Svp110:
My marriage is barely 2 months. I met her with a child she told me she was from a Muslim polygamous family, which her parents has forced her into a polygamous marriage to a older man with four wives and she was the fifth, she didn't like him but she had to stay wity him to make her parents happy but she ran away from him when she was converted into Christianity and she learned that polygamy was wrong and that was the reason she had relocated to my town city and she said she has no family because everybody has disowned her , I understood her pain but I pleaded her to go back to her parents and ask for their forgiveness which she went after few months and when she return she said her parents were expecting us we traveled to her village and everything went well , she took in for me I have accepted to honour her so I won't put her in trouble with her parents again. Our traditional marriage was 27th of November and she is due to give birth in few weeks, I was in my office when our pastor rang and said he has something important to tell me and I should come at the church premises and arriving at the church , I met my wife she was in tears and the pastor said we should first pray which we did after the prayer he said my wife has something important to tell me , her face was down she couldn't look at me in the eyes and it really baffled me I become scared thinking something bad has happened to the baby or the other child and when she drop the bombshell about her having 4 children I was speechless,  I lost balance and I couldn't even speak for 30 minutes and the only thing I told her if I don't want to see her near my place or else she will be in the mortuary me in prison. I have spent a lot for the wedding Unknowingly she was hiding such secrets from me , my heart is shattered and the pastor bought her back to my house asking me to forgive her, I asked him if he will forgive if she was his wife that did the same thing to her and he couldn't even answer my question but he kept telling me to forgive , I told both of them to get out of my face or I will commit a crime that will land me in prison. I am broken and I curse the day I met the daughter of jezebel. I will take custody of my child after he is born and I swear the daughter of jezebel will pay for all the pain she put me through.

Svp110:
My marriage is barely 2 months. I met her with a child she told me she was from a Muslim polygamous family, which her parents has forced her into a polygamous marriage to a older man with four wives and she was the fifth, she didn't like him but she had to stay wity him to make her parents happy but she ran away from him when she was converted into Christianity and she learned that polygamy was wrong and that was the reason she had relocated to my town city and she said she has no family because everybody has disowned her , I understood her pain but I pleaded her to go back to her parents and ask for their forgiveness which she went after few months and when she return she said her parents were expecting us we traveled to her village and everything went well , she took in for me I have accepted to honour her so I won't put her in trouble with her parents again. Our traditional marriage was 27th of November and she is due to give birth in few weeks, I was in my office when our pastor rang and said he has something important to tell me and I should come at the church premises and arriving at the church , I met my wife she was in tears and the pastor said we should first pray which we did after the prayer he said my wife has something important to tell me , her face was down she couldn't look at me in the eyes and it really baffled me I become scared thinking something bad has happened to the baby or the other child and when she drop the bombshell about her having 4 children I was speechless,  I lost balance and I couldn't even speak for 30 minutes and the only thing I told her if I don't want to see her near my place or else she will be in the mortuary me in prison. I have spent a lot for the wedding Unknowingly she was hiding such secrets from me , my heart is shattered and the pastor bought her back to my house asking me to forgive her, I asked him if he will forgive if she was his wife that did the same thing to her and he couldn't even answer my question but he kept telling me to forgive , I told both of them to get out of my face or I will commit a crime that will land me in prison. I am broken and I curse the day I met the daughter of jezebel. I will take custody of my child after he is born and I swear the daughter of jezebel will pay for all the pain she put me through.

Svp110:
when she drop the bombshell about her having 4 children I was speechless,  I lost balance and I couldn't even speak for 30 minutes and the only thing I told her if I don't want to see her near my place or else she will be in the mortuary me in prison. I have spent a lot for the wedding Unknowingly she was hiding such secrets from me , my heart is shattered and the pastor bought her back to my house asking me to forgive her, I asked him if he will forgive if she was his wife that did the same thing to her and he couldn't even answer my question but he kept telling me to forgive , I told both of them to get out of my face or I will commit a crime that will land me in prison. I am broken and I curse the day I met the daughter of jezebel. I will take custody of my child after he is born and I swear the daughter of jezebel will pay for all the pain she put me through.

excellence44:
Bro, as a Christian, it is compulsory for you to forgive her. Then let her go, for your mental health sake.

after4:
As a christian that marriage is void as it is adultery. He is marrying another man's wife who is still alive. It doesn't matter if the man is a Muslim or pecan or atheist the fact is that he married her legally from her parent and she became his 5th wife.

But wait on Op Wetin make you wan go marry Nah another man 5th wife you go marry. As in 5th hand okrika, Nah so you simp reach?

Richy4:
What I don't understand is, if u happens to forgive,
<<<who will take care of those kids?
<<<Is she seeking for forgiveness just for you to take care of the kids or
<<<is the kids gonna be with their biological father?
<<< How can she intentional wanna trap someone with pregnancy and four kids? Not even 2? What kind of error of omission was that?

excellence44:


You just used many words to explain my position which is forgive and move on.
I refrained from accusing him like you did because I am not the accuser of brethrens.

after4:
Oga which kin English you dey speak like this nah, she is trying to guilt trip op to take her back and her 4 + 1 kids. Making it 5 responsibility on top hem head. Imagine that there is nothing like omission here, this is a family fraud as her family knows.
Woman wey sleep for outside sotee she born 4 kids, you can imagine how many she go don abort and her body count.
Body count go be like 15000, omoo.
Igbo dey call am "ikwa drum"

She saw a simp in op that's why she dey use all these tactics

Richy4:

It's totally unfair on the OP then if that was her intentions... Trying to use religion to cover that was totally wrong too ..

I'm not against her finding love and happiness again but doing it with deceit was totally out of the question...

Any genuine and reasonable person will tell the man as soon as the relationship was about to get serious... That look oga, I have four kids and I'm not about trade them for anything... If u don't like it, that is the door use it... But this one just kept mute until she got pregnant.. Haba!!

after4:
As a christian that marriage is void as it is adultery. He is marrying another man's wife who is still alive. It doesn't matter if the man is a Muslim or pecan or atheist the fact is that he married her legally from her parent and she became his 5th wife.

But wait on Op Wetin make you wan go marry Nah another man 5th wife you go marry. As in 5th hand okrika, Nah so you simp reach?

Double0h7:
Either your wife is on NL already narrating this story or it's all clout chasing from the same op...

GboyegaD:
I hope your wife isn't the one who opened a thread about having 3 kids and is pregnant with a baby and the wedding is fast approaching around November.

sisisioge:


She was! She had 4 and expecting the 5th.

OP! We told her to at least tell you o but she was adamant about going ahead. It is really well. The babe is silly beyond redemption....a very fertile edit! Take heart and move on...biko stay in the life of your child sha o.

Goldbw122:
Hmm at the foundation she should have tell you the truth... But well what is done is done just forgive her and move on ... Just call her and sit her down and let her explain to you what happen I know it is not easy to hear what she has to say but you just have to come to terms with it and understand her own side of the story and.... Forgive her... If she has good character go ahead and marry her... Ok Make her proud again.