TheGenius001:
Straight to the point!

So I returned home just the other day. There is this girl in my street, Preety as she could be. I liked her and I sense she felt the same way and was already fond of me. How I confirmed this?? Due to my work schedule I am mostly at home in the evening so we met on one evening. The next time we met again was in the evening after some days, so she started telling me about my hair style the last time we met and the new one, physic and all that . I quickly chipped in that how could she have seen all of that in the dark?? She looked at me like a fool. Lols. Because obviously it was dark when we met. We could only recognized each other because we both stay in that Area for some years now.


Ok after everything, I told about going for a date and we agreed on the day (Mostly on chat). Jokingly I told her the money will be split by half but she was like "No, as a gentlman, I have to pay for both" I said no wahala. We were still chatting like normal until at a point she takes time to reply me and this was just 2days b4 the date. I read people faster than they think, so I just stopped sending her message except for the last one to see if this is how a girl I want to go on a date with will feel too important even on my own money. After that night with no reply until the next morning, I simply replied her message that the date is cancelled and I that I am going to be busy with work on that day.

Honestly why should you feel important when I am the one spending my hard earned money? Since that day, I lost interest in her completely even as she pretty as she is.

If you're a girl, if you like be as beautiful as mermaid, immediately you start forming whatever it is to me, you have killed that feelings already. And I am sure I am not the only one on this one. I have a good sense of importance especially when dealing with a lady because I know too well that my money is at stake and you have absolutely nothing to add to my life than fun. So why make see you as important to me? You can be important to yourself but not me.

Anyways, my people what do you think about my action?

Modified: She instigated this date of thing and it's one of the reasons I felt she was fond of me already. I was in already but you see that hard to get mentality and feeling too important, it's just a turn off for me.

TheGenius001:
Straight to the point!

So I returned home just the other day. There is this girl in my street, Preety as she could be. I liked her and I sense she felt the same way and was already fond of me. How I confirmed this?? Due to my work schedule I am mostly at home in the evening so we met on one evening. The next time we met again was in the evening after some days, so she started telling me about my hair style the last time we met and the new one, physic and all that . I quickly chipped in that how could she have seen all of that in the dark?? She looked at me like a fool. Lols. Because obviously it was dark when we met. We could only recognized each other because we both stay in that Area for some years now.


Ok after everything, I told about going for a date and we agreed on the day (Mostly on chat). Jokingly I told her the money will be split by half but she was like "No, as a gentlman, I have to pay for both" I said no wahala. We were still chatting like normal until at a point she takes time to reply me and this was just 2days b4 the date. I read people faster than they think, so I just stopped sending her message except for the last one to see if this is how a girl I want to go on a date with will feel too important even on my own money. After that night with no reply until the next morning, I simply replied her message that the date is cancelled and I that I am going to be busy with work on that day.

Honestly why should you feel important when I am the one spending my hard earned money? Since that day, I lost interest in her completely even as she pretty as she is.

If you're a girl, if you like be as beautiful as mermaid, immediately you start forming whatever it is to me, you have killed that feelings already. And I am sure I am not the only one on this one. I have a good sense of importance especially when dealing with a lady because I know too well that my money is at stake and you have absolutely nothing to add to my life than fun. So why make see you as important to me? You can be important to yourself but not me.

Anyways, my people what do you think about my action?

Modified: She instigated this date of thing and it's one of the reasons I felt she was fond of me already. I was in already but you see that hard to get mentality and feeling too important, it's just a turn off for me.

^^^story
Bro juss go n watch blue fim, truss me!!(no oofenese)

MrCork:

HI

Jeon:


THAT WAS WHY I SAID YOU ARE SO FUNNY FOR ME TO HATE ON SOMEONE THAT IS OLDER THAN I, NOT ONLY THAT.......

lets end dix pls. . U re being emotional and personal. .

MrCork:


^^^story Bro juss go n watch blue fim, truss me!!(no oofenese)

ARR you top or bottom

teddybarz:




lets end dix pls. . U re being emotional and personal. .

that got jealous when he checked her account balance...



ppl like you can do and undo to their progressing spouse.

Jeon:


ARR you top or bottom

Get tha *k* outraaa here!!

MrCork:

Get tha *k* outraaa here!!

