Pataricatering:
him sef na simp - he freak out run mental when person e dey call hoe dump am .

Na confam simp na. Hahaha. It's just empty braggadocio and plenty hot air with a lirru bit of psychological complexes.

T0T0fucker:


okay you were the one who shined tourchlight for us on different occasions when the deed was on.

for you to know the actual due dates.

been ignoring you for a long time, I just felt to drop this

you sef wey do the do no know d correct date . Na Feb first e later become March when calculations no gel .

T0T0fucker:

once again, your sick brain supposed let you know some details were twist for anonymous reason

be like say u don twist too many things it don become lie

Rebic:


So because it might destroy the new home the guy should forget a potential baby?

As you lay your bed my dear.....

lol the part giving u a hard on Is revenge on the girl .
Na woman matter go kill u people .

Make your own decisions

Magnoliaa:
[s][/s]
Mi o raye fun gbogbo eleyi. Ma bi mi ni jamb question, jo.

I love you dear . I love unapologetic women. Kudos

Pataricatering:
I love you dear . I love unapologetic women. Kudos

Nancyama:
The fact that it's not acceptable in your own state doesn't mean it's not acceptable in other Igbo states.

If you impregnate any Enugu or Anambra lady without marrying her properly, then forget about the child. He/She belongs to the parents of the mother. Go ask well before you make that mistake of calling my comment "meaningless". Never argue what you don't know.

A child born out of wedlock automatically belongs to the parent of the girl, I repeat myself again. I didn't say he/she belongs to husband of the lady.

If you like go pregnant one Igbo babe and come back later to claim the child without having done proper traditional rite, you'll fight in vain.

Sorry I misunderstood you initially. Thought you meant the child can be claimed by the womans husband.

But then instances where the child is claimed by the girls people means the husband doesn't have himself deceived into accepting another man's child as his..but in this case, the husband is about to father another man's child which may cause his death by heart attack if he finds out later in the future.

I am from anambra...and even though the girls parent can claim the child, when he grows up, he can reunite with his father and bid you guys fare well. Hope you know?

Even if DNA proves the baby is yours (even though in your dreams, you can't and would never have assess to the baby for DNA), you don't and will never have any right to father that child because it doesn't belong to you.

T0T0fucker:
Pataricatering everyone here viewing is looking you like lunatic unleashed, hence the silence.

please continue your display

lol , my dear , you got dumped by someone you thought shouldn't have the right to dump you
. U are a classic example of a scorned fool . The girl dodged a deadly bullet - u are not husband material neither are you fatherhood material ! Low life narcissist p.o.s .

T0T0fucker:


I will only leave them when I confirm the child is not mine.

You're just a TROUBLE MAKER.
Someone found her worthy to be wifed, now you want to destroy her new home.

9isguy:
Hope you are not one of the few that sees every young guys that is richer than you as a yahoo boy ?

He sure seems like one from the way he talks.......He sounds so bitter.

T0T0fucker:

yes, I shouldn't have housed a hóe.. she will always be a hóe I Know that.

that's why when she left, I didn't give a hoot. but the recent happenings Is what's getting me worried.

Truth is, you don’t really want the child because you don’t care.
You’re just mad, very mad because you realized that she played you! You thought you were catching fun but she used you and made you feel like a fool!
You feel used and you want to make her pay for it by disrupting her life.
You’re angry because someone else values what you consider “trash”!

If she had told you then that she was pregnant for you, you would never have accepted with the excuse that she was just a “one night stand” or that you both were just “friends with benefits”.
You would have rejected that child.

Do the DNA asap so you can move on.

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

Chill a bit to observe the baby as she grows older. If you are still convinced in next 3 to 6 months you can go ahead with you plans. But be careful those olosho's can be very desperate especially if the Yahoo boy is really loaded.

T0T0fucker:

yes, I shouldn't have housed a hóe.. she will always be a hóe I Know that.

that's why when she left, I didn't give a hoot. but the recent happenings Is what's getting me worried.

Sorry, but I think you are equally a man hoe . And your attitude towards women is shockingly shameful. With this attitude, you will end up damaging the live of any child or lady that ends up with you. One wonders the type of toxic family and environment you come from for you to think of women in such a misogynistic way. Go and make your own family!

Silvermandt:
Why don't you call her and discuss everything with your ex rather than posting it here? I don't really understand people who demostrate their personal affairs on forums. Talk to her first and then decide what you can do and whether your doubts have any ground.

u want op to call a married woman and tell her that her child belongs to him not her husband. u get liver o.
she go curse and swear for u same time. do u know the implication of what u insinuating? and u think the lady will even entertain such conversation.

OP, disregard every insult and act of intimidation posited to you on this thread. You have every right to be sure if that baby is yours or not.

I understand women will always support their fellow woman in this case, given how unfaithful 97% of them are these days. However, I am surprised that fellow men are insulting and lambasting you for trying to do what's right.

