siofra:
I've heard the opinion of white men. Now I want to hear the opinion of Nigerian men.

If a girl wears this dress (not necessarily this dress, any skimpy dress) to a party and she's raped. Is it her fault?

Womenarespecial:
Here is why it's being said an average woman ain't safe..it's just like saying "if a man is being raped is it his choice of clothing fault"

A woman has all right to dress the way she so wants that's freedom and you ain't justified to rape her cos of her style of dressing..
Girls clothing has nothing to do with it. Problem is mentally ill criminal minded rapist men who go on with the act..

What has everything to do with rape is the person committing rape..Rape has nothing to do with sex..Rape is all about control...Rape is assault just as punching someone in the face.. If the rapist wants to rape.. what the person is wearing or not wearing does not matter they will still rape...
Failing to understand why some few men will blame a woman while the person who perpetrated the act is being ignored..

beautyhd:
...that this question is coming from a lady @ op is really disturbing.

If you really know that rape cannot be justified, this question won't arise.

In Nigeria, rapists are rarely given the treatment they deserve hence the increase in rape cases.

In America, if you are labelled a sex offender, your own is finished, many sex offenders didn't rape women, some of them touched them inappropriately, some used offensive sexual words, some tried sleeping forceful with ladies and some succeeded in raping women. In Nigeria, you will see men harrasing ladies and touching them inappropriately and yet nothing is done to them.

Sexual offenders and rapists are looked at in the US as murderers hence the severe sentences they get.

Until we realize that no reason can be given for rape as the psychological trauma goes for years causing some of the victims to have PTSD and yet the society will see them as being emotionally unstable when they start manifesting such.

A man that can see the lady represented above and want to rape her because of her dressing can also rape a sick sister in his care because the sister is scantily clad as a result of illness, can also rape an old woman that bare her breasts and can also rape a 3 month baby kept under his watch.

Womenarespecial:

I repeat for everyone to see..a woman is allowed to dress anyhow she wants and anyone who ain't comfortable should deal with it..
He is talking about harassing a man mentally and psychologically..if as a sensible man you can't control yourself around women then you ain't enough to be called a man..
No one should dictate what you have to wear just cos of some uncultured being who can't control himself and his manhood around women..
Men are allowed to do but women ain't.. when men do women don't complain of being mentally harassed "gender inequality"
Why do societies get to pick and choose and probe over such questions only in case of girls /women?

Why is the clothes she wears always of so much importance to every other person? the length of her skirt is directly propotional to her character..the size of her cleavage is protional to how much ‘she asks for it’...The dress she wore would justify her getting raped or not...These questions simply prove how crude our mentality is and how primitive our thoughts are.

let me ask who the hell are you to allow and not allow?
i have never seen a comment on men’s clothing.. its the 21st century WAKE UP!
#women you are special#be proud of your body..

Odinaka00:
Rape has nothing to do with how a lady is dressed… kids of 3-5yrs old are raped… Do these kids wear seductive clothes? No. Old women in their 70s are being raped, do these women wear sexy clothes? No…. Rape is a mental disease

Naijanascam:
The rapist is to be blamed....... for there are thousands of ladies wearing such dresses......

To prevent rapists from doing what they are known for because of seeing ladies on skimpy dresses, they should consider this option below please

Vinnie2000:



Of course, it is NOT her fault!

But Plz this shouldn't make Ladies be wearing skimpy dresses or mothers dressing dier daughters scantily!

Just like a 14 years old boy with big dick is always putting on briefs in a house full of ladies!
If two of the ladies ties him and rapes him, it's not his Fault but he inadvertently tempted the Ladies!

Just like a housewife who puts Fried Chicken in front of you and walks out of the house to buy sth!
Isn't this a case of Deliberate Temptation?

Plz, We should NEVER underestimate Lust and sexual urges of humans!

DrFunmisticGlow:
No.

It's not her fault. But the fault of the animal masquerading as a man who has no self control

If the man for example knew that she was maybe HIV, syphilis and herpes positive, would he still rape her?

Mophor:
Issokay!!!

So OP fit dy masturbate with dt pic if you don't av the opportunity to rape

beautyhd:
...that this question is coming from a lady @ op is really disturbing.

If you really know that rape cannot be justified, this question won't arise.

In Nigeria, rapists are rarely given the treatment they deserve hence the increase in rape cases.

In America, if you are labelled a sex offender, your own is finished, many sex offenders didn't rape women, some of them touched them inappropriately, some used offensive sexual words, some tried sleeping forceful with ladies and some succeeded in raping women. In Nigeria, you will see men harrasing ladies and touching them inappropriately and yet nothing is done to them.

Sexual offenders and rapists are looked at in the US as murderers hence the severe sentences they get.

Until we realize that no reason can be given for rape as the psychological trauma goes for years causing some of the victims to have PTSD and yet the society will see them as being emotionally unstable when they start manifesting such.

