My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

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i know how hard my parents struggle to send me feeding money

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UYEMDO35:
My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

Have it and cry me a river

UYEMDO35:
My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

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Optimistguy1969:
First things first.....your English need serious attention.
Please work on it.

Guy! Forget English and focus on my write up, I need serious advice no be English I wan chop. Has time goes on am ganna improve.

UYEMDO35:
My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

Am not gonna abuse you by calling you a simp...we all learn one way or the other...but one thing Redpill taught me about girls is that "If she is not helping you build your life,she is wasting your time".
I was in the same shoes as you ..all she could do was to demand and demand, while offering nothing but sex in return,but I was blinded by love thinking she will change but she got worse over time....I had to man up and leave her...bro it was painful,very painful...like I almost went into depression Kos she became my whole life,I found it hard to sleep,was always in deep thought,thinking she will be getting bleeped by another guy was the worse feeling I could imagine..but after few weeks later I got better and now I look at her with no emotions atal for her ...
I know you might be scared of going through what I went through,but just know that the PAIN of Staying with her will be far worse than that...so it better you let her Go...I promise in a year time from now you will be glad you took that brave step...
Accept the Redpill and cut the relationship down....

Ronnnie:

Am not gonna abuse you by calling you a simp...we all learn one way or the other...but one thing Redpill taught me about girls is that "If she is not helping you build your life,she is wasting your time".
I was in the same shoes as you ..all she could do was to demand and demand, while offering nothing but sex in return,but I was blinded by love thinking she will change but she got worse over time....I had to man up and leave her...bro it was painful,very painful...like I almost went into depression Kos she became my whole life,I found it hard to sleep,was always in deep thought,thinking she will be getting bleeped by another guy was the worse feeling I could imagine..but after few weeks later I got better and now I look at her with no emotions atal for her ...
I know you might be scared of going through what I went through,but just know that the PAIN of Staying with her will be far worse than that...so it better you let her Go...I promise in a year time from now you will be glad you took that brave step...
Accept the Redpill and cut the relationship down....

Thanks boss, I really appreciate your advise.

take d redpill...btw what do u want us to do now??

UYEMDO35:

Thanks boss, I really appreciate your advise.

You welcome...just be ready for the journey ahead,it will be painful but you go dey alright las Las...

Nah advice full romance section.

A very SIMPle man like you

UYEMDO35:

Guy! Forget English and focus on my write up, I need serious advice no be English I wan chop. Has time goes on am ganna improve.

your dad failed in makin you a better man!!!
I spit on your poor grave

Op You have not bleeped the girl obviously

Can you do me one favour? Just give me your parent's phone number, I need to tell them something.

Typical pathetic SIMP of a guy, instead of you to focus on making your life better and building a better career, you're wasting your valuable time on a girl that doesn't give a fvck about you. You will soon shed premium tears when she finish your life.

UYEMDO35:
My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

You are mad

May my son never be like you bloody simp

UYEMDO35:
. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

No need for the long story.... when you are truly tired of being used, you will let her go, simple.

UYEMDO35:

Guy! Forget English and focus on my write up, I need serious advice no be English I wan chop. Has time goes on am ganna improve.

You are a student and as such under parental care.

Right?

If your cousin is a student and is being sponsored and fed by parents. Would you advise him to have a relationship?

Keep the answer to yourself and act accordingly and don't come here exposing your weaknesses.

Johndagr8t:


your dad failed in makin you a better man!!!
I spit on your poor grave

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Op, were are you schooling I hope is not Nasarawa, because I have a girl that behaves like this to her boyfriend and the guy is complaining seriously. If it's Nasarawa you are schooling hmmm, you could be dating someone elses girlfriend. Her parents are into farming as well. Reply my post .

UYEMDO35:
My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

kepstone:
Op, were are you schooling I hope is not Nasarawa, because I have a girl that behaves like this to her boyfriend and the guy is complaining seriously. If it's Nasarawa you are schooling hmmm, you could be dating someone elses girlfriend. Her parents are into farming as well. Reply my post .

Reminds me of a comment I read on another thread, "Nigerian men and dating charity cases are 5 & 6".

See how students are already caged in the same foolishness there fathers destroyed their lives with,without even the slightest inkling that they hold the key to the chain that binds them.

Op your picture they on shrine
She don lock you with German padlock for one shrine

Like you said, playing the pity card game. She'll continue to maga you...

It still baffles me how teenagers nowadays won't focus on being better academically and financially but invest so much time on frivolities.
Maybe it's the social media age.
You just told us how hard your parents work to send you to school and all you could do is chase after a leech.
5, 10, 15 years from now, if you don't make the right decisions and get a good grade from school, you may live the rest of your life in regret.
Same women that will be at your beck and call when you have made money and have a defined career path that you want to mortgage your future for now?
I can deduce from the way you wrote that you're prolly in your very early 20s and you may just need a resounding slap to set you on the right path.

UYEMDO35:
My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

Your mumu na follow come, Chai.

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UYEMDO35:
My story goes like dis...

She has been practically collecting money from me all in the name of so call relationship and I have never benefited anything from her, as a student. I know how hard my parent struggle to send me feeding money only for one girl someway to be demanding anyhow from me without considering that am a student. She is an indigen of that town wey am schooling and they are into farming, atleat! I suppose to be benefiting alot of things from her like garri,oil and yam but instead, she no send me me at all instead she prefer collecting from me, or maybe she iswaiting for me to ask her. Which I can't. If dis is how relationship works, I rather quit than being with someone that will use me anyhow as she like.
We have been dating for quite sometime now and she tactically demands money from me knowing fully well that I will definitely give her. Though! I plan settling down with her but she doesn't care about me. My feelings and emotions are been neglected. I tried talking to her about it and she promise to change but still yet, no improvement. I tried breaking up with her on several occasions but i can't really do it becuz of my guilty conscience.
I feel like she is using my head... Funniest part,whenever I made up my mind to break up with her, she will just show up with some unnecessary excuse which will soften my heart.
Guys I need your advise on dis..

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I stopped after the first lime where you wrote she has been collecting money...

Oga stay off mpuru miri... It's bad for the brain

Kevsmart88:
It still baffles me how teenagers nowadays won't focus on being better academically and financially but invest so much time on frivolities.
Maybe it's the social media age..

Teens for other parts of the world wey dey the same social media while investing their time academically and financially nko? This is nothing to do with social media at all. This is homebred foolishness, local to the affected entities.

Oya say after me… I WILL NEVER BE SIMP IN MY LIFE! Na because you still have some little change with you, wait till you broke so you can regain your sense back, no body go tell you before you know the next thing to do

Nah girl wey go give me headache I dey find like this o