I was wondering,would you place your mum higher than yur girlfriend/boifriend/wife/husband as the case may be or vice versa, honesty needed please!!!

Both of them are very important people in my life . . i'll try and gice to Ceasar what is Ceasar's . .

I'll try and never take sides, always be fair and sincere no matter how bad the situation is, come to thimk of it, they're family too so i wouldnt hurt one to excilirate the other nor vice versa.

Both will be appreciated in the rightful ways . . who's more important?? That's not a question i can give an answer to, Cos they both mean the world to me!!

(i'm not married yet sha)

@ topic; depends on d situation i find my self in though, but i would always put my spouse 1st because i expect my mother 2 understand if she is really a mother she would.
Even d bible says a man would leave his family and cleave unto his wife where they would become 1 as in  . . . . " joined 2gether"  but it didnt say it d other way round like leavin your wife and cleavin unto your mother or extended families or relations. . . .  ^{my personally opinion though}

My Mama, Woman Many, Na Only one Mama you FIT get.

my spouse comes first, because we are now one, as for him he loves us both the same, but i have no issue being 2nd to his mom,

Nothing for momsie O! Me and my partner forever. Momsie has her own husband.

Everybody has their own life to live and my partner's life and mine are one.

My mum's very special to me but what ever the case is I'll try to be as fair as i can and impartial too.



come to think of it,my mums an angel,I dont see such coming up in future 'xcept I marry a real "witch"

God please remove such situation(to make a choice mama and wify they will coexist in harmony) from me in Jesus name. can somebody say amen.

Amen oo, @ presido1

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They both play very different and vital roles in my life.
There's no basis for comparison.

cute-ass:

Amen oo, @ presido1

yesssssssssssss ohhhhhhhhh. which one is 14 and 2 between them

presido1:

yesssssssssssss ohhhhhhhhh. which one is 14 and 2 between them

My guy are u awake? whats 14 and 2?

Na gyl i be not Guy, check ur profile and you will see what am seeing

presido1:

Na gyl i be not Guy, check your profile and you will see what am seeing

Sorry girlfriend, you see why its advisable to put up your gender.

The girl is now 14 and the boy is now 3, not 2

Welcome to nairaland BTW, its a pleasure to have you here.

@ topic

I already said my piece!!

cute-ass:

Sorry girlfriend, you see why its advisable to put up your gender.
The girl is now 14 and the boy is now 3, not 2

The gyl on that pix is 14 now, when was the picture taken or are you from CONGO _{if you can get what i mean by dat} sorry no insult meant.

presido1:

The gyl on that pix is 14 now, when was the picture taken or are you from CONGO _{if you can get what i mean by that} sorry no insult meant.

The picture was taken when she was a yr old, 13yrs ago (hence the symbol of the one-standing candle)

I don't know what you meant by the Congo joke _{and if you werent from Somali, you woulda explained}, sorry no insult meant

To be honest with you i can't believe that gyl on the pix is upto 5 years. I am not from somali but have lived their before for 3 years now am in darfur and after darfur who knows it might afghani or iraq _{as a peace keeper}

Girl, its either u want to pull my legs or you're palying the game called "dumb",

Ofcourse the girl there isn't 14, she was one yr old when the picture was taken, today she's 14 and all grown . . but i didnt feel like posting her "now" picture for sake of privacy  . .  thats just an old picture of her that i fished out.

I really hope you get it now!!

Thanks for putting me thru, make i find sometin eat b4 this supporter of APC boys start their wahala. Good nite gyl.