Hi guys,

So have been dating this lovely cute girl since well over a year and the half. We rarely go on social outings because I work out of state, and when am around, we mostly spend time indoors and once in a while to the restaurant or lounge. So I had like a month off from work, my body felt like clubbing, so I told her we should go clubbing, i lodged in an hotel in ikoyi and asked her to come meet me when shes done, all of a sudden she said she clothe she wanted to wear got torn, thought she would opt for another option but she didnt, until she showed up in the hotel, plans spoiled. We were gisting till late when she started quizzing me that would i mind if we got to the club and see gay friends hugging her and greeting her in a lusty way, i was like that one no concern me as long as sey them nor go pass their boundary, and then the next thing, she was like some people go even think sey u be my younger brother if we get there. That I could not decipher at first, i asked her why she said so, she said well nothing, didnt bother to ask her again, then later I figured out she was a bit uncomfy about wearing heels and probably be like 2 inches taller than i am, LOL cos we are both of the same height. Then I thought to myself,does this girl really love me? I mean what has peoples thought got to do with we as lovers going to the club to have fun? Or is it just that shes making up excuses for the other reason why to me i feel she probably have gotten to know too many men clubbers she may have had something to do with and try not to make me realise sey she don cast. What are ur thought guys and girls?

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Those in agreement to tell Op the truth should hit the like button,

And those in disagreement hit the share button .

Confused mfockers

brosom:
Those in agreement to tell Op the truth should hit the like button,

And those in disagreement hit the share button .

If the OP is not trolling (since the situation is so obvious honestly), I would like to see how long it takes him to figure it out on his own

OAra:


If the OP is not trolling (since the situation is so obvious honestly), I would like to see how long it takes him to figure it out on his own

Op could be dull

She is not straight!



Just being Blunt!!

I see some bunch of online warriors already trooping in here..very fast to prove hard boys while real life they are weaklings..kids forming wannabe redpillers..look how they might call op a simp..I despise when these little boys come online to call you a simp without understanding your relationship..

Op have you had any private discussion with her on why she doesn't want to come with you..?
She might be uncomfortable as she said or she has other issues regarding clubbing..not everyone is outgoing you get?
That doesn't mean she no longer loves you..not everyone can go through that mental stress of noise and the rest tho..

If she says she ain't interested respect that or speak to her about it.. simple..

Bro that girl na regular bitch she as run package with the guys in the club so the guys in the club will be looking at you like a fool because you are going around with hoe they've f..cuked and forming lol

Just fu,,,ck her and let her go she will dry your money , energy and time

Are you a guy like this?

Op read the handwriting on the wall and use ur tongue to count ur teeth. I won't say more than that...

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I see some bunch of online warriors already trooping in here..very fast to prove hard boys while real life they are weaklings..kids forming wannabe redpillers..look how they might call op a simp..I despise when these little boys come online to call you a simp without understanding your relationship..

Op have you had any private discussion with her on why she doesn't want to come with you..?
She might be uncomfortable as she said or she has other issues regarding clubbing..not everyone is outgoing you get?
That doesn't mean she no longer loves you..not everyone can go through that mental stress of noise and the rest tho..

If she says she ain't interested respect that or speak to her about it.. simple..

how come she know all the guys in the club!

Oga op. Don't be a [b]SIMP[/b]lified man. You already know she had made name as a full time olosho at those club. Why would she even have gay friends who would touch her lustre if she haven't been fucking them.

Just saying.

Is Nairaland commenting gender biased or wat.
Ive not been on Nairaland fr long but it's usually only male comments i see.
Males, the over frequent gender, pls why is this so?

InfernoNig:
Oga op. Don't be a [b]SIMP[/b]lified man. You already know she had made name as a full time olosho at those club. Why would she even have gay friends who would touch her lustre if she haven't been fucking them.

Just saying.

But I thought gays don't sleep with women. I thought that's why they ar gays.
Speaking as a female, the op should not bother going forward with this lady cus he is already having this epistle of questions about the girl.
After sleeping with her twice now, her mind don dey, den he will come out with advanced rubbish speculations and analysis regarding the girl child. If u feel a [color=#000099][/color]woman doesn't meet ur low or high esteemed standard just let, no even approach her and let peace reign.
This generation has too scattered that mostly nobody knows their left frm right anymore

belkof:
Hi guys,

So have been dating this lovely cute girl since well over a year and the half. We rarely go on social outings because I work out of state, and when am around, we mostly spend time indoors and once in a while to the restaurant or lounge. So I had like a month off from work, my body felt like clubbing, so I told her we should go clubbing, i lodged in an hotel in ikoyi and asked her to come meet me when shes done, all of a sudden she said she clothe she wanted to wear got torn, thought she would opt for another option but she didnt, until she showed up in the hotel, plans spoiled. We were gisting till late when she started quizzing me that would i mind if we got to the club and see gay friends hugging her and greeting her in a lusty way, i was like that one no concern me as long as sey them nor go pass their boundary, and then the next thing, she was like some people go even think sey u be my younger brother if we get there. That I could not decipher at first, i asked her why she said so, she said well nothing, didnt bother to ask her again, then later I figured out she was a bit uncomfy about wearing heels and probably be like 2 inches taller than i am, LOL cos we are both of the same height. Then I thought to myself,does this girl really love me? I mean what has peoples thought got to do with we as lovers going to the club to have fun? Or is it just that shes making up excuses for the other reason why to me i feel she probably have gotten to know too many men clubbers she may have had something to do with and try not to make me realise sey she don cast. What are ur thought guys and girls?

