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Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Jennyclay(f): 10:59am On Jan 22, 2022 |
collinometricx:Didn't read the op write up. I don't understand your question? Please make it more comprehensive enough. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by NamelessOGBENI(m): 10:59am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Not everybody likes these social media of a thing. The woman should have know this before saying 'I DO' but I guess this is a case of he will change once we get married. I'm sorry I had to pass my judgment but it's what it is. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Berezuski: 11:00am On Jan 22, 2022 |
WhatsApp/Facebook Status/Stories etc has ruined more marriages/relationships than its ever built. You see some funny stuffs here are there. To the ladies, don't ever think marriage gives you that golden key to showcase your stupidity. All thanks to her schemers 9 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Ten06(m): 11:00am On Jan 22, 2022 |
As far as you so much believed that your brother is a good man let him do what is in his mind. The Bible said anything that will make you not to inherit his kingdom should be cut off 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Thegoodone13(m): 11:01am On Jan 22, 2022 |
So far she is not cheating, beg your brother to forgive her. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by eebraa(m): 11:01am On Jan 22, 2022 |
You sef bring the matter come social media |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by safarigirl(f): 11:02am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: You had time to write all this long epistle, but you could not find time to give us a brief summary of what your brother did that caused her to post all over social media? On what grounds is your brother planning to file this divorce? Irreconcilable differences or what? Because nobody cheated, there is nothing about conception or consummation What did he tell the lawyer he contacted he wants to divorce for? Or does he think the court is where you can carry silly family issues to disturb them? He should go and ask Ubi Franklin and Lilian Esoro if they have finalized the divorce they set out for over 4 years ago Anyway, I am happy for the lawyer that will chop your Mumu brother's money for the next three years. Una think say divorce easy for Nigeria, he go stay for that marriage until he and his wife settle 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by descartes400: 11:02am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Jennyclay: And was the wife not aware that the Husband is among the few guys who Cherish privacy to the very core while she was dating him ![]() Why would she devilishly put sands in her own garri? 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by marsup: 11:02am On Jan 22, 2022 |
I wonder why any sane person will bring the story of their life to social media.... That's the same thing you are doing now. Anyway, leave your brother alone to follow his heart, there's a limit to human endurance. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by complexBoss12: 11:03am On Jan 22, 2022 |
odinson1: Give her a few weeks! you don't know that specie well, lol. infact, for making her go through all this stress she will find a way to make him pay for it. Women!! hmm the best thing is for the man to stand his ground. let her go and marry her social media friends. she will be scared of him for a few weeks, and of course, once forgiven the man will try to have a happy home so he may even apologize too just to keep things cool, once she has her house back, she will consolidate and plan her revenge. 7 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Nonexisting: 11:05am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Your brother won't divorce her but I like the pressure he is putting on her right now. Very stupid vaginarian without sense. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Polynek(m): 11:05am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Social media don brainwash dat 1 ![]() Oya make Dem suggest 4 her wetin she go do as her marriage is about to end. Both experienced and inexperienced pple go de tell advice on social media and if u are not wise enough u will be deceived Atleast she ll learn her lesson in a bitter way, unless the man Leta forgives her |
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Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by aktolly54(m): 11:06am On Jan 22, 2022 |
bestdefender:yes his Mom or pastor, once his pastor tell him to forgive her that next time she post nonsense on internet again he will be the one to dissolve the marriage for them and with little word of God ,his head go calm down. Introvert no like to vex but once we vex forget it ,it can take years before we forgive but we have people we do respect 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:06am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Jennyclay:...SMH. You didn't read but already concluded that the man is an introvert. How exactly do you people do this ? 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by AmazingELixir: 11:07am On Jan 22, 2022 |
