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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by bigcee(m): 9:29am On Jan 17, 2022 |
ednut1:God bless you ![]() |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by dominique(f): 9:29am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Why PhD abroad, why not in Nigeria? If you're not in research or academia, PhD is not needed. Why not encourage her to get some professional certifications or even an MBA. But the questions still remains, why do you suddenly want her out of the country? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by greenie77: 9:30am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Mamayam: Do you father have your DNA test result? |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by michlins(m): 9:35am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Ungodly:yes you can't discuss everything before getting married. But you see genotype and career goals, those are what you must discuss 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Chidex50(m): 9:35am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Don't force her against her wish coz you'll be the one to regret it.Open a good business for her here so that she can as well have time for the family. ONCE IN A WHILE BOTH OF YOU CAN TRAVEL FOR HOLIDAYS,WITH THAT YOU CAN AS WELL EXPLORE THE NEW ENVIRONMENT. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by sharone21(f): 9:35am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Problem is that u didn't discuss this before marriage... Your good intention happened after u married. If she can't go, no problem...Just don't make same mistake with the kids, ensure that whether they do 1st degree in Nigeria or not, they ought to jet out maybe through school or other means. Your kids can always file for you and wife whether u make abroad your permanent base or just a vacation spot. Peace. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by dapsoneh: 9:37am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Realchairmann:she is skeptical about leaving the country cos you have a good paying job.. You sound rich and no woman will want to leave her comfort zone... You need a lot of persuasions for her to heed |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Mamayam: 9:37am On Jan 17, 2022 |
greenie77:Lol. I too resemble am. You know, you need DNA test to move your kids abroad. If fit be wetin she dey avoid. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by DEMZEE(m): 9:39am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Realchairmann: U sha want ur wife to tap into her hypergamy, go abroad and divorce rape u there I don't know why you want ur wife to be masculine Leaver her alone ahhhh! |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Munzy14(m): 9:39am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Realchairmann:Some guys sef ![]() God will give you a good woman, you still want to use your hand to turn her to what she isn't ![]() If she desire to teach, why not she pick up a teaching Job with a secondary school and build a career while you sponsor her PhD and look for a connection to see to her smooth transition from a secondary school teacher to a university lecturer. A wife cannot leave her kids, husband who have been her source of joy and happiness to go and search for greener pastures overseas...Only ashawo wife and one who is just being with you for the time will agree to such arrangement..Or these our online feminists/diamond harvesters.. ![]() Congrats! You married one among the few wives/mothers on earth...She is even contented sef...kudos. See to her exploring the opportunities here...Make friends wil those in the university teaching field..And get her a mentor. Everything will be fine as you are retiring from Job, she is climbing her lecturing or any other employment peak..And the kids will not lack. If anyone needs to travel, it's you. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by lucro: 9:39am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Realchairmann: I find myself in a similar situation but with a little twist (I am not inclined to relocating abroad). I do want my wife to go for further studies abroad to help with the kids schooling (if they choose to study abroad), but (like your wife) she is reluctant because of the wonderful bond we share. I understand her position and we are currently trying to see how we can reach a compromise. I am not sure what that is yet but it is something we are working on. If you find a workable solution, maybe you could share and help me learn from your experience. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by AgentGoat: 9:40am On Jan 17, 2022 |
She's not interested. Let her be before the matter turn to fight which is very bad. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Newboss(m): 9:40am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Her reason is right there in your write up. That moment question comes with answer |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by TheGift: 9:41am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Realchairmann: She doesn’t want to be away from the folks She loves just for another piece of paper, that may not guarantee a job. She loves Her primary job, which is Her family. Abroad no dey shak everybody like that. Why is that so hard for you too understand? |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by nihinlade(m): 9:41am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Why am I just posting here! You wife is like me. I am not a freak of abroad relocation. I have my reasons and my wife and my cousin don't understand. Though my wife is ok with it but my cousin and recently one church member is disturbing her. All these just because she is a nurse. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by IDERAWOLE(m): 9:43am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Realchairmann: Oga, madam is afraid of another woman taking over her home and husband. She's suspicious of your motives. Women are highly intuitive like no man's business. What potential does she have that can't be explored with two degrees? Ask her, what does she want, not what you think she wants. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by sassiemyk: 9:45am On Jan 17, 2022 |
