constancefriday:
10 things you shouldn't attach your self worth or self esteem to:
(1.) Having Financial/Material Success: Being Successful financially/materially is only a physically manifestaction of what already exists in the invisible realm. Cash and money are not the same thing, Money is invisible and infinite but cash is finite.
Cash isn't just what you have in your wallet, it includes what you have as investments, account balance, materials, networth, assets etc (these are means of making invisible money become visible cash).
(2) Ancestral/Parental/Family Background: The very fact that you exist at all is a miracle. No matter your ancestral, parental, tribal or filial background. There's nothing holding you back from being the best and greatest version of yourself,
(3) Having no weaknesses: Having weaknesses/flaws doesn't mean you don't have strengths. There's no Human in existence that doesn't have a weakness or flaw, we all do but all you need to do is focus more on your strengths and grow with them while you manage and negotiate with the weaknesses because they are all a part of your core personality.
Let People know you for your strengths not by your weaknesses.
(4.) Acceptance/Approval: Being rejected by anyone or by any group of People doesn't take a drop out of your value as a Human. A crumpled $100 Dollar bill will still buy the same amount of groceries a crisp or fresh one would. The disapproval of People doesn't mean you're doing something wrong. Infact, the last time I checked, People are more likely to reject you and disapprove of you when you're doing very very well. Keep on keeping on.
(5.) Public Opinions/Popularity: Some of the greatest Persons in history were not very popular in the public opinion polls. Yet History speaks of them as great.
Prophet Jeremiah for example, during his prime time, he wasn't very popular amongst the regular Isrealite celebrities, most of his Prophecies came to pass, yet it caused more resentment. Inspite of that he authored 2 great books in the old testament and was labelled as a major prophet by the Nicene council.
Being labelled as a Minor Prophet even doesn't take a jot out of your worth or value as a Human. You are great because God has made you Great!
(6) Being Loved: Being Loved by People feels quite good but the reverse doesn't mean you're less valuable than you truly are.
People get hated especially because they're not clearly understood, or because the hater doesn't even know why he/she hates the hated. Ask them, why do you hate Mr/Miss Xyz? they'll say "I don't know"
Whether you're loved or not loved you are a person of great worth and value.
(7) Absence of Troubles/Issues/Challenges:
Some People seem to live their lives peacefully and quietly, while to some others, life seems like an endless myriad of chaos and trouble, being in the latter group doesn't mean you hate lost all your worth or value as a Human, you are a valuable person both in peace or in trouble,
8. Having Disabilities: Having physical disabilities doesn't mean you're less valuable than your counterparts, you are a lovely and beautiful creation of God and you have great worth and value,
(9.) Not Winning/Always Losing: Some Athletes have never won gold, some pupils never came first in class, infact in some cases the narrative may be worse but beloved, none of these takes a drop out of your worth of value as a Human Being.
You're wonderfully at fearfully made, the God who cobbled and knitted you piece by piece in the womb has a very high price and value on you and in you and he looks after his treasure always.
(10) Good Looks: Some of the most beautiful souls I've ever encountered didn't look so pretty, and some of the worst persons I've encountered had good looks. Never let your physical appearance determine your self worth or self esteem. No matter how many times an endomorph/mesomorph goes to the gym or diets, he/she will still most likely get fat. No matter how many calories of fat an ectomorph consumes he or she will still most likely remain slim.
(11.) How Educated you are:
Being educated is a good thing but it's not being educated that boosts your self worth or self esteem. It's being blessed that does so. Did you know you're blessed long before you got enrolled by your parents to a creche or a nursery school. Having a PhD doesn't make you better, it's being blessed that makes you better.
So love yourself as you are, you don't really need to have yourself cut into pieces while the plastic surgeon gets rich.
Enjoy being the best You.
Read and Study
Matthew Chapters 5,6 and 7.
Remain Blessed!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Dr. Constance C. Friday
(Motivational Speaker)
+2348133848834
+2348022646721
If an endomorph or mesomorph (endomorphs especially) wants to become slim and remain slim, he/she has to be on a diet for the rest of their lives.
Rely or depend on nothing and on no one for the acknowledgement of your self worth or self esteem
Cheers!
Have a nice year!