NO MR PUMPUMKING

TheGenius001:



Mind you, I didn't Instigate the date myself neither did I give her much attention as I am always a very busy fellow who hates to chat. It's just a thing they consider normal to act important or is it hard to get. They need to stop that shit. It's childish.

Lol I think I know why she changed hehehe

You shouldn’t have mentioned splitting of bills nah lol this is Nigeria where ladies feel entitled to all you own as that’s how most men make them feel.
The splitting of bills was a red flag even if it was a joke.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
.
What if I told you you was quite wrong?
Did you by any means ask her why she was taking so long to reply instead of jumping into conclusion?

You were just too forward if you ask me..you jokingly told her that the money that's gonna be spent should be split
Really who does that..you made an offer to take her out on a date and you say it should be split..

Apart from that what's the motive of taking a woman out on a date..?get to know her better right?

You weren't patient at all to be sincere..next time understand what you are doing..

Pesin like you go fail your waec woto woto,read before you comment aturuocha nna

Exkandayee:

Pesin like you go fail your waec woto woto,read before you comment aturuocha nna

Go outside you are still not mature...

superCleanworks:


like i said before... you will come back in a few years to read this and see for yourself.

if babe no do shakara for you then who will she do it for? she is a woman. that is what they do but you got angry and ran away because you lack this simple knowledge.
you feel the babe should fly to heaven just because you mention DATE.
so she should GLUE her phone to her hand and always reply you because you are what?
you are here mentioning ON TOP MY MONEY as if you want to take her to Radisson or Oriental.
your type will take a girl out and be counting what she eats and yet want to become master and commander of her soul because you spent kobo and cowries then she must send you a good morning text and pound yam for you daily.
she commented about your hairstyle and you are catching feelings, how old are you?

you jokingly told here you will split the bill? that was not a joke brother you are broke and stingy and you have no level if not you should never say that to a babe.
better face your work and ask how to play this game so you will not keep messing things up and frustrate the innocent babe with your ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.

She instigated this date of a thing. I jokingly told her the bill will be split to know her reaction which I confirmed something.

Mr. Maturity if you feel I am broke, thank you, it is your own thinking and not mine. If you consider it that a girl has to feel to important for her to go on a date with you. It's your cup of tea and not mine. I have a great sense of respect for myself by myself talk more of some lady.


My Sense of Entitlement? Lols this is for ladies and not for men who spends money on them, them girls always have this sense of Entitlement which is wrong and that must have spurred the nonsense attitude.

And ofcourse I should have a sense of Entitlement to her respect knowing fully well I am spending my money on her. If she splits the money or she is the one to pay for it, it is a different thing entirely.

Mr Maturity, thank you for your time.

Jeon:
that got jealous when he checked her account balance...

ppl like you can do and undo to their progressing spouse.

smh Undo wetin? Na u sabi..

TheGenius001:




She instigated this date of a thing.

Ok after everything, I told about going for a date and we agreed on the day (Mostly on chat). Jokingly I told her the money will be split by half

those are your own words and now you have started changing story
you are a lier. keep disgracing yourself

superCleanworks:



those are your own words and now you have started changing story
you are a lier. keep disgracing yourself

Lols, she probably must have talked about knowing him more via a date and as a man he suggested a date.

Jeon:


NO MR PUMPUMKING

not sure why i reply to u.. addios!

MrCork:

not sure why i reply to u.. addios!

HI
I'M GONNA GIVE YOU HARDCORE

Jeon:


HI

I'M GONNA GIVE YOU HARDCORE

son u dont no me...do yor research....u messin with the wrong one!!

MrCork:


son u dont no me...do yor research....u messin with the wrong one!!

that you love SIOFRA

TheGenius001:
Straight to the point!

So I returned home just the other day. There is this girl in my street, Preety as she could be. I liked her and I sense she felt the same way and was already fond of me. How I confirmed this?? Due to my work schedule I am mostly at home in the evening so we met on one evening. The next time we met again was in the evening after some days, so she started telling me about my hair style the last time we met and the new one, physic and all that . I quickly chipped in that how could she have seen all of that in the dark?? She looked at me like a fool. Lols. Because obviously it was dark when we met. We could only recognized each other because we both stay in that Area for some years now.


