Pls I need ur candid advise, though a lot has been happening to my relationship with my Fiancée b/4 now, but i was thinking i could handle it but it has now degenerated, immediately after i did introduction with her last month and we've schedule our wedding for December, I can't just understand her. The problem I aalwayshave with her is just when my phone rings and it turns to be a female voice she gets upset and she knows that I work with a financial institution there's no time I will not rreceivea female calls most are customers colleagues and just friends but she aalwaysturn deaf ear to it. When I propose to her then, I gave her a ring, there was a night she came, we had a serious misunderstanding she removed and threw the ring at me that she's no more interested wen we woke up the next morning she beg and beg that she's sorry I forgive her and she promised such will never happen again but I insist I won't give her the ring again at the moment. So after our introduction I bought and give her another ring, just a month after the introduction she started again my phone rang and it happen to be a female voice of a truth these calls are not from any lover but she's aalwayssuspicious and don't trust me,big trouble started we quarrel and quarrel she started comparing me to her Ex mentioning his name that the guy she thought is not good is even far better then me and so many other things, she even wanted to leave that nite but I refused cos it was too late that nite, eventually she came to my room and droped the ring I gave her that she's leaving the next morning for good that she knows both of us have been rregrettingmeeting each other, she went into her room and packed all her belongings and I didn't say anytin but b/4 i left for office the next morning as she was about going I said I'm OOKwith her decision she turn back and started begging me that she's not leaving again it's d devil's work and so many other tins, thereafter I told her elder sis they came and scold her, begged me so much, but the truth of the matter is that I don't really have much feelings again for her cos of this attitude of hers, iI'mnow scared if i will ever have a happy home if I marry her. But i have two challenges here, one she's almost 2months pregnant and secondly she now staying with me. Please I need ur candid advise I don't know what to do.

1. posted in wrong section. mods. should please relocate.
2. you must have known this was her character before introduction.
3. she is quite insecured and must have had her heart broken by an unfaithful ex. so you can understand where she is coming from.
try reassuring her of your undying love for her. with time, you would earn her trust.
4. next time try and paragraph

A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. Better move on now before either of you develops HBP or die prematurely due to her insecurity.

postpone the wedding to after she have been delivered of the baby, then observe her attitude thereafter and make up your mind.

Doin d cross sign
Gob b wit u broda

@snowdrops, rili sori for d sectn it was posted just carried away, n tnx for ur observatns.
@hasyak tnx for d advice.

Too bad, you cant walk away anymore cos she is pregnant and as aresponsible guy, u shouldnt think of abortion. Why not sit her down and encourage her to talk about her fears and also let her know u knew all those customers and yet didnt ask anyone of them to marry you so she should learn to trust you.
Let her know her behavior is killing the relationship and she still has the option of not getting married to you if she doent want to while u both agree on the care of the baby.
Importantly, when she is calm, let her know ur dos and donts so that it doesnt occur anymore and please try to be considerate of her feeling, ask her for what she also doesnt want in the marriag, if u people can agree, then go ahead and marry her but if otherwise, dont marry now, take your time so that in less than a year you wont be divorced.

this is the time u can make things right since you have identify the problem before you get married to her. i believe mistake like this are what people get themselves into trying to rise a dry bone believing that once they get married things will surely work out.
sit her down talk to her like 2 mature mind remember you are the man that is taking her to the church not the other way round if possible marriage counsellors to counsel her. i wont advice you to drop her cos of the unborn child. also let her feel safe,

1. You need to get close to God. It dont matter what religion you are, just get close to whom you call God.
2. Keep praying for your partner to also get close to God - A marriage relationship radiates from God with both of you looking unto Him for guidance.
3. You need to communicate more with her - Dialogue solves a lot of issues.
4. Trace your relationship to the beginning - can you still see that one thing that made you love her in the first place? (I'm sure you can?)
5. You need to help her build trust in herself as well - she is insecure and feels not up to the plate, probably a problem with complex, help her overcome it
6. God will surely help you my brother - It is very worthy of a man to comport himself with honor and integrity, The Lord is your strength,

I'm really grateful for all ur advice. Tnx a lot.