constancefriday:
10 things you shouldn't attach your self worth or self esteem to:
(1.) Having Financial/Material Success: Being Successful financially/materially is only a physically manifestaction of what already exists in the invisible realm. Cash and money are not the same thing, Money is invisible and infinite but cash is finite.
Cash isn't just what you have in your wallet, it includes what you have as investments, account balance, materials, networth, assets etc (these are means of making invisible money become visible cash).
(2) Ancestral/Parental/Family Background: The very fact that you exist at all is a miracle. No matter your ancestral, parental, tribal or filial background. There's nothing holding you back from being the best and greatest version of yourself,
(3) Having no weaknesses: Having weaknesses/flaws doesn't mean you don't have strengths. There's no Human in existence that doesn't have a weakness or flaw, we all do but all you need to do is focus more on your strengths and grow with them while you manage and negotiate with the weaknesses because they are all a part of your core personality.
Let People know you for your strengths not by your weaknesses.
(4.) Acceptance/Approval: Being rejected by anyone or by any group of People doesn't take a drop out of your value as a Human. A crumpled $100 Dollar bill will still buy the same amount of groceries a crisp or fresh one would. The disapproval of People doesn't mean you're doing something wrong. Infact, the last time I checked, People are more likely to reject you and disapprove of you when you're doing very very well. Keep on keeping on.
(5.) Public Opinions/Popularity: Some of the greatest Persons in history were not very popular in the public opinion polls. Yet History speaks of them as great.
Prophet Jeremiah for example, during his prime time, he wasn't very popular amongst the regular Isrealite celebrities, most of his Prophecies came to pass, yet it caused more resentment. Inspite of that he authored 2 great books in the old testament and was labelled as a major prophet by the Nicene council.
Being labelled as a Minor Prophet even doesn't take a jot out of your worth or value as a Human. You are great because God has made you Great!
(6) Being Loved: Being Loved by People feels quite good but the reverse doesn't mean you're less valuable than you truly are.
People get hated especially because they're not clearly understood, or because the hater doesn't even know why he/she hates the hated. Ask them, why do you hate Mr/Miss Xyz? they'll say "I don't know"
Whether you're loved or not loved you are a person of great worth and value.
(7) Absence of Troubles/Issues/Challenges:
Some People seem to live their lives peacefully and quietly, while to some others, life seems like an endless myriad of chaos and trouble, being in the latter group doesn't mean you hate lost all your worth or value as a Human, you are a valuable person both in peace or in trouble,
8. Having Disabilities: Having physical disabilities doesn't mean you're less valuable than your counterparts, you are a lovely and beautiful creation of God and you have great worth and value,
(9.) Not Winning/Always Losing: Some Athletes have never won gold, some pupils never came first in class, infact in some cases the narrative may be worse but beloved, none of these takes a drop out of your worth of value as a Human Being.
You're wonderfully at fearfully made, the God who cobbled and knitted you piece by piece in the womb has a very high price and value on you and in you and he looks after his treasure always.
(10) Good Looks: Some of the most beautiful souls I've ever encountered didn't look so pretty, and some of the worst persons I've encountered had good looks. Never let your physical appearance determine your self worth or self esteem. No matter how many times an endomorph/mesomorph goes to the gym or diets, he/she will still most likely get fat. No matter how many calories of fat an ectomorph consumes he or she will still most likely remain slim.
(11.) How Educated you are:
Being educated is a good thing but it's not being educated that boosts your self worth or self esteem. It's being blessed that does so. Did you know you're blessed long before you got enrolled by your parents to a creche or a nursery school. Having a PhD doesn't make you better, it's being blessed that makes you better.
So love yourself as you are, you don't really need to have yourself cut into pieces while the plastic surgeon gets rich.
Enjoy being the best You.
Read and Study
Matthew Chapters 5,6 and 7.
Remain Blessed!
Yours Sincerely;
Apostle Dr. Constance C. Friday
(Motivational Speaker)
+2348133848834
+2348022646721
If an endomorph or mesomorph (endomorphs especially) wants to become slim and remain slim, he/she has to be on a diet for the rest of their lives.
Rely or depend on nothing and on no one for the acknowledgement of your self worth or self esteem
Cheers!
Have a nice year!