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Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by 9jayes: 11:08am On Feb 02, 2022 |
damosade: |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by olisaEze(m): 11:09am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Your sister no fit make jamb after 2sittings and has resigned herself to lower standards because she thinks she can’t do better. From the way u mentioned ur dad and religion, I can guess that he doesn’t really speak often with his girls except when he has instructions to dish out. Well he’s the only one that can make her understand that she’s about to carry her life handicap on bet9ja, so get him to really speak with her. Werey is talking of supporting her sister’s decision, you better get ready to do more than support abi u go dey smile while ur sister and her pikin dey suffer?? Oh don’t get me wrong, she won’t suffer because he’s an artisan, she’ll suffer because she came cheap! 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by KingAzubuike(f): 11:12am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Eeyah, she's obviously one of those who believed in "drink salt and water after a guy releases inside you". Unfortunately, it failed her coz I see no reason why a girl would be comfortable and do nothing after a guys pour sperm inside you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Mathiasa(m): 11:14am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Abotion is a no no for me, but she should not go into marriage now, your father will eventually forgive her but not if she's married. She should keep the child. |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by FuckDModz: 11:15am On Feb 02, 2022 |
when she dey fork, you didn't invite her as a guest to advise her. Come on Gedifok!
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Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by tit(f): 11:15am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Happy marriage life |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Bouncin(m): 11:16am On Feb 02, 2022 |
The worst people to advise are women in love. The younger the worse. E go still clear for her eyes 4 Likes |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by CXLVII: 11:17am On Feb 02, 2022 |
For a Christian? So Christians indulge in pre-marital sex! Y’all are Sango worshippers worshipping Christian. Got pregnant for a Christian? lol 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Karleb(m): 11:17am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Your sister has chosen hardship. Let her experience it fully! Dem no dey tell person wey dey sell salt say rain dey fall. As for your Dad. Being a parent isn't all about paying fees, there is more to that. |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by CountVersailles(f): 11:17am On Feb 02, 2022 |
It's really sad what has happened to your sister. But firstly I put the fault at the door of your father. He didn't make the right decisions. I'm sure he's one of those people who think being strict with his children is the best way to raise them. I'm sure his eyes don clear now. He needs to grow up and start taking the right decisions starting with welcoming your sister back and offering her a good support system. Your sister on the other hand needs to pick herself back up. It's not going to be easy, but the earlier the better. She's still young at 21 and this is the time to do it. By the time she's 30 and she hasn't achieved much, she'll look back and regret not making healthy decisions. At this stage it won't even matter whether she's married to the guy, enjoying a blissful marriage or not, or raising a child. Nothing would matter. Time would be far too gone by 30 and picking herself up at that time will not be an easy thing. There have been multiple cases like this and most of it ended up bad. It'll be incredibly surprising if she turns out to be an exception. That won't happen. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by sageb: 11:18am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Beblessedbaba: Succinctly said Good advice |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Toktee(m): 11:21am On Feb 02, 2022 |
ZALA64:Ask yoyu father what if it's the son that impregnated a Christian girl? All this Yoruba Muslims with northern mentality. If a Muslim give a Christian girl pregnant, may Allah be praise but the reverse is the case. This religion a problem to our society. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Promise47(m): 11:21am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Nigeria girls na only to dy carry belle them Sabi look at there mata playing football even basketball ball and tennis na only to born born them Sabi God I beg I need to go USA I done tire for this country |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Alphafeezay(m): 11:21am On Feb 02, 2022 |
I really hope she reads this. I also really hope someone who passed through same situation and she's better off today can share her experience. Now, my advice is this, let her know the deep shit she has put herself considering the guy's mother, the family, and the present status of the guy., now is she really ready to settle with the guy and such family?. Also, she needs to start life afresh, get her a new location, or city away from the guy on agreed terms. She will need a skill to start earning money for herself, she can get this if you push this story far on social media. As for your dad, Congratulations to him on being a granddad |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Nobody: 11:22am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Who was giving her money to do A levels? Your dad? Put yourself for your daddy shoes. He was spending money so that his daughter will be something in life but she want to use her hand to strangulate her own destiny She has been brainwashed by all this social media and artiste life that gamorizes "baby-mamaism" . No real thinking man will have anything serious to do with a single mother aside using her for sex. Leave am she is an adult, she know what she is getting herself into but na advice we go just advice. Body go later tell am 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by dammyco(m): 11:22am On Feb 02, 2022 |
E don happen. |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by do4luv14(m): 11:24am On Feb 02, 2022 |
