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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Boss13: 3:42pm On Dec 16, 2021
Dpundict:
It is well bro. I have met worse here in ajah.

You're looking for a wife in Lagos and worse still in Ajah/Lekki? What are you smoking and drinking again?

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Krexpah(m): 3:42pm On Dec 16, 2021
You never see anything
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by fluffybaby(f): 3:43pm On Dec 16, 2021
FunnyDude:
Op if you looking to settle down, you don't date one lady alone. You game alot of them at the same time.

You should have keep dating alot of women at the same time so that you will have access to pick from, and not starting all over each time dissappoint you.

As when one fvk up, u upgrade the next suitable lady asap. That's how to do it

Exactly. Same thing I tell women these days too. Serial daters, serial romantic tourers and Bleep boys are plenty in naija so I advise ladies to date as many men as possible Incase one mad man just decides to move on she won't have heart break.dating doesn't have to do with having sex.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by blockgeek69(m): 3:43pm On Dec 16, 2021
Nosa111:
When will you start training your kids, when you are 50? And ready for retirement ? LOL

Retirement? Lol

Not everybody slave away on a 9-5 government job. People run business and enterprise that makes money even when they aren't around.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Boss13: 3:48pm On Dec 16, 2021
fluffybaby:


Exactly. Same thing I tell women these days too. Serial daters, serial romantic tourers and Bleep boys are plenty in naija so I advise ladies to date as many men as possible Incase one mad man just decides to move on she won't have heart break.dating doesn't have to do with having sex.

Not having sex in dating is not possible. It's like advising someone to enter hell without getting burnt. I will advise ladies to date with intention. Keep your virginity for your husband. Don't give it away too easy. It is one of the highest honour, including kids, a woman can give a man.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by faithfull18(f): 3:48pm On Dec 16, 2021
Eeyah...
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by bizhop01: 3:49pm On Dec 16, 2021
I don't think you are husband material
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by poweredcom(m): 3:49pm On Dec 16, 2021
True talk ...nigerian ladies of this generation are just not worth it

No sense noting to offer in relationship ...very selfish and they are lost in history

Just some few I can count on but those few can't be enough for the teaming young men who deserve a wife

Many of these girls are now professional prostitute online and offline ...many can't even know their body count ...

Some sold their senses for iPhone and while some are core feminist that can't assist a struggling man

This is the very truth ....

So sad any body wey wan marry naija gal ...just know say na used material u wan marry

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Emperor88(m): 3:50pm On Dec 16, 2021
What is it with Africans and marriage at all cost ?!.....would you rather remain single or be in a bad marriage?. If you can’t find someone despite the fact that you’re ready just take it like a normal thing.
Your priority is to do well in life, help people(the less privileged) and the world(climate or solve a world problem).

Having children shouldn’t be a must these days with billions in extreme poverty not to talk of marriage.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by nowornever2016: 3:53pm On Dec 16, 2021
blockgeek69:
Man no get deadline go marry, if you doubt me, ask Ned Nwoko.

At OP, the woman meant for you (if there is anything like that) will come your way when you aren't expecting or searching. So chill and live your life to the fullest, enjoying every moment of it.
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Pharaoh4rin(m): 3:53pm On Dec 16, 2021
If you can pay 20k, I'll connect you to two wife materials.
One of them is my cousin. The second one was a colleague.
There too good to earn a husband. I'm not kidding!

Email me on talktoxerxes777@gmail.com

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by fluffybaby(f): 3:56pm On Dec 16, 2021
Boss13:


Not having sex in dating is not possible. It's like advising someone to enter hell without getting burnt. I will advise ladies to date with intention. Keep your virginity for your husband. Don't give it away too easy. It is one of the highest honour, including kids, a woman can give a man.

It's very possible. I dated like that and did not sleep with the men. I kept them at let's just watch each other's character and see how we work out before we make it romantic. Down side is I dump them as fast as I met them if they have any trait I don't like cos I haven't committed my body and heart emotionally. Tho I make it clear from the onset so no one will say I was double dating on them.
The battle was for who will win my heart completely. Just that women of today don't know how to be ladies these days. Fake Feminism have turn d their brains upsidedown.

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Revolva(m): 3:56pm On Dec 16, 2021
hedonido:
The entitlement mentality and pseudo-feminism fuelled by social media and negative exposure would be the death of this generation of women. It is incredible.

Every idiot wants to use iPhone 13, want to live in Lekki, and wants constant 'free' alerts to be hitting her phone for doing absolutely nothing. On top of it all, they are all psychologically damaged, quarrelsome, and detest submissiveness. It is a joke really.

Marry at your own risk.

Truth bro this generation of girls ...de vex me .... especially the ones that live in cities around omo all of them na runs girl

It's just some few of Dem that are just it and that few of them still get am for body they can change am am for u.

These days even church no sure ..I have see core Prostitute sitting with me in church bench to bench ....I fear ...LOL so dose ones self de find husband hahahaha I pity men

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Bastard1stborn: 3:57pm On Dec 16, 2021
GonzalezAguero:

For your own good don't marry..it's not compulsory you do so.. relax and enjoy your life man..

