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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by javispj(m): 2:33pm On Dec 10, 2021
It is what it is bro.. U see gold circle,, so no let love deceive u say na silver..

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by isaiah4life2003: 2:44pm On Dec 10, 2021
Thats bad.
www.rrc.org.ng
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Elsueno: 2:49pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

Buy some share in her porn business...


Am sure ur brain has already concluded & piece together everything, but ur heart is in denial phase......I just feel sorry for u, they fuvcked in ur own house, eat ur food & still ask u to come fix gen for them grin

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Leo81(m): 2:55pm On Dec 10, 2021
Fear of women is the beginning of wisdom...
This story tire me,. I swear.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by greypencils: 3:01pm On Dec 10, 2021
1. Girlfriend not wife
2. Ukraine is a very cold country, chances are she bleeped other guys while she was there
3. A girl with a high body count cannot stay loyal to you

The only reason to disregard the above 3 reasons is if you are the first man in her life. If you are, the chances are that you are the only man in her life and the above is untrue.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by pedrilo: 3:12pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.
Chase her away now.
Na u sabi
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by BLoomfrancs(m): 3:16pm On Dec 10, 2021
Ahmback:
To marry sef don dey fear me

Marriage na scam. Know this and know peace.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by greypencils: 3:17pm On Dec 10, 2021
Wiifesnatcher:
she just introduced you to her ex, you're well to do, he's well to fúck




you guys that do offshore works should learn to stick with ladies that don't have high sexual urge. there are ladies that have weird sexual feelings, I've once dated a lady that you've to appeal before she go even allow u sex her, she go feel unpleasant after sex


that girl is not going to be loyal
My guy was attracted to fine face, correct nyash and correct breast and all he needed to get her was to floss his money before her but truth be told, that nyash and that breast was pumped big by others before him. If he wasn't the first person to penetrate her, chances her he can't be the only one. The ex and other exes have full access.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by GoldenSpec: 3:31pm On Dec 10, 2021
I'm also sugar of words grin
Truvelisback:
I'm just salt of words.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Mavor: 3:33pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.
You still come dey open thread for the matter? A real man knows what to do and doesn't come to Nairaland seeking validation on Nigerian women issues. If there are three things a man should never accept from a lady - Never accept infidelity, disloyalty, and disrespect. I advise you to move on. You will heal with time and meet true love elsewhere, preferably not with a Nigerian woman. grin

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by placeofallure(f): 3:39pm On Dec 10, 2021
DroppingLiquid:
If truly the guy came with his girlfriend why did she need to lie in the first place? And why would she allow a guy to bang his girlfriend in a house that’s not hers?

This is the first time I’m hearing this one ohh. vagina people no go kill us.

I abhor redpillers to my marrows. But then, I am a very objective person. You are right on this one. As a lady, we hate it when our boyfriends or fiance allows his friend use his place for a quickie, it's all dirty and cheesy. My bf then now hubby, would only tell me after the deed, not before it because he knew I'd kick against it. Many ladies are like me in that aspect.

Now it's kinda weird for a woman to allow a gen man bring his gf to come do quickie in your bf house Ah! Aunty yi, e beru Olorun! Even my brother can't try that with me. She should answer for the condom.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by KingDash: 3:42pm On Dec 10, 2021
PUSSYHOE:
Mtcheeeeech na normal thing now all girls of this generation are prostitutes. This one is small marry her and see the full whore_.
bros where your location, I need to drown you in alcohol.. you no lie if you dey date naija babe na 50/50 your leg suppose dey
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by ojialo(m): 3:44pm On Dec 10, 2021
maybe na cucumber wey she buy she use am with maybe she no wan get STDs
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by 4toMaStEr(m): 3:58pm On Dec 10, 2021
Bros run oooooo....if not u will definitely regret it later I personally assured you that.....
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Breakingnews101: 4:16pm On Dec 10, 2021
rollybest:
If by The next morning, that lady is still in your house....
Then put your hands on your head and say after me...
I'M A SIMPle man, I'm SIMPly stupid. Continue saying this until wisdom locates you

Rotfl. This is funny as fk!

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Halo22: 4:27pm On Dec 10, 2021
Mr OP, I just pity u cos I know the confusion you are into right now. I think the best thing u will do is to sit her down and interrogate her thoroughly to find out what motivated her to do such thing, cos whether the guy straf her or she allowed another Niggy to use ur room in ur absence, all nah serious offence. In fact, if this story z real, just give her red card as she seemed to have lied to u upon her promiscuity.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Revolva(m): 4:36pm On Dec 10, 2021
Hahahhaha Dem do. Take ur house run short time

That girl u kept as a GF is an olosho

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by IJEYdiamond(f): 4:40pm On Dec 10, 2021
rollybest:
If by The next morning, that lady is still in your house....
Then put your hands on your head and say after me...
I'M A SIMPle man, I'm SIMPly stupid. Continue saying this until wisdom locates you

U r a wicked Person oooo cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Iboni1(m): 4:43pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.