ZALA64: Before I give my Advice, what had the guy, said so far concerning the pregnancy, Is he in support of it, does he own up, and does he support keeping it, secondly, if you truly saw that the guys family is kinda fetish, how did sure are you, is the guy the first, or what position is he in his family, Answer, and be prepare for my Advice, thanks |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Nobody: 11:26am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Yes,we all have different problem and if we are to bring our problem on a table for exchange, we might end up going back with ours including you going back with yours.... This is actually a challenge dear, and its part of your destiny which we all no that it wont be an easy one..... I love your courage and persistence, am very sure you ll find your light at the end of this tunnel. Let your mind lead you, it has a destination for you. See you at the top someday. |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Icyversed: 11:28am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Selena is real.dont mistake my word for any.you said the family are into diabolical means.go do before e go late.spirituality is real.heed less you fall. |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by snoopz: 11:29am On Feb 02, 2022 |
A child at 21 don dey collect dick under her parent house?? BTW what was her papa and mama doing that they can't properly guide a girl at that age to the extent of getting pregnant ( obviously not the first time she is having sex, just that the last knacking change am for them)... If you people taught her well and she didn't listen, well she is on the part to destruction because a child at that age with little or no support at all can scatter both the child and the mother's future... Try and let her see the reason a child now is not the way forward and see a certified doctor probably in a govt hospital to avoid stories if she understands she doesn't need a child distraction now, and if she wants to keep the child, you guys are in for a treat 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by kkins25(m): 11:30am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Everybody is ignoring the fact that the father has disowned his daughter because islams laws have been broken. He'd rather see his daughter die than become a father to a girl whom is fvking an infidel. as for the girl, she is not wanted on both fronts. I don't know how resourceful she can be but the best option is to abort. Unless her uncle is going to support her, if not she better gear up for HELL on earth. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by TOPCRUISE(m): 11:30am On Feb 02, 2022 |
After hearing about Sammy okposo and Sapele Pastor its now the turn of another christian brother. What is wrong with our Christian brothers this days. That pastor declare that you should be fruitful does not mean you should should be dashing the ladies the fruit of the womb. |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by hikiki(m): 11:30am On Feb 02, 2022 |
If una allow her have her way..she go suffer Wella. If u see her in 1year time u will Shed tears for her. Give ur dad little time,he will be calm,is noraml for that kind of reaction. |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by kkins25(m): 11:30am On Feb 02, 2022 |
snoopz:Don't boys do it. getat |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by chii8(f): 11:32am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Please, the guy is not a Christain.... Christains don't steal someone's child, impregnate them without paying bride price. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Nobody: 11:34am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Well.. read the comments and they are all the same...blame game..na who dem catch be the thief.. on my own part.... Mistakes been made, what's the next step? Your dad also made a mistake too... Let ur dad first of all accept his daughter back,den let him ask the girl what she wants to do now that the mistake has been done,after hearing from her, let him invite the boy and in the whole family (including the boy's family) let them all be calm and pretend nothing happened and let the boy say his mind.. if they truly wish to marry,ur dad can start up something for the boy,bring the two closer to himself and let the two start their family.. u don't know the head that will be king tomorrow or even the king maker.. if the boy doesn't want to marry the daughter, fine..take her in and show her love with the child,the child didn't offend anybody... start something for the girl and let her take care of the child.... Religion shouldn't be what defines a man or a woman, but the content of our hearts.. our characters, I'm a Christian doesn't mean I should be bad or good... I am me.... so put religion aside and let peace reign... my lawyer is a single mother, got pregnant for an igbo guy,the guy refused marrying her and she's taking care of her son..the family didn't reject her..... These are all I have to give Thank you..... PROUDLY ANAMBARIAN 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by kkins25(m): 11:34am On Feb 02, 2022 |
NewSoul:LOL. you mean no man with your below average-level faculty of thinking abi? i know sensuble ones that took their daughters in. Infact, one was so mad that the daughter kept it hidden from them whilst she was at school. Today, she doing okay. As long as the parents support her and continue to guide her, she turn up fine. 21 century for ffs. |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by Dcoy: 11:36am On Feb 02, 2022 |
If I was your dad, I will tell my brother to send her to the boy responsible for the pregnancy or his family, make she quickly start experiencing reality from now, Why is he forming support when she should be enjoying the life she has choosen... 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by michigang: 11:36am On Feb 02, 2022 |
Gerrard59:recommend a quality condom for me |
Re: My Sister Got Pregnant At 21 And My Dad Is Not Taking It Lightly by kkins25(m): 11:38am On Feb 02, 2022 |
chii8:When King David was enjoying himself watching live porn, i.e bathseba swinging her assss from left to right in bathroom and would letter go on to indulge his lust, God no disown am. Who are you? Infact God dey use am boast self. remember say na only David get heart like God. |
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