Just wondering why ppl behave this way, I am naturally a very nice, humble, and caring person, not trying

They behave like that when dey don see you finish.

Are u a taurus?
kinda feel the same too

You see those two pills below? They look the same, and have the same color. Research it. But your mind thinks they have different colors because of their backgrounds.

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You are like the pill; the background (energies) that you surround yourself with makes a big difference and changes how people view you.

TeddyJammy:
Are u a taurus?

kinda feel the same too

Meaning?

i dont understand this post

ModestGal:
Meaning?

Never mind

As I am the one who type this... You just wrote everything about me up there...

As in, some went to the extent that they look elsewhere whenever they see me coming... Spreading rumours bout me being pompous... But me? As if I care... Am not bothered...

ModestGal:
Just wondering why ppl behave this way, I am naturally a very nice, humble, and caring person, not trying to brag, but that's the truth. But my default setting is bullshit once I'm yet to accept people. Na games I go just dey use people play. Can't remember when I started this though,, but I guess it was my way of coping with people trying to come close, I usually get lots of people trying to come close as friends,and since I'm an introvert, they would think I hate them or I suck, so turning it to a game makes me able to talk to lots of people and not get them offended.

So ass I said, takes a while for me to trust, and accept people, but when I do, I usually want to return love/ care in doubles and tripples. Even me sef no say, my friends are the luckiest if for say I rich but ontop say I broke,wetin man go do. But I still want dey do small small sha
But this is where the problem comes, once I start to been dey nice, I don't know if I'm being too nice ni o, I don't understand, ppl will start feeling themselves,and be behaving in a funny way, and as per say, I'm very egoistic, even though say,I'm broke, I value myself alot, because I believe that once I'm still alive, I can still be anything big, and thus my self esteem is on the roof. So as them begin to dey act funny, my default settings go dey knock

But now that I'm trying to become a better person, I don dey learn to dey pretend alot, and makes things a lil better. But can't stop thinking why people behave like that, because I don't

Smiles** I’m Aries but we have similar behavior.. I have this way of life, I love the mind game and to those try to come close if you’re not nice I will easily found out, erase off and move on Immediately. I hate bad energy so much

That is why I like ghosting many people to avoid see finish..
I'm a kinda ambivert, I'd gad ego..
If en just dey like say, you think say ah don dey friendly with you too much..
Bros or sis.. You will be ghosted and I mean forever.. If forever exist.lol..

Ion give a Bleep bout what other humans think bout me cause we all ain't perfect neither we are righteous..
So stay your lane..
Na how ah dey paro my life oo.

You are learning. Keep going.
More surprises for you though and that is if u keep a lot of friends. Humans are full of surprises.
If u need peace of mind then reduce your circle of friends and keep your families close

Mercury12:
You are learning. Keep going.
More surprises for you though and that is if u keep a lot of friends. Humans are full of surprises.
If u need peace of mind then[b] reduce your circle of friends and keep[/b] your families close

One might never know the real world if you don't make friends though. What I do is to be prepared for anything and acts as the situation needs.

ModestGal:
Just wondering why ppl behave this way, I am naturally a very nice, humble, and caring person, not trying to brag, but that's the truth. But my default setting is bullshit once I'm yet to accept people. Na games I go just dey use people play. Can't remember when I started this though,, but I guess it was my way of coping with people trying to come close, I usually get lots of people trying to come close as friends,and since I'm an introvert, they would think I hate them or I suck, so turning it to a game makes me able to talk to lots of people and not get them offended.

So ass I said, takes a while for me to trust, and accept people, but when I do, I usually want to return love/ care in doubles and tripples.I go wan treat people like Angels, Queens and Kings, Even me sef no say, my friends are the luckiest if for say I rich but ontop say I broke,wetin man go do. But I still want dey do small small sha
But this is where the problem comes, once I start to been dey nice, I don't know if I'm being too nice ni o, I don't understand, ppl will start feeling themselves,and be behaving in a funny way, and as per say, I'm very egoistic, even though say,I'm broke, I value myself alot, because I believe that once I'm still alive, I can still be anything big, and thus my self esteem is on the roof. So as them begin to dey act funny, my default settings go dey knock

But now that I'm trying to become a better person, I don dey learn to dey pretend alot, and makes things a lil better. But can't stop thinking why people behave like that, because I don't, and almost 80% of people do that to me. Maybe I'm thee problem,who knows

Behave how ?

The 21st century woke babies find solace in masking up their ineffective (or lack of) communication skills in a lot of b.s like 'vibe' 'zodiac signs' or 'energy'

As an introvert you suck at socialising. Own up to it and get better at it if you want to. Don't blame it on vibe. We got learn to take responsibility for our actions

Seeing it as a game is a great way to condition your mind to become a better communicator and sociable person