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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by NoSentiment: 10:58pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Because most of the educated women had suffered natural and or artificial depreciation in their schools and are inclined to feminism like flies to carcasses. Even the worst and debauched man wants to marry someone responsible and respectful. I pity any lady that chooses to give for free those things in between her two legs and shoulders. |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by FuckDModz: 10:58pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Kriss216: So you will not educate your daughters? Omo, people dey o 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by YorubaKing: 10:59pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
GoodHardDick: Simple! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by MemoriesAndMe: 11:00pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
GoodHardDick: I actually don't think the features you mentioned have anything to do with education, I think it's more of a personality thing. Many educated ladies still have same qualities you mentioned. Ofcourse every educated man will prefer to have an educated wife, but if the educated 'wife materials' he runs into have the dreaded traits men are scared of you mentioned, he has an option of looking in other directions. Afterall, all everyone is looking for in a marriage is happiness. Anyone will marry anyone that makes them happy, regardless of their level of education. We are all humans, education just separates a sect from another sect and it doesn't translate to intelligence in anyway. Some uneducated couples are richer than many educated couples because they supported eachother to grow in their own "uneducated" ways - which is what everyone wants in a marriage - a supportive and understanding spouse. An uneducated lady can be more intelligent than a first-class degree holder. How to measure anyone's level of intelligence level has nothing to do what they studied in school and their GPA. You just know a stupid person from just talking to them, even if they have a PhD, it doesn't mean they're not stupid with the actual world we live in - same way some men will simply decide he wants an illiterate lady that surpasses the overated educated because he is happier with her. The illiterate lady is a person too, no one knows the circumstances around why she didn't complete school, but if she can make her husband happy and keep their home intact, there's nothing to worry about. Folks without such traits - educated or not- can look elsewhere for their type. So, it's all about personality, not education. Let's say it's more of how a person is raised - a lady raised by an arrogant mother and living around arrogant people is bound to be arrogant, educated or not. 10 Likes |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Jennyclay(f): 11:01pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
wagzy37:Na you Sabi oo.. If you like don't give your female child good education, that's your cup of tea. You know you black men are peculiar race. Hypocrites!!! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
GoodHardDick: Depends on how you deal with them, no matter how crazy a woman thinks she is, I humbles them, but at the same time, I don't play strong man, I respect them an treat them like my equal, I also provide mental support and prove my understanding. Enough to get me my respects. |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Hosquire: 11:04pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
GoodHardDick:e be like say dey don do u bad before 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Medley02(m): 11:06pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Uneducated/half educated ladies are way more responsible than those so called educated ones that would be shouting I GAT RIGHTS up and down Though, not in all cases and vice versa 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by BobbieZion(m): 11:07pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
From the few responses u have read from the women,OP there u have your answer from their comments. U will think they have sense from the beginning,till they speak..... Nigerian girls are heartless... 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by brosom638: 11:07pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by BobbieZion(m): 11:08pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
From the few responses u have read from the women,OP there u have your answer from their comments. U will think they have sense from the beginning,till they speak..... They can lie for Africa!! Nigerian girls are heartless... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by DabuIIIT: 11:12pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Those girls can be very sexy!!!! They can be very playful and sweet and natural...and most of them are black ebony suzzies 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by wagzy37: 11:12pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
I’d explain why. By͏ and large, If a man doesn’t feel like the leader in a marriage, the marriage is a recipe for disaster and it is evident in the high rate of divorce in modern societies. Due to ‘education’ and ‘exposure’, most women feel like a marriage is a partnership. Biblically and naturally speaking, it’s not and will never be. Two captains can’t run a ship. Social constructs - such as feminism and women sexual liberty have tampered with the essence of marriage and that’s why nature is fighting back - as evident in high divorce rates and increasing domestic violence. If you want to be successful in the business world, you need to be aggressive, domineering, combative and hard-spoken. These are masculine traits. Unfortunately, women who are successful in this regard possess these attributes and consequentially express them in their various home. So, men instinctively choose the soft spoken, less confident and passive ones that they can lead, guide and mold into what they want them to be. My 2 cents 16 Likes |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Yankee101: 11:18pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
The educated one was building her life so she can add value to you and your future children She's more likely to produce graduate kids too and earn an income to support you She's cleaner, healthier and more likely to give you educationally excellent kids 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Asour: 11:18pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Generally it's because of heightened expectations by 'educated' folks. At times too exposure makes one hesitant because you always think there's better. And indeed there's always better. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by temielects(m): 11:20pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
killmods:this is very correct and I have some tribes in mind and unlike some tribes in Nigeria educated or not their men don't marry young.... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by OneKinGuy(m): 11:23pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
So getting married is an achievement 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Asour: 11:24pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
thesicilian: It's statistically not true that people who did not go to university are more successful than those who did. Even today, graduating with a Bsc provides the most guaranteed path to economic liberation. Note that 'most guaranteed' does not mean perfect. It means increased or higher likelihood. The uneducated 'Rich' you see are outliers. Even in their companies many graduates outnumber them doing ok. God help us. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Beze992(f): 11:25pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
nextstep: Thank you! I wish a reasonable percentage of the men could reason objectively like this, sadly, that can never happen as they have 'redpepper' in the space their brain should be. I wonder who pushes all these post that aims at bashing women to the front page, now it's educated women that is your problem? it's really tiring and depressing to know that the things that these so called 'redpillers' talk about is just women, women women and marriage, I'm confused I thought it is just women that discusses such things. I'mpretty sure if some of you don't read anything controversial about women for just a week, y'all will run mad. I'll keep y'all in my prayers. 4 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Myexdisturbs: 11:26pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
FERNANDEZISBACK:Always immature and mentioning people's parents , what it means the other way is that your pops in the fooll here by marrying your olosho Moda who gave birth to an ashawoo like u |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by wagzy37: 11:26pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Jennyclay: Haha! This picture clearly says a lot.
