Hello pals,

Its shocking what men can do to women. I have been with this boy for 8 years yet he is not satisfied. Actually we started together when he has nothing not until he started working with Shell then he decided to make a change.

Firstly when i started seeing the girl in his house he would deny having anything to do with her. The most annoying part of it all is that the girl is too short/small. I have asked some people on different ocassions and they keep telling the same story either the girl is taking care of him ? or she used juju means. Since this man left me i have not been able to cope with another guy. I need some solutions to what step i should take in regards to this. Please?

help ? I am single and available. let's mingle

When did height become a criteria for women?

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Plz stop that gender talk jare, just becos ur man dumped u after he got some money doesn't mean female does not do the same thing to men.!!!rubbish. Anyway u were a mumu for giving money and buying material things for him when he had nothing, am sure at the back of your head, you knew he was going to leave you anything soon when he get a great job and making money, so y are shock now , or do you want people to feel pity for you, to bad I can't because you should have used you common sense.

About about the other girl, she didn't use juju oh. Your guy liked what he sees in her, and decided to date her.

Don't u realize your ex stayed because you were feeding, clothing and giving him money. When are females ever going to learn hmmmm shio.

Anyway your ex is gone forever, so move on with your life. The deed is done oh and there nothing you get do now to win him back.

Actually i wasn't buying nor giving him money or whatever. I just had a date with him because i loved him but he changed when things were getting better for him.

All i asked is for your advice and not ur critizing me for having dated him. I thought you could be of help.

Althesame thanks anyway

Hi Ferlie can we mingle?

kathynick:

Hi Ferlie can we mingle?

yes we can mingle. let's talk on YIM

Ferlie: How do you mean YIM

yahoo instant messenger

I wasn't critizing you oh but just speaking my mind.

Omo Eko:

I wasn't critizing you oh but just speaking my mind.

No problems thanks anyway,

here is mine: Though i'm tired and i guess i'll soon retire to bed hope you don't mind

i will buzz you.

And yet there are some men who dare open their mouths to say "women are only after our money" when they are the ones who dump those who stood by them during hard times.

As I always say we are caught in a very dangerous vicious cycle.

michelin89:

And yet there are some men who dare open their mouths to say "women are only after our money" when they are the ones who dump those who stood by them during hard times.

As I always say we are caught in a very dangerous vicious cycle.

are u talking from experience?

Dr Ferlie:

are u talking from experience?

Person nor fit write again abi na only from experience we dey know the truth?

Go to the romance board and you'll find what I am talking about:
-Men dump good girls and go for bad girls.
-Good girls then decide to become bad girls because that's the only way of having your way.
-Men now complain there aren't good girls anymore.

Micheln89 says: There is little we can do.

chill out for some time, hang out with your girl friends go shopping, read some books (not romance o) go on holiday

Please, no sexist talk. All men ain't like that!

Dis Guy:

chill out for some time, hang out with your girl friends go shopping, read some books (not romance o) go on holiday

I agree with Dis Guy (pun intended). Change is the only constant and so be prepared for it. You should think positively imagined if you had married him or something and something freakish happens. You are now 'free' cuz you won't have to bother if he's cheating on you.

Holla

Kathy girl, do you honestly think starting something so soon is the answer to your woes? Common girl! Give yourself time to breath! You'l see things clearer, and make better decisions! You might end up resenting Mr new and yourself if you jump into anything new.


U can have friends but dont be in a hurry k?
Be good my sis, bye ya

Oh my girl take it as part of life,assume you never meet him in life, cross the day that you firstly meet him, in your heart.And just look for your Mr. Right.and be free

Oh, my girl take it as part of life, Assume you never meet him in your life and cross out the day that you firstly meet him in your heart.And look for Mr. Right.

Mwaka:

Oh, my girl take it as part of life, Assume you never meet him in your life and cross out the day that you firstly meet him in your heart.And look for Mr. Right.

simple

Thanks to you all who contributed to this. I am so grateful that you guys could give such advice and i really appreciate. My thanks goes to Mwaka and Macutie. I really really appreciate you guys for your advice. I will definitely put the day i met him off my mind and go on with my life and as for Macuties advice i will strictly adhere to that.

Thanks once again and have a wonderful weekend.

Kathy

kathynick: Hello pals,

Its shocking what men can do to women. I have been with this boy for 8 years yet he is not satisfied. Actually we started together when he has nothing not until he started working with Shell then he decided to make a change.

Firstly when i started seeing the girl in his house he would deny having anything to do with her. The most annoying part of it all is that the girl is too short/small. I have asked some people on different ocassions and they keep telling the same story either the girl is taking care of him ? or she used juju means. Since this man left me i have not been able to cope with another guy. I need some solutions to what step i should take in regards to this. Please?

I hope you didnt dump someone who really love you because of this guy?
If yes then just know that its karma.

michelin89:

Person nor fit write again abi na only from experience we dey know the truth?

Go to the romance board and you'll find what I am talking about:
-Men dump good girls and go for bad girls.
-Good girls then decide to become bad girls because that's the only way of having your way.
-Men now complain there aren't good girls anymore.

Micheln89 says: There is little we can do.

same goes to guys,relationship nowadays are full of deceit,lies,selfishness later heartbreak...
So I`m not surprised anymore.