A man that can see the lady represented above and want to rape her because of her dressing can also rape a sick sister in his care because the sister is scantily clad as a result of illness, can also rape an old woman that bare her breasts and can also rape a 3 month baby kept under his watch.

Mrscarter:


No its on the man. Just cos a woman turns a man on dont mean he has to force her to have sex with him. Who can make a man move his arms n legs n pull his dikk out to rape someone? Only the man himself has that power to move his own body. So if he rapes a woman no matter wat shes wearing its his fault. A man should have restraint. Just cos a woman looks sexy it dont give anybody the right to force themselves on her

Mrscarter:


No its on the man. Just cos a woman turns a man on dont mean he has to force her to have sex with him. Who can make a man move his arms n legs n pull his dikk out to rape someone? Only the man himself has that power to move his own body. So if he rapes a woman no matter wat shes wearing its his fault. A man should have restraint. Just cos a woman looks sexy it dont give anybody the right to force themselves on her

Coly2012:
There is no justification for rape

dollytino4real:
y should it be rape? cant u dash her money instead

Coly2012:
There is no justification for rape

Womenarespecial:

I repeat for everyone to see..a woman is allowed to dress anyhow she wants and anyone who ain't comfortable should deal with it..
He is talking about harassing a man mentally and psychologically..if as a sensible man you can't control yourself around women then you ain't enough to be called a man..
No one should dictate what you have to wear just cos of some uncultured being who can't control himself and his manhood around women..
Men are allowed to do but women ain't.. when men do women don't complain of being mentally harassed "gender inequality"
Why do societies get to pick and choose and probe over such questions only in case of girls /women?

Why is the clothes she wears always of so much importance to every other person? the length of her skirt is directly propotional to her character..the size of her cleavage is protional to how much ‘she asks for it’...The dress she wore would justify her getting raped or not...These questions simply prove how crude our mentality is and how primitive our thoughts are.

let me ask who the hell are you to allow and not allow?
i have never seen a comment on men’s clothing.. its the 21st century WAKE UP!
#women you are special#be proud of your body..

ekusigo:


Please, can we clarify this 'Justification matter'.

If I say to and armed robbery victim: 'you should not have let you gates and doors wide open when going to sleep at night, how does it mean I am justifying the armed robbery act?

Our clothes are like gates to our body, let's try as much as possible to shut perverts out, male or female.

SonOfEl:


Nonsensical feminist junk.

If you encourage nudity, you are encouraging lawlessness. Insecure lots wanting to be like men even to their own shame.

Are you a man? Do you want go bare chested in public like men? Copy copy..... Please go ahead...

21st century my foot.... In actual sense, we are going back to stone ages where nudity began. Are you evolving or devolving?

Nobody supports rape, but if you keep aggravating a man's hormones by being nude in public...good luck to you...

A shark becomes wild once it perceives blood, that is it's nature regardless of what you do or think. Every healthy man has that innate desire to copulate when he sees a grown lady's unclothedness, he only tries to walk away from it so as not to be seen as been unrefined and unbridled.

SonOfEl:


Nonsensical feminist junk.

If you encourage nudity, you are encouraging lawlessness. Insecure lots wanting to be like men even to their own shame.

Are you a man? Do you want go bare chested in public like men? Copy copy..... Please go ahead...

21st century my foot.... In actual sense, we are going back to stone ages where nudity began. Are you evolving or devolving?

Nobody supports rape, but if you keep aggravating a man's hormones by being nude in public...good luck to you...

A shark becomes wild once it perceives blood, that is it's nature regardless of what you do or think. Every healthy man has that innate desire to copulate when he sees a grown lady's unclothedness, he only tries to walk away from it so as not to be seen as been unrefined and unbridled.

Womenarespecial:

Deal with it personally..you don't tell others what to do with their life..

Complaining around won't change the fact that most men can't control their sexual urge and you are here dictating and telling women how they should appear...

Women please feel free to dress and look anyhow you want..you ain't harassing no one through your choice of clothes..


If you ain't comfortable why not pluck your eyes out..at least that's gonna be helpful..

You don't bring people down just to soothe your unnecessary sexual libido..

They have the right to make their choice..
Why not be a real man and stop complaining that women harass you and other weak men through their choice of clothes..kids parading as men these days..

Womenarespecial:

Deal with it personally..you don't tell others what to do with their life..

Complaining around won't change the fact that most men can't control their sexual urge and you are here dictating and telling women how they should appear...
Women please feel free to dress and look anyhow you want..you ain't harassing no one through your choice of clothes..

If you ain't comfortable why not pluck your eyes out..at least that's gonna be helpful..

You don't bring people down just to soothe your unnecessary sexual libido..

They have the right to make their choice..
Why not be a real man and stop complaining that women harass you and other weak men through their choice of clothes..kids parading as men these days..

Permesso:


This one reasoning is only about money, nigerian girls and entitlement. Must you girl's depend on men hard workings and money to survive?

Me dash woman money cos she's a half nude.