Ok after everything, she was so eager about going out with me and knowing me more since I am barely available and so I told her about going for a date and we agreed on the day (Mostly on chat). Jokingly I told her the money will be split by half but she was like "No, as a gentlman, I have to pay for both" I said no wahala. We were still chatting like normal until at a point she takes time to reply me and this was just 2days b4 the date. I read people faster than they think, so I just stopped sending her message except for the last one to see if this is how a girl I want to go on a date with will feel too important even on my own money. After that night with no reply until the next morning, I simply replied her message that the date is cancelled and I that I am going to be busy with work on that day.

Honestly why should you feel important when I am the one spending my hard earned money? Since that day, I lost interest in her completely even as she pretty as she is.

If you're a girl, if you like be as beautiful as mermaid, immediately you start forming whatever it is to me, you have killed that feelings already. And I am sure I am not the only one on this one. I have a good sense of importance especially when dealing with a lady because I know too well that my money is at stake and you have absolutely nothing to add to my life than fun. So why make see you as important to me? You can be important to yourself but not me.

Anyways, my people what do you think about my action?

Modified: She instigated this date of thing and it's one of the reasons I felt she was fond of me already. I was in already but you see that hard to get mentality and feeling too important, it's just a turn off for me.

U caused it. U SIMPED. U introduced money in the date and perhaps u acted like u were Obi Cubuna to her. U could have go on a date with her without involving money in the discussion.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
.
What if I told you you was quite wrong?
Did you by any means ask her why she was taking so long to reply instead of jumping into conclusion?

You were just too forward if you ask me..you jokingly told her that the money that's gonna be spent should be split
Really who does that..you made an offer to take her out on a date and you say it should be split..

Apart from that what's the motive of taking a woman out on a date..?get to know her better right?

You weren't patient at all to be sincere..next time understand what you are doing..

Go sit down there is nothing wrong in splitting the bills.two grown up dat like each Oda can split bills

superCleanworks:


like i said before... you will come back in a few years to read this and see for yourself.

if babe no do shakara for you then who will she do it for? she is a woman. that is what they do but you got angry and ran away because you lack this simple knowledge.
you feel the babe should fly to heaven just because you mention DATE.
so she should GLUE her phone to her hand and always reply you because you are what?
you are here mentioning ON TOP MY MONEY as if you want to take her to Radisson or Oriental.
your type will take a girl out and be counting what she eats and yet want to become master and commander of her soul because you spent kobo and cowries then she must send you a good morning text and pound yam for you daily.
she commented about your hairstyle and you are catching feelings, how old are you?

you jokingly told here you will split the bill? that was not a joke brother you are broke and stingy and you have no level if not you should never say that to a babe.
better face your work and ask how to play this game so you will not keep messing things up and frustrate the innocent babe with your ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.

This is the most senseless and useless comment I have ever read on Nairaland.

Are you sure you're okay? It is his money and the guy has every right to do whatever he want with his money. Since the girl initiated the outing stuff, why couldn't she take care of the bills?

Oga, you made zero sense, take this rubbish you wrote down!!!

OP, U messed up na.

Don't waste your time Dating a Nigeria girl.

You should've Invited her over to your house or take her to an hotel and bang the hell out of her pussy there. After which you'll dump her and move on. Or you can put her in the friend zone should in case you need her pussy again.

No stress, nothing to worry about. Just bang and move on.

superCleanworks:


please leave that boy alone. he will learn later. let him keep falling his hand in public.
thank God the babe did not go on that date her life would automatically become his property because of HE HAS SPENT MONEY.

It's funny how you think that people with a different opinion from yours are "childish" or "immature" in your eyes ...

@OP...
Just like you...
I consider it rude when a person (male or female), comes online, reads my message and not respond to it for a long time...

But I still think you were too quick to jump into conclusions, I feel you should've at least called to find out what the matter was...

superCleanworks:


like i said before... you will come back in a few years to read this and see for yourself.

if babe no do shakara for you then who will she do it for? she is a woman. that is what they do but you got angry and ran away because you lack this simple knowledge.
you feel the babe should fly to heaven just because you mention DATE.
so she should GLUE her phone to her hand and always reply you because you are what?
you are here mentioning ON TOP MY MONEY as if you want to take her to Radisson or Oriental.
your type will take a girl out and be counting what she eats and yet want to become master and commander of her soul because you spent kobo and cowries then she must send you a good morning text and pound yam for you daily.
she commented about your hairstyle and you are catching feelings, how old are you?

you jokingly told here you will split the bill? that was not a joke brother you are broke and stingy and you have no level if not you should never say that to a babe.
better face your work and ask how to play this game so you will not keep messing things up and frustrate the innocent babe with your ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY.

