Evening everyone. I'll keep this brief. Ever since my wife gave me the good news that we are expecting a child I have been filled with joy but I also noticed that my finances have gone down.
(Before anyone asks the pregnancy is mine and she did not go for any away matches).
Sales are low and customers are not paying. I was told that based on culture it is normal that when a woman is pregnant during that period money 'runs' away from the man.
Biko is this a fact or is it one of these cultural mumbo jumbo?

If person ask Op now, e go say e be Christian.

So children that are a Heritage and a gift from God is what is causing you bad luck.

I feel sorry for the child already.

Who get head no get cap and who get cap no get head true true.

Culture or not culture, divert all your reasonings from bad thoughts, learn to say good things to yourself, when other people are saying casting down, we will always say lifting up!!!!! it's a matter of time, be prayerful, be hopeful for good things that are coming, be faithful, keep working and always make her happy. Don't say bad things or reacts negatively at home. It's well.

Yes its true but depends. Some make more money when the wife is pregnant while some go through drought until the baby is born.
Manage the season and don't put pressure on the poor woman. Na nature.

Holla911:
Yes its true but depends. Some make more money when the wife is pregnant while some go through drought until the baby is born.
Manage the season and don't put pressure on the poor woman. Na nature.

You re joking, right?

korilala:
Evening everyone. I'll keep this brief. Ever since my wife gave me the good news that we are expecting a child I have been filled with joy but I also noticed that my finances have gone down.
(Before anyone asks the pregnancy is mine and she did not go for any away matches).
Sales are low and customers are not paying. I was told that based on culture it is normal that when a woman is pregnant during that period money 'runs' away from the man.
Biko is this a fact or is it one of these cultural mumbo jumbo?

There's no connection between your recent poor financial standing in your business and your wife's pregnancy, unless you have been spending all your money on her since she got pregnant,which isn't the case.
Look at what you are doing wrong in your business,and make necessary adjustments,stop being so superstitious.

Romanoff:
If person ask Op now, e go say e be Christian.

So children that are a Heritage and a gift from God is what is causing you bad luck.

I feel sorry for the child already.

Who get head no get cap and who get cap no get head true true.

I like your angle of discuss.

I assume OP is a Christian and I dey wonder where he read in his Bible that his wife pregnancy will bring hardship.

Non-practicing Christians plenty pass. OP take our case to Jesus in prayer!

I will be patient till she give birth let me see if money will rush. Until more water and less tea for me.

Kobojunkie:
You re joking, right?

He has to be.

You are a product of your believe system.

Why did you post it in the religion section? Are you expecting someone to say your wife or baby is a demon that has come for your destiny? Na the Kain talk Una dey like

alphaNomega:
Why did you post it in the religion section? Are you expecting someone to say your wife or baby is a demon that has come for your destiny? Na the Kain talk Una dey like

ROFLMAO

Nigerians and their religious and superstitious hogwash

many of you know it really happens to some men which we all know depends on the wife nature .. Man you can be really down throughly but thing should be changed and add up when she put to bed ... Many are missing it just because u won dey tink in oyinbo way but na lie u are all black nd can never change it ... So man it usually happen been broke during wife pregnancy even dos dat comment bad knowns but that's we Nigeria problem we copy whites even lOVe to b in there country to do many things but when you all die you want them to bring you back to the Africa . BLACKS

korilala:
Evening everyone. I'll keep this brief. Ever since my wife gave me the good news that we are expecting a child I have been filled with joy but I also noticed that my finances have gone down.
(Before anyone asks the pregnancy is mine and she did not go for any away matches).
Sales are low and customers are not paying. I was told that based on culture it is normal that when a woman is pregnant during that period money 'runs' away from the man.
Biko is this a fact or is it one of these cultural mumbo jumbo?

Man too like money chai lol
Be thankful for everything you already have each time think of these things
Obviously you’re blessed
Na time e go take customers go come back
Wether na fact or cultural jumboo
Comot yourself from that thinking