your action. But you still have a big chance to win her back big time since he did not tell or report you. Do you know what i did in my own case, I waited for about too month after pretending as if nothing happens and distancing myself from the bedroom. I look for a moment that I know she is happy and will listen well to me. I brought it up that I only needed her to apologise which she broke down in tears and apologized with all her heart and I totalling forgave her. I will advice you to do the same, study him and approach him when you he is at least happy, bring up the topic and cry as if it just happened, take ALL the blame and in fact be ashamed of yourself. Ask him for forgiveness and in fact mean it. If he is a matured man. The issue should die right there |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Evii: 5:40am On Dec 10, 2021 |
NovesaTillie:
Now that you have shown him that you are not an ordinary female why do you feel like you just signed your death warrant. Leave that environment before your family discovers your dead body. Chairman, you spoke my mind...thanks a million bro |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by aigbokiejohnson(m): 5:41am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Why allow your emotions to becloud you to the extent of slapping your spouse, husband in this case. You went too far |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Goddyj(m): 6:20am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Nothing to worry about, Just go and apologize to him; your husband loves you. Stop creating tension where there's none. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by LagbajaTheBEREAN: 6:25am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Remag666:
That's the thing about silent men..
The punch that knocks you out is the one you never see coming 
If that girl thinks she slapped that man and he kept quiet because he's gentle she must have been born yesterday.
I bet he's someone like me I can plan my revenge for yrs.
People like that man rarely go looking for trouble. Forget how bad she's trying to make him look. Many are on this table courtesy of the 48 laws of power. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by AfroKnight: 6:26am On Dec 10, 2021 |
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| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by yatty4emmanuel(m): 6:34am On Dec 10, 2021 |
My dear, its pathetic, 2years marital unrest, followed with a slap,shows the degenerated level of that marriage. Madam,take my words,your husband has ended that marriage within him already. I find it stressful in typing and replying people though,but let me try for you. Bring down your ego, allow him to feel like your alpha and omega. If possible worship him,not more than God pls.pay less attention to his utterances that is if you still want the marriage to continue. On the slap issue,don't involve anyone,just approach him on your kneels target when he's playing with his kids, do that snapy,then in the night,wake him up and apologise real time. Drop your pride and have peace in your marriage.in one of your apology words,promise to respect him. May God grant you wisdom to keep your home. |
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| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by HarunaWest(m): 6:35am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Athemisia:
Correct an adult notion That man is a beast... Talking down on a woman you call your wife. yen yen yen...Are you aware that women insult men easily more than men when they are married. You wife can easily call you goat, mumu, fool, stupid man, go and see your mates, et al. Thats why i said it might have been his upbringing. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Deepthoughts: 6:36am On Dec 10, 2021 |
sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.
He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.
I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.
My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? Your account is very doubtful,do you mean your husband just talk down on you for no reason?,it appears you are the nagging troublesome n unappreciative type n your man wasn't taking it then your foolish ego pushed you to act stupidity n now that your conscience is pricking you,you came hear to concoct stories,I like the way the man reacted, sometimes silence can be very loud as well as it is golden,if you like don't go n admit your mistake then beg him for forgiveness after all when the repercussions come be ready to take it in good faith. |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by mapet: 6:37am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Karleb:
Oga is planning something huge.
You know how predators play with their preys before devouring them?
Something huge dey come.
Something something huge dey come. I think so too... |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by mapet: 6:38am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Yinkakolawole:
Call him to the room & apologize with tears on your face, if not one day he will just poison your drink & move on with another woman. He does not need to poison her to be with another woman |
| Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Yayajalo: 6:38am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Sometimes silence is the best punishment |
