This poor guy just discovered tht his wife is cheating on him with her boss. When he confronted the boss, he did not deny. Guess wht he did?
He's offerering him usd 5,000 to cool the matter, cz he threatened to go public.The boss is in charge of a large company in the country.In other words ,hes a known fellow.
Now this couple is struggling financialy and they are hard pressed.
Wear the the guy's shoes now and tell me wht you would do pliz.
Note: This is the much hes offering no room for more.
Real story.

A) this man should focus on his WIFE'S cheating ways rather than the boss.
B) what would "going public" gonna serve? i dont get it?
C) since they are struggling financially, and wifey already did the deed, he should take the money as settlement, divorce the animal he was married to and learn his damn lesson!

^^^ lol
ur answer C is harsh

Well his reputation matters a lot for him. As in A LOT. He's those guys who appear as 'role models' but this is gonna stain him.

unfortunately, whatever he does, it wont bring back his reputation which is already down the drain.
if he doesnt take the money then how the hell will he leave/divorce her since he is broke?

Take the money and set his wife with his Boss again

Take the money and screw his boss's wife!

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Gosh people
What kind of money is this now? wht do u call it? It reminds me of Judas Iscariot lol
Black money/Sin money whatevr money.Its dirty

First things first: Collect the money!

dont know what I will do after that . .but all I know is I will be single again.

^^^
you are all crzy here.
Everybody wants the money How greedy!
Jeez!! tht is prostitution redefined. Are u a love-vendor?

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but the deed has already been done now . . abi??

It aint like your are just trying to love-vendor your wife

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so are u Auctioning her? to the only bidder?

@Upendo98
to sue the guy he needs a lawyer (and they aint cheap) . . . . . . .  so his best option is to go directly to the source and take what he would have been awarded from a court (aka compensation for the stress that this sin has caused him)
et voila, CASE CLOSED!

upendo 98:

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so are u Auctioning her? to the only bidder?

Again, the deed has been done. He will never be able to get back the honey that was taken from that pot.

so why not at least get something for the sale you did not know about. .or approve of?

This is reality.

heeehe!
@ James Brown?
I read in one of your post here on NL where u said you cannot correct a wrong with a wrong In other words 2 wrongs dont make a right!!!
Is taking that money the right thing to do? Nope.It soothes ur conscience only but will it clear the guilt?
Why refuse the money and yeah just forgive and move on? (Dont shoot dont shoot I love NL pliz.We were all 4given thets why we are here )
@ Kokoye
Now this honey biz .She stil alive lol!

I tink going 2 chalenge his wife's boss is nt right. He shd sort it out wit d slot he cals his wife. A man can approach any lady 4 a relatnship or sex bt its d lady's discreetion 2 acept or refuse no mata d presure. Dey wnt give in if dey are made up nt to. I'm nt justifyin d boss' act as it is an act of shame. Bt d fact remains, d lady is to blame. He shld setle it out wit d wife. He wld b no diferent 4rm d wife if he acepts d money nd shld nt crucify d wife. So 4 goin dere, he acted foolishly nd as 4 d money. It is adding salt to an injury. A crush on his marital ego. A cheap man if he colects d money

@Upendo98
i dont understand how taking the money can be viewed as WRONG?! explain this to me pls. . . . . . . . . .
someone did him wrong and is willing to compensate him for the "inconvenient" they caused him.

the compensation is not to make things RIGHT, its too help this guy move on with his life (like a sort of therapy after such a shocking news). . . . . . . . . . . some sort of compensation for all the money time and energy he spent feeding/clothing and caring for that biatch.

hell, let him take the money and go and get drunk for a month, if he wants to!

This dude cant just do away wth the wife.They have kids who adore their mother so he has to put that into consideration.
Is money an Antidote her? to neutralize the poison? He will nevr be happy.
Exposing the deed wont help him neither will accepting the money. He will be equally as guilty.
Its good at times to just forgive and move on.

u fu-ck d boss wife.

^^^^
She lives abroad with the boss' kids!!
why do you and 190 always think alike?

ohhh!! women at it againnn! Did he pork her?

No he popped her.

No he popped her.

Ahhhhhh!

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Why are u crying now? Are u the husband to the woman?
What will u do? take the cash and calm down?

upendo 98:

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She lives abroad with the boss' kids!!
why do you and 190 always think alike?

dere must be a way 4 d guy 2 fu-ck d boss wife 2,

if he is a bad sharp guy.

Any which way na way.

upendo 98

190 is my brother here on NL

M M M:

upendo 98

190 is my brother here on NL

Why do I have a funny feeling about you 2??
You seem to follow each other on each thread
Are you conjoined twins?? at the head??

Why are u crying now? Are u the husband to the woman?
What will u do? take the cash and calm down?

Im just imagining it to be my wife ohh well, it is well sha!

Good that means you wore the mans shoes.
So in ur case u would cry. Then what ?

Wheda u take it or nt God's standard cnt change. He shold let sleeping dogs lie nd live wit it as a cross to bear or divource nd neva marry