You no thank God say them use CD?
Some na quick action.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Tadeus(m): 4:49pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.

And part of you want to forgive her? For bringing her bf to knack on your bed. The babe don't respect you talk more of love. You are digging your grave bro if you continue with her. Move on
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by DroppingLiquid: 4:50pm On Dec 10, 2021
marsup:
Gold circle..... grin.
Haven't seen that in a while.

The condom na OG
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by poweredcom(m): 4:52pm On Dec 10, 2021
@womenareapess

Then don use dis one house run chalet ..and he is saying she is his girlfriend not knowing she is a wh.ore

This type of gals is available everywhere in naija today .....

Op Dem don bang ur ashewo GF for ur house ...this OP is a small boy ...a real small pikin wey GF de shack

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by iTearHerToto: 5:11pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.
They're over 4 billion women. She's just one among... Smash and move on but y'all be taking hoes seriously and now you can't focus on your job cos you took a hoe seriously.



Pukes angry
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by wallrichy: 5:31pm On Dec 10, 2021
I guess you are a mariner/seafarer.....we hardly have time for lousy bitches.....please kick her out immediately and have your peace. A lovely and devotedly faithful babe will come your way soon. Please kick her out no matter the stupid excuses she's given you. She is an harlot operating her trade right inside your house.....such babe kills men faster than COVID 19 aspaloria virus. One Love

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by fredosan(m): 5:39pm On Dec 10, 2021
Your girl was knacked, there are no two ways about it and am not surprise because most of the people who go on sea to work for months usually have their wife slept with.

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by rollandben(m): 6:08pm On Dec 10, 2021
Guy just free her, she is a Olosho. Don't put your precious future on danger. Just push her out immediately. Naso them dey do

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Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by iyke649(m): 6:50pm On Dec 10, 2021
WillyWonda1:


Bro this isn’t a SIMP or redpill issue. Things happen for real. I don’t even believe it’s happening to me too. But it’s life and shit happens.
Guy I have observed u severally here on NL. You always cook up stories just to make front page. Mere viewing all the threads you've created simply pointed out so. I pity those wey believe ur story. Them no know sey na kraze man u be tongue grin grin
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Ayo081(m): 7:03pm On Dec 10, 2021
Differentiate:

Swears bro to me all women are the same.

Try dey Differentiate undecided
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Oppy2k2: 7:13pm On Dec 10, 2021
Your girlfriend na street she belong, he reach your turn now u wan turn community project to personal project. Is not a normal something na.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by Panda7(m): 7:21pm On Dec 10, 2021
una don spoil finish **spit on disgusting thread
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by OGAStacks2021: 7:23pm On Dec 10, 2021
Throw her clothes in the gutter and change the locks
WillyWonda1:
Right now I don’t even know what to think anymore.

My girlfriend of 2 years just got back from Ukraine after her master’s degree program and since then, she’s been frequently coming to stay with me since I’ve been on land and working from my office.

Last week, I was billed to go to our Portharcourt office because our vessel berthed there. So immediately I got the mail, I decided to quickly dash home, pick a few things I’d be needing and then move. So it happened that the electric current in the neighborhood was relatively low and couldn’t pump water and my generator isn’t in good shape. So she made arrangements for a generating set to pump water( she told me over the phone).

When I got home, I decided to park outside the gate since I was moving almost immediately. On entering the gate, I saw her and a certain boy carrying the generator to return cos the tank was already filled (she said she called the guy to help with the gen. They know each other before she traveled out).

So I just greeted them casually and they put the gem in my car and went to return it. So I decided to have a quick bath before embarking on my journey. To my greatest surprise, I saw a used condom wrapper in the bathroom. At that point, my whole body system changed and I couldn’t even bathe again. I just wore my clothes, and waited for her to return with my car so I could move. Not long after, she came back and I just told her to call me and explain what’s in the bathroom then I zoomed off.
She claims she doesn’t know anything about the condom, then later told me it was the guy that came with his girlfriend.

I’ve not picked her calls since then cos I don’t even know what to think anymore.
Please I need advice guys. I’ve not been home since last week cos I’m so disappointed in her.
A part of me wants to forgive her, but I’m being skeptical.

Guys please advise me cos I can’t trust her anymore. I’m devastated right now. I can’t even work well.
Re: I’m Devastated Right Now. Don’t Know What To Do Atm by nesgeeek(m): 7:30pm On Dec 10, 2021
Op, give her a a straight red card, move on, she doesn't deserve u. u can't trust or rely on Nigerian ladies.

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