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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Bubblewitch: 11:27pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
GoodHardDick:what does submission mean to you? Modern day slavery? 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Asour: 11:30pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
thesicilian: Go further to tell us what the median income is for the 'bottom' SSCE holders vs the "bottom" Bsc graduates employees. While at it also tell us the average rate of salary growth through career over a 10/15 year period for an employee SSCE vs a graduate. Let's not even get into promotion & Job mobility. Lastly, what drives the 'part time' schooling industry? The school dropout 'billionaire' is very much possible but terribly hard to pull off in Nigeria. Almost all such men NEVER chose not to go to school but faced such fate through happenstance. These dropout 'billionaires' end up having more graduates working for them. Why not dropouts too? God help us. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Karleb(m): 11:32pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Uneducated ladies know their place. They don't even understand feminism, they are traditional but you see educated ladies, they can be a pain in the butt a times. Besides, uneducated ladies will always see you as superior and will be happy to have you. Not always true tho. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Jennyclay(f): 11:33pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
wagzy37:what clearly says about me uhh? Didn't you read my post? Am I a bad girl?? We're talking A you're bringing up W Are you sure you're mentally okay?? I blame myself talking to a mentally derailed human being like you. You seriously need help oo.... MAD MAN!! |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Hassanmaye(m): 11:35pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
GoodHardDick:Wow you have just answered All the questions |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Maximus85(m): 11:36pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Animegirl: See how poverty has destroyed your life? Others don't have no money to afford successful and independent women. So you have become an item that money can buy. With all your Education and success, you still need a man to "afford" you. I pray you receive sense soonest. Are you married or you're still looking for a man that can afford you? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Asour: 11:37pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
SmartPolician: Patience Jonathan is not uneducated. Many 'educated' Nigerians use grammar poorly sometimes. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Beze992(f): 11:38pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Jennyclay: You didn't need to ask, the answer to the first part of the question is glaring from his write-up, the second is clearly debatable considering the vile words he used to address women, it shows exactly where he is coming from there and good manners obviously cannot come from there. Sadly, it's not even the fault of their parents as they actually did try, but the people they're trying for has stubbornly refused to have sense. 2 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Olubanben23(m): 11:39pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Marriage is just understanding in respective of both status. Love is just the ultimate. However, little enlightenment or education is necessary for future. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Maximus85(m): 11:39pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
GoodHardDick: You're 99.9% accurate. We have 0.1% of educated women who are not arrogant nor disrespectful. They submit to their husbands and are extremely happy. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do The Uneducated Ladies Get Married Before The Educated Ones? by Poleski: 11:39pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
The difference between an educated and uneducated person is their thought process, mentality, and behavior. Education is for one’s knowledge and wisdom. But it is not the only way a person gains knowledge or wisdom. The key differences are: An educated person thinks logically about every situation in life. An uneducated person may or may not do the same. An educated person is more aware of his surroundings, like his social, political, and economic situation, than an uneducated person. An uneducated person is more open-minded and has a more welcoming attitude towards others. On the other hand, an educated person is self-centered. A person gains knowledge from experience as well. Through their experience, an uneducated person possesses valuable knowledge. For various socio-economic reasons (such as poverty, political instability, and caste constraints), some smart people are deprived of receiving a good education. They can be intellectual and smarter than many educated people in their respective fields. For example, a car mechanic may have never stepped into a school, even if he has mastered his trade as a motor mechanic. There is no difference between the educated and the uneducated when it comes to humanity. Sometimes educated people get inspired by uneducated people who influence them with a great sense of humanity. I believe it is unfair to judge a person based only on their educational background. After all, everybody has something special about them. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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