![]() Let all the internet people she posted to and were supporting her come and marry her. As for me....I'm very sure my madam loves her phone more than me, the only difference between your brother and myself is I don't give 2 fvck...I kukuma no like disturbance. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by fredoooooo: 11:07am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Take it to scial media court |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Nobody: 11:07am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: Yet, you have brought his matter here on the same social media. If your brother finds out, what do you think he should do to you? We don't know the nature of the issue they had. And from experience, most people who appear reserved and calm actually have dangerous thought processes and make drastic decisions unannounced. Your brother ain't a saint and his wife knows it. 5 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by LilySam: 11:08am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Social media is not the best place to resolve marital issues. If you have any problem with your spouse, sort it out with him/her. On no account should you involve any third party into your marital issues. If the case is beyond your capacity, then you involve that very person your wife or hubby holds on high esteem or regard. I think his wife should contact her hubby's lawyer and plea to her/him to beg her hubby. I believe there is no best or perfect marriage on earth. It's just your ability to make yours work. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by alizma: 11:08am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero:Allow your brother to enjoy his life, forget about the tears of that Ogbanje, apologies to your brother pending the divorce proper. She will find someone like that tonto ex, the two of them can then spread everything they do at home on internet. She belongs to the media and not your advise will change her. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by engrzico(m): 11:08am On Jan 22, 2022 |
My candid advice to you and your brother is to go ahead with that divorce, he fails to do sohe will regret in the future. Never threaten a woman with divorce, cos women never forget someone that put them through so much pain. She will definitely get her revenge and the moment she gets her hands on an evidence she won't look back when she initiates her divorce proceedings. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by safarigirl(f): 11:09am On Jan 22, 2022 |
AfroKnight: What could she have posted that will ruin his business? OP did not even say his brother was innocent of the accusations, he just said "they did not hear his side of the story" I am more interested in what exactly she posted about him that has him so mad, it is not by coming here to tell us his brother is cool and nice and blah blah blah, anybody can come here and paint their family to be faultless in a situation. What did the brother do to her? Let him tell us first, and if it is so bad that it can affect his business, then, he is not as good as this OP claims he is, and then threatening her with divorce because she posted on social media? He must be a very manipulative person. Let him try and divorce her, Nigerian courts will clear his doubt. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by 9gerian: 11:09am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Your brother may have appraised the situation and concluded that the wife would never change even if forgiven. Some ladies just can’t do without social media validation- they would rather die than not get validated daily. This is by people they don’t even know. They are prepared to sacrifice the known for the unknown, the real for the unreal. What is even more eye opening is that their mentor Beyoncé does not table her marriage affairs on social media. Cardi B took charge of her marriage when they tried to mislead into not accepting her husband’s apologies- she’s happier for it. But these very wise wannabes must get validation from social media daily even if it wrecks their marriage. Genesiszero: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Abemy(m): 11:09am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero: If you know his lawyer, he or she may surprisingly be of help. Sneak the wife to the lawyer, let her remorsefully explain things to the lawyer and he/she will talk to your brother. Things may change for good. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Bubblewitch: 11:11am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Genesiszero:he probably alienated her from her friends. Secondly, marriage is full of ups and downs, this is not a strong reason to divorce abeg. The court will throw the case out. Adults acting as children 2 Likes |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Jennyclay(f): 11:11am On Jan 22, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE:Mr Man, I read the whole write up. Someone that loves and cherish his privacy so much, what do you call such person? You can't even keep civil conversation. I said I can't comprehend your question, make it more comprehensive... Simple as ABC. |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by topoftheworld(m): 11:11am On Jan 22, 2022 |
U guys should keep pleading to ur brother, I believe the wife had learned her lesson.. Besides, let us know the outcome here.. It seems ur brother had swallowed redpill here 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Idiko1: 11:11am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Please support your brother in his chosen action. He is a man of principles and people say, "A stitch in time saves nine". The next step for this woman may not be a social media, it could be a killer gang. 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Bubblewitch: 11:12am On Jan 22, 2022 |
youmour:Abi o, like why is he running from the media, does he have outside wives and kids 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by prophetfire: 11:13am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Equal2DeTask:. Yeah man! |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by Bubblewitch: 11:13am On Jan 22, 2022 |
JONNYSPUTE:Then you become a serial divorcee, since you lack emotional intelligence ad the ability to stay in marriage 1 Like |
Re: Help, My Brother's Marriage Is About To Collapse by SHOPPERS(m): 11:14am On Jan 22, 2022 |
Your brother is doing the right thing. Let him be. If he has warned her several times and she still continued, it means she derives validation from social media and her lifestyle will not match with that of your brother. The moment he forgives her, she will go back and post again. If she does not, she will not be herself and might eventually be depressed. So, for the sake of the sanity of the two of them, let them be. 8 Likes 1 Share |
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