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Your wife is not just brilliant but also smart. What are she said is the right thing. How do you expect her to cope with motherhood and study at the same time, especially in a new environment that you haven't known how to maneuver around? How do you expect a toddler to have the best care from relatives when the mother is still even alive?

Let her be! Don't have a baby now because the kid will surely need the mother's breast milk for more than a year and that will help him develop in all aspect.

Focus on how to get more money and the preparations for your journey.

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thanks for the advice