The girl doesn't love you fully, a girl that loves you fully will be blind to anything anyone else might say or not

She obviously isn't proud of being your girl...

...she doesn't love you enough

Brb

You are a dimwitted fool. So it was love that made you typed these jargons.

uthlaw:
how come she know all the guys in the club!

Come are you ok?where was it said that she knows all the guys in the club..?

One thing I have learnt over the years is this: If you as a man don't use your head and brain, woman will use your head and brain to run you street.

Bros OP, no woman is capable of loving you! Stop deceiving yourself.

No Peace to Simps

belkof:
Hi guys,

So have been dating this lovely cute girl since well over a year and the half. We rarely go on social outings because I work out of state, and when am around, we mostly spend time indoors and once in a while to the restaurant or lounge. So I had like a month off from work, my body felt like clubbing, so I told her we should go clubbing, i lodged in an hotel in ikoyi and asked her to come meet me when shes done, all of a sudden she said she clothe she wanted to wear got torn, thought she would opt for another option but she didnt, until she showed up in the hotel, plans spoiled. We were gisting till late when she started quizzing me that would i mind if we got to the club and see gay friends hugging her and greeting her in a lusty way, i was like that one no concern me as long as sey them nor go pass their boundary, and then the next thing, she was like some people go even think sey u be my younger brother if we get there. That I could not decipher at first, i asked her why she said so, she said well nothing, didnt bother to ask her again, then later I figured out she was a bit uncomfy about wearing heels and probably be like 2 inches taller than i am, LOL cos we are both of the same height. Then I thought to myself,does this girl really love me? I mean what has peoples thought got to do with we as lovers going to the club to have fun? Or is it just that shes making up excuses for the other reason why to me i feel she probably have gotten to know too many men clubbers she may have had something to do with and try not to make me realise sey she don cast. What are ur thought guys and girls?

belkof:
Hi guys,

So have been dating this lovely cute girl since well over a year and the half. We rarely go on social outings because I work out of state, and when am around, we mostly spend time indoors and once in a while to the restaurant or lounge. So I had like a month off from work, my body felt like clubbing, so I told her we should go clubbing, i lodged in an hotel in ikoyi and asked her to come meet me when shes done, all of a sudden she said she clothe she wanted to wear got torn, thought she would opt for another option but she didnt, until she showed up in the hotel, plans spoiled. We were gisting till late when she started quizzing me that would i mind if we got to the club and see gay friends hugging her and greeting her in a lusty way, i was like that one no concern me as long as sey them nor go pass their boundary, and then the next thing, she was like some people go even think sey u be my younger brother if we get there. That I could not decipher at first, i asked her why she said so, she said well nothing, didnt bother to ask her again, then later I figured out she was a bit uncomfy about wearing heels and probably be like 2 inches taller than i am, LOL cos we are both of the same height. Then I thought to myself,does this girl really love me? I mean what has peoples thought got to do with we as lovers going to the club to have fun? Or is it just that shes making up excuses for the other reason why to me i feel she probably have gotten to know too many men clubbers she may have had something to do with and try not to make me realise sey she don cast. What are ur thought guys and girls?

All i can say is that, she isn't good for marriage and u aren't serious for a marriageable lady.

Op You definitely need to read in-between the line. Some stories that i read here are dull.

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Come are you ok?where was it said that she knows all the guys in the club..?

read and understand again,not until he said it...I'm fucking okay,stop asking silly question!

uthlaw:
read and understand again,not until he said it...I'm fucking okay,stop asking silly question!

You know nothing young kid aiit..stop spewing gibberish...
Pls get out of my mention..

Op... The SIMPle truth is that your girlfriend belongs to the streets... And you're very SIMPle minded not to have known.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
I see some bunch of online warriors already trooping in here..very fast to prove hard boys while real life they are weaklings..kids forming wannabe redpillers..look how they might call op a simp..I despise when these little boys come online to call you a simp without understanding your relationship..

Op have you had any private discussion with her on why she doesn't want to come with you..?
She might be uncomfortable as she said or she has other issues regarding clubbing..not everyone is outgoing you get?
That doesn't mean she no longer loves you..not everyone can go through that mental stress of noise and the rest tho..

If she says she ain't interested respect that or speak to her about it.. simple..

Taking relationship advice from a Woman is a Very stupid idea to even consider

odinson1:


Taking relationship advice from a Woman is a Very stupid idea to even consider

Sure it's your choice to be st*pid not mine..
Pls get yourself out of my mention baby boy..

FERNANDEZISBACK:

Sure it's your choice to be st*pid not mine..
Pls get yourself out of my mention baby boy..

Na your papa you dey call baby boy

odinson1:


Na your papa you dey call baby boy

Oops baby boy that hurt you hard..