Why not tell him how you manage to get two kids from 2 different baby mamas without constant wahala for you
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by nkemdi89(f): 3:57pm On Dec 16, 2021
Boss13:


You are acting like a man. Guess you played yourself.
I don't think so , I was planning my life the way it will suit me in order not to inconvenience anyone or take some actions I may regret executing.
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Starships4u(m): 3:58pm On Dec 16, 2021
EkehPraise:

Wallet and Earbuds

So it was her who took those stuffs after her visit
How did yhu finally find out?
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Virusvetty: 4:00pm On Dec 16, 2021
jawalis:

C’mon baby. You don’t have to be that way, how can you even think I’ll chose anyone over you, pls don’t listen to anyone my love. I want you to know how blessed I feel to have you. and, in any other lifetime, I would still choose to fall in love with you. For you I make this promise, my sweetheart, that I will never leave you and I will always be your support, protector, your other half. I've been waiting for you for so long, and now that you are here, I will never ever let you go denique, We both know that life is not always fair. We know that there will come a time when we have to face trials right, but if you can hold my hands with you; we’ll overcome. You are my happiness, a very special blessing God has given to me. I love you so much and will always love until forever. That's a promise that I’ll surely going to keep forever in my heart.
This one na lust
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Virusvetty: 4:02pm On Dec 16, 2021
whippersnapper:
My mom just introduced me to her colleagues daughter. A girl that is already my ex. I lash am that year sha
pikin of nowadays
Make nobody sha ex my wife o
Ehenehn
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by darediamond(m): 4:03pm On Dec 16, 2021
Nicepoker:
God is working so hard to delay your premium tears.
grin grin grin
Chai!!
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Topeonline24: 4:04pm On Dec 16, 2021
Everybody with their stories, i am married with kids but my sister is single and searching. Am desperate to see her married this year which make me do series of things. 1. Write to a neighbour if he will be interested to marry my sis 2. Create matchmaking platform 3. Join nairaland purposely because of her (am a guest of over 5yrs) 4. Fast and pray for her and more. I believed she is 92% wife material. Plzz if you are God fearing,mature mind,graduate,understanding, Muslim, AA, loving,37(age limit) and you have marriage goals. Message me on 09062174780
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Virusvetty: 4:05pm On Dec 16, 2021
oke2018:
Deeper life or not what will be will be ,I'm still very much single just because of one deeper life bro,na only God knows the best sha
He dated u or what?
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by darediamond(m): 4:06pm On Dec 16, 2021
Kris25:



Maybe your wife still dey secondary school just wait small

Wickedness of the highest order!!
grin
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by NGArmyTerrorist: 4:07pm On Dec 16, 2021
SmellySperm:

Lols... wetin she thief bro?
I am also interested in this question too grin
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by TheGreatOne90: 4:08pm On Dec 16, 2021
mrksquare:


I'm on the same ship with you. When one finally decide to get married that is when you will know that good women are an endangered specie.
The truth is, most of the qualities we desire from our wife, are usually discouraged by there friends and clicks. Arrogance and stubbornness is class to them.

I once heard a young lady on call, seriously advising her friend(about to wed), not to allow her wedding reception hold at a particular venue, against the wish of her husband(from the conversation, i could tell, the venue has already been choosen, but she wants it changed)She vehemently said in igbo, "nne ekwe kwala ooh" . Infact, I got pissed off and had to call her out, for trying to cause problem unnecessarily. The few good ones are under the very bad influence of there friends.

No be small thing my brother

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by darediamond(m): 4:09pm On Dec 16, 2021
toujurs:
This is what i told guys earlier, a good woman with a good heart and character is very very hard to find, most of the ladies we have now are hungry lazy gold diggers or either very selfish. Look beyond physical beauty, its a scam. The beauty lies beneath, Ladies you see unmarried at 40, Bro check well its her bad character and selfishness that made her still single at such age, No guy will see a good hearted lady and keave her, guys have their own issues. But women own are worst. You cannot be a liability and still come into a man's life to dictate what happen.

THIS IS POWERFUL!!!!

"You cannot be a liability and still come into a man's life to dictate what happens"

TRUE!!

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by macrodata(m): 4:10pm On Dec 16, 2021
SmellySperm:

Lols... wetin she thief bro?
E no go pass small small change on table top and collecting money under false pretense. Na their way.
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Nobody: 4:11pm On Dec 16, 2021
Virusvetty:

He dated u or what?
Yes ready to marry him but story long ooooo
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by darediamond(m): 4:16pm On Dec 16, 2021
InTheCloudySky:
You should be more focused on whether you're husband material yourself. There're good women out there.
May we know your personal definition of "Husban Material" please??
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by TheGreatOne90: 4:16pm On Dec 16, 2021
Eaglesence:


A good woman will not sleep with you first before marriage. She's out there, unless she not your type.
Is always about sex and looks, for you ladies. Most of you have terrible attitude
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by Rree: 4:16pm On Dec 16, 2021
You better look for a older working class matured lady and not these small kids from 28 Downward . Those young girls are not ready to settle down they are about Instagram clout life

The older ones have experienced a lot and are ready though they have their own altitude
Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by olamoses75(m): 4:17pm On Dec 16, 2021
To even get original charger hard for this country, not to talk of a wife material

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Re: All My Efforts To Settle Down This Year Is Failing by darediamond(m): 4:18pm On Dec 16, 2021
seproperties:
Wife Materials time has expired with our fathers Generation , stop wasting your time ,its Generation of Hoe,Oloshos, Slay Mamas ,Hook Ups ,Even Married women dey too . Feminism ,Indomie Ladies .. Gender Equality etc ...

Just look for one lady ,Pay her dowry ,No carry her go registry ooo ..Have Babies feed them and face ur Front ...

Wao!!!
"Just look for one lady ,Pay her dowry ,No carry her go registry ooo ..Have Babies feed them and face ur Front"

I like this.

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