socialmediaman:


Will he force the marriage to work? Will he lock up a woman who doesn’t want to be with him anymore? My brother, take life easy. If it doesn’t work, that’s not the end of the world. That thing people spend their lives trying to protect, they eventually lose their lives and whatever will happen will still happen.

ednut1:
This marriage is dead, so if she returns you think you will now be getting sex Some women are wicked abeg after all the investments she saying you irritate her,m. God forbid

Hashabiah:
Stop believing in that fatalist view oga. If you do not know , then hear it now : marriage is like a human being , and it grows when it is feed with love, understanding and commitment. What the OP is doing is not the proper way of handling things, in fact, he wants to start doing runs as an excuse to justify his incompetence

Skyview01:


I agree with you, somebody who will cheat will cheat.

Its not a do or die. We try our verry best to make it work and if at the end it dosent work, divorce is an option.
If she cheats on him, he will simply divorce her.

Karleb:
My JJC advice is, if it comes to cheating or raping her.

Please I beg you in the name of God, cheat o!

Skyview01:


How would an individual enjoys rape is beyond me.

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know ,both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them,while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.
Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from,my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes,,but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage,but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.
When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired,leave me alone,pls stop ,etc when I make advance at her ,I tried to find out what is wrong ,I called her attention to it politely,she told me that I was irritating her ,so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop,I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school,she still continued in refusing me,I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her,but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop,
Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet,she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.
After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did ,and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone
Na who sex help,another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me,but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.


Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment ,give your problem wife s sense of refreshment,or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

Karleb:
My JJC advice is, if it comes to cheating or raping her.

Please I beg you in the name of God, cheat o!

edunaragold:
I even called my pastor to it,and my pastor said allow her to leave ,after 3 weeks ,she is gonna miss you,honestly that is what is happing now.woman can miss somebody without telling the person I miss you .but her characters must show that she miss you,you don't need to beat your wife,but follow her jeje.even if cheating in her back without her knowing just do it, so both you will have peace at home,when you no longer make sexual advancement to her, no body go tell her say she done dey useless for house .when there are many fishes in water.

nairaman66:
Marriage is like a relationship.

Do more of the crazy things that attracted your wife to you while you guys were still friends. Take out time to travel, even if it is for 2 days.

Surprise her, this is the most important of all. See that hair she always talk to you about? What about the dress? Or even food?

Skyview01:


Are you married?

luminouz:

What sort of nonsense is this?

You condoned all that rubbish and you are still talking as if you expect us to pat you on the back for what,a job well done?

Alaye, you better take two redpills or you will suffer well well

Regex:
What in actual Bleep did I just read?

edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know ,both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them,while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.
Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from,my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes,,but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage,but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.
When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired,leave me alone,pls stop ,etc when I make advance at her ,I tried to find out what is wrong ,I called her attention to it politely,she told me that I was irritating her ,so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop,I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school,she still continued in refusing me,I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her,but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop,
Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet,she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.
After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did ,and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone
Na who sex help,another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me,but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.


Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment ,give your problem
wife s sense of refreshment,or let them miss you so they can know what they have.

luminouz:



This one funny oh. You think this is America or some shiit?

You keep doing all this simpy shiit and think you are getting the girl but you WONT EVER GET HER.

A wife said her husband irritated her and refused him sex for 7 months and you dey talk of hair and food? Why not buy her Gulf jet!

When you mudafuckers take the redpill for fuq sakes? How can a man struggle through life to make it,only to be enslaved in a marriage he paid bride price for?

I just TAYA

advanceDNA:



I don’t know what is irritating the most...The fact that he doesn’t know he’s stupid, the marriage counselor tone he’s using, or expecting us to praise him for knowing how to care for women..

Your wife is treating you like trash, yet your are sounding like your are the alpha....

Richy4:



I don't think he is stupid. He is a married man that wants his relationship to work irrespective of the unorthodox way he was using...I admire his courage, sacrifice and tolerance level...

advanceDNA:


If my woman tells me I’m irritating.... bros he go hard make we dey inside marriage oo..

She even showed it in her actions by telling the man she wants to relocate away from him.... it’s like she works in a bank and she was transferred...a wife woke up and told her husband she wants to move to another state not together....bros is that not witchcraft??

And the husband sheepishly said yes becos he’s a boss man

My brother, In marriage, so many unprintable words could be said or exchanged... That is why it's a close door institution ... U can't keep scores on what u say or heard.. if not, u might keep changing women like underwear.. Even at that, what is the guarantee that the other lady will not have more acidic tongue than the other ...

Richy4:


My brother, In marriage, so many unprintable words could be said or exchanged... That is why it's a close door institution ... U can't keep scores on what u say or heard.. if not, u might keep changing women like underwear.. Even at that, what is the guarantee that the other lady will not have more acidic tongue than the other ...

BlackyOne:


Until someone start to knack her, and that's if someone or people have not started knacking her already

advanceDNA:



A woman said I’m irritating and also moved out and you are here making it sound like it’s not a big deal.....no wahala... it’s marriage, so people have to accept being treated like trash..

Richy4:


I might be wrong but my guess is that u were not married.. that could explain your anger... Trust me, your anger is justified...

I want you to understand that it was not always like that... Yes she said that to put the man off her... But OP didn't say if she was always using bad choice of words...It could be once off isolated statement..

A lot of us Including me don't have the same level of OP's tolerance.. because as I said earlier, 7months is too long...Also the idea of her going to her parents home and OP handing her a blank wide request card for her to fill in might not be a good idea..

But as long as it works for them both, it's all good.

advanceDNA:
Wait.. what is this one saying....??
Your wife refuse you sex for 7 months..
She Said you are irritating her....

Then she said he wants to relocate to her state and she left.... for what..?? So her business can flourish.... so, the business cannot flourish where you and her live together?




Well, I would have called you a Secretary of simp association....but since you enjoy your marriage like that... what’s our own...
Carry go..

advanceDNA:


What point are you trying to make.....
Marital status has nothing to do with having sense?
This man is either deliberately setting his wife up for divorce or he’s afraid to address the issue between them because the wife as dominated him...