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Advise Me by Thisisa: 9:35am On Dec 16, 2021 |
My experience with ladies hasn't been all nice. Though I hadn't been a SIMP. Latest experience is a girl I met DEC 2019. We were good friends. One of the mistake I made was that I didn't shoot my shot early. We continued to be friend. I noticed she's very nice girl. She given me a lot bought nice cloth for me on my bday. And all. So about 6month after I met her. That was last I asked that we should be in a relationship. She said no. And later on started moving even more closer to me. I lost my job August last year. I felt we began to be distant. So I left it that way. Till fdbuary March this year. When she called and questioned why I have not been chatting, calling etc. Ever since, she calls me etc, and even assist me in terms of job search. she had even giving money when I was seriously down financially even with asking. She tells me misses me and all sort. I was non committal because I really do not know what she wants friendship or relationship. So the beginning of last month I spoke to her again about been in a relationship, she said she would pray about. Ever since no communication from her. Will it be a good advise for me to chat her. And what can I say? |
Re: Advise Me by Nobody: 9:44am On Dec 16, 2021 |
She's still praying about it. So, GIVE HER SPACE 1 Like |
Re: Advise Me by 2muchDrag: 9:46am On Dec 16, 2021 |
Beebah2000:shift |
Re: Advise Me by Kucoin: 9:50am On Dec 16, 2021 |
Baba just continue distancing your self from her. This kain gals keep guys like you as backup plan. Once you hit green like this naim her prayer go answer. For the mean time focus on making a head way for yourself first and avoid distraction like this relationship you're seeking. |
Re: Advise Me by Nobody: 9:53am On Dec 16, 2021 |
2muchDrag:Oga, no space ooo. Go and sit down on the floor. |
Re: Advise Me by ahmthankgod(m): 10:07am On Dec 16, 2021 |
Beebah2000:Hmmm... |
Re: Advise Me by Nobody: 10:11am On Dec 16, 2021 |
You're her backup. Incase her ticket cut, she'll fall back to u. Her prayer is still processing... |
Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 11:45am On Dec 16, 2021 |
SmellySperm:Hmm |
Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 4:59pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
I need more advise |
Re: Advise Me by TMTR: 5:02pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
You lack abundance mentally and I am not even talking financially |
Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 7:07pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
TMTR:In what aspect then |
Re: Advise Me by TMTR: 7:34pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Re: Advise Me by Boss13: 7:38pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Thisisa: Go and get a job before thinking of a relationship. Stop misplacing your priorities. Even if you lose her, she is not the only woman in the world. These are the issues I have with young men. 1 Like |
Re: Advise Me by Nobody: 7:42pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Well, contact her and ask her again. If she says "no" again or that she's still praying about it, then move on. |
Re: Advise Me by Nobody: 8:24pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Thisisa: Some girls like relationship to start with a direct flow from friendship to commitment. Asking her puts a bump in that flow. Let it flow naturally. Don't ask her again. Act like you're her man and see how she'll be all yours. |
Re: Advise Me by FriendsAndFans(m): 8:27pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
You are a rebound bro just tell her you want sex with her... Make it straight to the point, that you want a lot of sex and much more of it |
Re: Advise Me by helinues: 8:29pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Work on yourself, your financial, your emotions before thinking of working on any relationship |
Re: Advise Me by Jeremani: 8:57pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
U still post this story again? |
Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 11:19pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
helinues:Well I have been working on myself. Even when I am not yet financially buoyant a good woman is already admiring me. I needed to shoot my shot to know if she truely want me or it's just a friendship stuff. |
Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 11:20pm On Dec 16, 2021 |
Jeremani:Yes I need to. So I won't make a rash, decision I could regret later |
Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 5:40am On Dec 17, 2021 |
FriendsAndFans:Never gonna tell her that |
Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 5:41am On Dec 17, 2021 |
HedwigesMaduro:Lol. I have done that and she almost slipped away |
Re: Advise Me by Nancyeke: 7:48am On Dec 17, 2021 |
My humble assessment she wanted you guys to friends. Shed given you the I'd pray about it sentence to be nice enough. I will advise you to stop thinking about her has more but rather just a good friend |
Re: Advise Me by Jeremani: 8:57am On Dec 17, 2021 |
Thisisa:Okay may God see u through |
Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 2:54pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Nancyeke:Okay |
Re: Advise Me by Thisisa: 11:37pm On Dec 18, 2021 |
Well so time's up I am perfectly moving on. I need to develop myself. And work on myself a whole lot |
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