You married a heaven sent wife. No go use ur hand scatter your life. Stay where you are. If you want to see places arrange for family vacations annually. Better respect her choices. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Bouncin(m): 9:46am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Some people and broad sef ![]() |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Haq147(m): 9:46am On Jan 17, 2022 |
I think she really values the family than any other thing, it's better you find alternative. meanwhile you can get a free book on how to relocate to Canada, for first 20 people only. click the link on my signature |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by sulem4u: 9:47am On Jan 17, 2022 |
...your wife actually choose your family over her career and academic qualifications...alot of married going abroad to advance their career actually paid a premium prices detrimental to their marriage....you get it....if u don't get it....forget about it....lol |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by omonla10(m): 9:47am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Tell her it's not about her but the kids. They have a more secured future abroad than in naija. She's just the means to an end.. The end, being the kids having world class free education till high school.. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Ungodly: 9:49am On Jan 17, 2022 |
michlins:understandably, In as much as it is very important to discuss things like that in marriage… but I still firmly believe issues will still come up in a marriage about things not discussed too. I think the Op is the one trying to take too much risk here, he wanted a career woman and her woman holds a Bsc and a MSc certificate, she has tried enough… considering the fact that she doesn’t want to leave her kids behind too. That is a very valid reason not to go. He should let the woman be biko. If he wants her to go for a phd so she could explore her full potentials, Then he should tell us the essence of the said potentials when she hasn’t even explore out of the potentials with the Bsc and MSc certificate. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by sunkieisland(m): 9:49am On Jan 17, 2022 |
the person that has head has no cap and vice versa. bro, I wish I were in your shoes, my wife would have forgotten that we talked about the matter. Na money dey hold me 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by kfrosh: 9:50am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Number one, you make it sound as if PhD is an easy fit. Anyone who is not interested in academia would never want to go for a PhD. It looks more like you shipping her to a foreign land for your own selfish benefits, even though I know this is not the case. If you really want to relocate your family as a whole and you want your wife to oblige, you guys have to go together *as a family*. It's all shades of wrong to push her to go do something she's not interested in with her family not right beside her. Also, for someone who hasn't worked for 11 years, she would have grown lazy over time and less motivated to do other things than to take care of her family. So just dead the idea or better still, y'all relocate together. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by greenie77: 9:50am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Mamayam: If she is going for example to the UK (which is more like the easiest to get admitted into) for her Doctoral studies, DNA tests is not required for the kids to go with her as what is required by UK Visa and Immigration is their birth certificates and letter of consent from both parents that they agree on the kids traveling. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Willie2015: 9:51am On Jan 17, 2022 |
uthlaw: No difference. When you pray, you are sowing a seed of prayer.... Prayer works on everything, Bros.... Its simple suicide to use common sense to analyse the supernatural realms.... The Isrealites (Gods chosen people used over 400 years in Egypt as[b] Slaves[/b].... Is the hand of God to short to save them in a day..... Or his ears to dull to hear their prayers .... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by marv1: 9:52am On Jan 17, 2022 |
She is right. What God has joined together let nothing out asunder. She can go for her second or third degree education here in Nigeria but not outside. It may jeopardize the marriage later in life while she is away. Bitter truth. Realchairmann: |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by Ogaboss44(m): 9:53am On Jan 17, 2022 |
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Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by uthlaw: 9:58am On Jan 17, 2022 |
DarkJeddi:we are talking about success and betterment of the children future, you are talking about happy marriage, does that secure the future for the children... Abeg forget about this over hyped saga called marriage! |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by drnoel: 9:59am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Realchairmann: Doing a PhD abroad doesn't necessarily means relocation. I just had to put that out there. |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by cowmanager2000: 10:00am On Jan 17, 2022 |
Realchairmann: * I will rather advice you now that you have a ‘good paying’ job and a bank account details to match to find your path abroad * reason as you know .. Nigeria ‘system is dwindling’ * why on earth will u ask your wife to move abroad while you are in Nigeria? Not the best way Man! * who takes care of the kids? * who takes care of you too? And you know you can’t survive’ it within a month() * if you truly love your wife and you cherish your marriage .. that’s not the way to go * if u can’t leave ur job for abroad then let her start the PhD in Nigeria One day .. the certificates will sell! PhD is PhD anywhere in the world |
Re: My Wife Is Not Interested In Relocating Abroad! by 123papas(m): 10:00am On Jan 17, 2022 |
She is not jobless Sir. Taking care of the home is a lot of work. Please appreciate her. |
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