I would never knowingly abandon my child, no matter the circumstance. I couldn't live with myself knowing that I have a child out there.

well my gee I suggest u coordinate this babe, norms talk one on one maybe at a cool place that's got Lil or fewer individuals no carry her go nack o.. cox as u said it a one night stand and not that she never wanted to settle down with you...d issue bsay she has been with that guy even before meeting with you,so e just happen say d deal has been done...believe me if you confront this babe with wisdom no cast on low...she's going to clear out some few HIDDEN-SECRETS...

fear those genders

MrBrownJay1:
you dont give a fukc about the babe but yet had unprotected sex with her... and now that she caught one of the most deadly diseases that you can catch when having unprotected sex (aka A PREGNANCY), you are here talking in tongues.

SOLUTION: quietly contact the babe and openly ask her that you want her to have a DNA test done on that child (for peace of mind)...,and if she refuses to quietly have a DNA test done, openly confront her in front of her man and explain the situation to him too (i am sure he will understand as nobody want to have such doubts in their lives).

if the babe is smart, she will have the test done quietly as to not have the skeletons in her closet explode in her damn face.

btw if the baby is yours, start looking for ways to co-parent that child.

Sounds like a plan to me

bigjackass:
You can't suddenly call her up now out of nowhere and be questioning who owns her child like a fool . DNA test is over 100k. Can you afford it without destabilizing yourself? Can you take full responsibility for comfortable upkeep of the child ? or you just want to look for trouble

later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)[i][/i]

Did you read this from the OP?
100k shouldn't be an issue

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

Your mind is already made over what you want to do.

Truly,you should be grateful she didn't infect you with one deathly STD.

Claiming a 2 day old baby as yours because it's fair in complexion ?

T0T0fucker:

mumu man, yes I do like children.

same reason why I can't get scammed of my offsprings to one impotent mofoes like you.

if it easy why you nor make sure say the picking your wife born na you truly get am.


go find some body biological child to steal not mine.

if you are impotent go adopt pickin

You keep talking about impotent, have you thought that you might be the impotent one I mean you have been banging her raw for a while now.

Maybe you couldn't get her pregnant for her to trap you down so she moved on to the next guy who by the way is richer than you.

dayo229:


You keep talking about impotent, have you thought that you might be the impotent one I mean you have been banging her raw for a while now.

Maybe you couldn't get her pregnant for her to trap you down so she moved on to the next guy who by the way is richer than you.

Another angle.....

frozen70:


What if the child wasn't yours after a DNA test

What if you started this drama and she looses her marriage and the test comes out negative yet you didn't marry her

What if you ignore her and move on knowing that you can get a girl to replace her and possibly carry your child to term in your home

People do over look the most important thing that are supposed to bother them in life, so that they can live long

you forgot to add WHAT IF I WAS RIGHT

OGAStacks2021:
Do the DNA asap so you can move on.

na must, I can't dash out my sperm just like that to a hôe and a simPLE man.

T0T0fucker:
not everyone is a weakling and wretched like you.

if am not financially and physically stable to fight this, the topic headline would have been different.

(please read the headline again before you comment)

Touchy touchy!!! Sorry ohh. No be me sey make you go dey do cum offering inside the cesspit of olosho. Sorry ohh. If you wanted to have a child why not inform the girl about her being your baby mama or wife? You just announced your stupidity with loud speaker. I was trying to help you lower the volume but you still stupidly decided to hook the sound system to an amplifier. You are not financially and physically stable to fight this but you are financially and physically able to get olosho pregnant abi. You carry all your IQ put am for t0t0! Dude give your life to Christ before you ejaculate all your IQ ohh!

Mountainmen:
Chill a bit to observe the baby as she grows older. If you are still convinced in next 3 to 6 months you can go ahead with you plans. But be careful those olosho's can be very desperate especially if the Yahoo boy is really loaded.

loaded ke?

he's a baby compare to I, we not yahoo but we are old money.

even the bîtch knows that... when she realize she can't tame me.

toboy:
Sorry, but I think you are equally a man hoe . And your attitude towards women is shockingly shameful. With this attitude, you will end up damaging the live of any child or lady that ends up with you. One wonders the type of toxic family and environment you come from for you to think of women in such a misogynistic way. Go and make your own family!

yes am man hôe..I fûck everyday... including yours sister's and wife's...go check the meaning of flexing again.

anyway have reduced it this year to the minimal, man got settled down in a year time.

dustmalik:
OP, disregard every insult and act of intimidation posited to you on this thread. You have every right to be sure if that baby is yours or not.

I understand women will always support their fellow woman in this case, given how unfaithful 97% of them are these days. However, I am surprised that fellow men are insulting and lambasting you for trying to do what's right.

I would never knowingly abandon my child, no matter the circumstance. I couldn't live with myself knowing that I have a child out there.

bros you are valid


NO REAL GEE WILL LEAVE THEIR SEED OUT THERE.



I can't dash my sperm to someone who thoughts it's his biological child.

that's my bloodline.

I value it.

eyinjuege:
Claiming a 2 day old baby as yours because it's fair in complexion ?

they babies you see that are extremely fair in complexion.

your sense supposed tell you say this pickin go yellow when it grows well well.

(we all know all babies are light in birth at first)

use your brain sometimes and think