Adesamogun:
The boy knows you wear trouser and likes you. But he told you not to wear it cos he knows his father and have warned you already. To follow an instruction just for a day become wahala and you wan marry. Trouser that you will be wearing freely once you are married and they will accept you for it overtime. You need to cast and bind the spirit following you from your village ooo. Cos that spirit really no like you atall

helinues:


Like I said , the guy himself is not matured enough to get married if he can't explain the reason why the lady can't wear trouser to his dad's house having being aware of the possible consequences.

He could have even postponed the meeting should the lady insisted and find a way to persuade her in wearing something not trousers.

Light dey bend sometimes if there is strong gravity

Justkatty:
Next time she should tie buba and gele


Never knew father-in-law are of different types thought maybe just the mother inlaw.


But the guy no try, you would have atleast stand by your intending wife to be.
Beside you owe no one any explanation on how you want your woman to be so far she dresses decently.

helinues:


He told her bluntly but the lady refused. Please is such a guy capable enough to get married. Ordinary communication with his so girl friend, he can't do

thebosstrevor1:


See the many false assumptions you have written down.

So you think, the guy didn't explain why?

Infact your last statement is contradictory to the statement you made.

If light dey bend sometimes, if there is strong gravity? Why can't she just bend for a day to a simple rule?

larryking540:


baba it seems you have not met ladies who use this term ,when u correct them ",it is who I am ,or it seems you don't know me ",,,when u met them or date these types of lady ,u will not think twice leaving them to their predicament

Justkatty:
Next time she should tie buba and gele


Never knew father-in-law are of different types thought maybe just the mother inlaw.


But the guy no try, you would have atleast stand by your intending wife to be.
Beside you owe no one any explanation on how you want your woman to be so far she dresses decently.

thebosstrevor1:


That is a red flag.

Signs of un understanding woman

killmods:

Isn't it pure foolishness for u to disobey me and still demand I stand by U Some of u girls don't even know what it takes to build a relationship talk more a future with someone. Shameful

helinues:


The guy should be majorly held responsible tbh. So he can not talk to his girl and explain the reason why she can't wear the trouser having being aware of the kind of father he has.

Of what different would it even make if she did not wear the trouser and wear something else?

larryking540:


many ladies bro ,where not been trained how to hold a relationship by their mothers ,why did I specified mother because mother's are met to pass culture and norms to children while the father is away hunting, hustling outside ,but guess what our mothers advocate for them to get all the degree,obey only examination questions ,obey only lectures ,by the time they are out ,they leave a lonely life or I forget to add ,they stay glue to Instagram, Facebook and pic mix's ,,,,,,,most can't hold conversation again ,let me shock you man ,u see lesbians it's coming to stay very soon ,don't be angry if ur girl breaks off with you and dates another fellow lady don't be

Treasure17:
“let your daddy accept me for who i am” does not mean you shouldn't apply wisdom where necessary. Sometimes we make life difficult for ourselves.

Favfables1:


Bros calm down first eh...
This is not a matter of her being a prostit.ute ((ignore that fellow up there)), this is about respect...

Let's look at it from the father's perspective...
You're coming to my house and there's a rule in my house that women shouldn't wear trouser and you were informed, buh the fact that you still came to my house with trouser as a woman, despite knowing my rules is a blatant disrespect to me, and thus it's unacceptable...

And if in your opinion, a man making such rules in his own home makes him ignorant, then you're truly very naive ((no offense))...
It's his house and it's his rules...
If you can't abide to it, then don't go there!! Stay in your own house!!

When you're going for a job interview, why don't you wear jeans and polo, why do you wear cooperate?? Why don't you tell them "take me as I am"?? Don't you abide by the rules and wear cooperate? then when you get the job, you wear your polo on Thursdays and Fridays, no one will trouble you by then...

The best thing for her to have done is to just comply with the rules of the house, when she eventually gets married and move to her own house, she can then wear her trouser...
Them no born that man well make him come set that rule for her marital home...

And just so you know...
That is not hypocrisy, it's wisdom!!!
When you're in Rome, act like a Roman, cause it is foolishness to do otherwise...

killmods:

Hmm na serious problems be all these o.. They know absolutely nothing about keeping good relationships even with themselves as friends.. na God go just see person through. And when u try to teach them how to go they say ur controlling or their fav "insecure" And as for lesbians that one normal here. They suck each other and fvck themselves too. Sometimes they pick a boy for their orgy and pay him in the morning or whenever they're done with him. I have some of them as friends here so I know first hand. This world done cast finish

benqo01:
Nobody is calling her a prostitute stop twisting words here,everything is wisdom here,will she die if she wears skirt?
Will you plait your and tint your hair visiting your girlfriend parent for the first time? abeg talk true even if she don tell yu say e no go make sense? Will you still go ahead?

helinues:
Like I said, the lady should be happy cos to start with, that guy is not capable/matured enough to get married.

He knew his dad would frown on the lady wearing trouser cos they are religious. He shouldn't have allowed the lady to wear the trouser to start with. A real guy/man supposed to know how to pass important message .

thebosstrevor1:
Really, you and i know that in Nigeria, marriage is not only about the couples but also about the family.

So you want a family problem when they haven't even started the marriage.

Like i said earlier, it is better to have sense than wokeness

Magnoliaa:


What is wokeness? And how does wokeness come into this matter now?

general111:
I am from the south but my dad grew up in the west, so he believes that younger people should lie down to greet them..
I wasnt ready to make my fiancee lie down to greet him, i only told her that my dad likes to be greeted that way.
I was ready to fight for her, if my dad rejects her if she doesnt lie down..
Behold when she came visiting, my fiancee lied down and greeted, right now my dad loves her like kilode..
That girl that wore trousers is plain stupid and she is not ready to get married.
I am sure she will do what is needed in her next relationship..
Afterall, her father inlaw will not bring such rules to her matrimonial home.