Right... that part where d gal complimented his hairstyle prolly caught him unguarded so that sorta made him believed d babe b trippin on him, man was really engrossed in himself, u instigated a date with a lady and you kon dey impose bill sharing on her, for date wey u initiate...
# he expects d babe to jump at every notification she gets from him, shey u gree call her on even try find out what happening on her end
Bro ur either stingy or aren’t able to afford the date simple
Taking a lady out on a date dosent require too much stress like I always read on here all d time, long as understanding and agreement don dey
Mk una no kon dey paint gals black all d time here

Highman56:

Go sit down there is nothing wrong in splitting the bills.two grown up dat like each Oda can split bills

Haba na let's be honest here now..
Were you not the one who asked to take her out?
Why asking for split of bills?
If you ain't capable no be to rest?

MrCork:



^^^story
Bro juss go n watch blue fim, truss me!!(no oofenese)

Kikikikikiki

Pumpum is back

Ithream:


Lols, she probably must have talked about knowing him more via a date and as a man he suggested a date.

Are u by any chance saying d gal asked to know him better and so derrfor she suggested going out on a date? or guy man na e initiate going out on a date by himself

According to my own little understanding, na man dey initiate date,so the lady either accept or even turn down the offer, infact most of ds gals nowadays will only leave their various homes for dates where they’re certain they’ll be taken care of or meeting someone they’re really into unlike some weirdo outings

TheGenius001:
Straight to the point!

So I returned home just the other day. There is this girl in my street, Preety as she could be. I liked her and I sense she felt the same way and was already fond of me. How I confirmed this?? Due to my work schedule I am mostly at home in the evening so we met on one evening. The next time we met again was in the evening after some days, so she started telling me about my hair style the last time we met and the new one, physic and all that . I quickly chipped in that how could she have seen all of that in the dark?? She looked at me like a fool. Lols. Because obviously it was dark when we met. We could only recognized each other because we both stay in that Area for some years now.


Ok after everything, she was so eager about going out with me and knowing me more since I am barely available and so I told her about going for a date and we agreed on the day (Mostly on chat). Jokingly I told her the money will be split by half but she was like "No, as a gentlman, I have to pay for both" I said no wahala. We were still chatting like normal until at a point she takes time to reply me and this was just 2days b4 the date. I read people faster than they think, so I just stopped sending her message except for the last one to see if this is how a girl I want to go on a date with will feel too important even on my own money. After that night with no reply until the next morning, I simply replied her message that the date is cancelled and I that I am going to be busy with work on that day.

Honestly why should you feel important when I am the one spending my hard earned money? Since that day, I lost interest in her completely even as she pretty as she is.

If you're a girl, if you like be as beautiful as mermaid, immediately you start forming whatever it is to me, you have killed that feelings already. And I am sure I am not the only one on this one. I have a good sense of importance especially when dealing with a lady because I know too well that my money is at stake and you have absolutely nothing to add to my life than fun. So why make see you as important to me? You can be important to yourself but not me.

Anyways, my people what do you think about my action?

Modified: She instigated this date of thing and it's one of the reasons I felt she was fond of me already. I was in already but you see that hard to get mentality and feeling too important, it's just a turn off for me.

You too much bro

superCleanworks:
come back in 4 years to read this thing you wrote and you will see how immature it is.
for now, there is nothing anyone will tell you that you will understand.

In that four years to come you will see that this your comments show that you're desperate for pussy and you can act as a fool to get it

You do action finish,you come dey ask how is your action
Wahala

Who suggested the date? You
She force you? No
Because you no wan spend your hard earned money with full chest you look for excuse dodge date. You no know say your money be hard earned before?

All this guy's sef, any small thing my hard earned money Na Wetin dem go dey sing. Abegi

Pele o

Qatar2022:

In that four years to come you will see that this your comments show that you're desperate for pussy and you can act as a fool to get it

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Ey yahhhh!