Never get upset when you hear about your partner‘s past. What matters is now.

You are together now. This is what counts. Now that he‘s met you. Never let his/her past repeat again.

Help them build a better now which translate into future. Hallelujah.

very good point

Mercisharelove:
Never get upset when you hear about your partner‘s past. What matters is now.

You are together now. This is what counts. Now that he‘s met you. Never let his/her past repeat again.

Help them build a better now which translate into future. Hallelujah.

Easier said than done...if the lady confesses that she has been pounded by the guys father in the past will the guy continue with the lady? If the guy confesses that he has screwed two of her sisters already and aborted for both of them will she continue with the guy? We must realize that the past is very potent and can be more potent that future. Be careful what you do in the present that will make your past permanently present! Nevertheless it is important for intending couples to disclose their assets and liabilities, and agree to live with them and support each other before saying "I do", so that they don't eventually start saying "had I known"!

Mercisharelove:
Never get upset when you hear about your partner‘s past. What matters is now.

You are together now. This is what counts. Now that he‘s met you. Never let his/her past repeat again.

Help them build a better now which translate into future. Hallelujah.

History repeats itself! Future events can be predicted from past events... This is a Fact.

Let me ask you this, would you get upset if your guy reveals to you that he was gay and slept around with politicians and many other men... But he has changed and you should help him build a better now, would you forget this gay past?

Answer this question to yourself.

It's important to know about ur partner's past, to avoid stories that touch in the future

The moment a lady starts telling u her past is not important just know she's a retired farm tool

efficiencie:


Easier said than done...if the lady confesses that she has been pounded by the guys father in the past will the guy continue with the lady? If the guy confesses that he has screwed two of her sisters already and aborted for both of them will she continue with the guy? We must realize that the past is very potent and can be more potent that future. Be careful what you do in the present that will make your past permanently present! Nevertheless it is important for intending couples to disclose their assets and liabilities, and agree to live with them and support each other before saying "I do", so that they don't eventually start saying "had I known"!

What about you, ladies ladies, what about you, don't you have a story to tell??

dhameelare:
It's important to know about ur partner's past, to avoid stories that touch in the future

The moment a lady starts telling u her past is not important just know she's a retired farm tool

If you are not ready for marriage it's over, you have to be ready

Works

Mercisharelove:


What about you, ladies ladies, what about you, don't you have a story to tell??

This is proof that you just want Women to be Absolved of all the shit they did in their past.

Reason you ask "what about guys"

Mercisharelove:
Never get upset when you hear about your partner‘s past. What matters is now.

You are together now. This is what counts. Now that he‘s met you. Never let his/her past repeat again.

Help them build a better now which translate into future. Hallelujah.

What if my Partner was a PROSTITUTE in the past? What if she has had sex with over 300 men and now her vagina is as deep as a black hole?.

The past is NOT the past! This is just nonsense you women sell to FOOLISH men who will sit down,listen to your bullshit and act accordingly.

But unfortunately for you, majority of the men here in Nairaland don't reason with their Sexual organs,we have working brains for a reason.

B

Mercisharelove:
Never get upset when you hear about your partner‘s past. What matters is now.

You are together now. This is what counts. Now that he‘s met you. Never let his/her past repeat again.

Help them build a better now which translate into future. Hallelujah.

For how long will you be trying to build that which doesn't wanna be built..


For me if it doesn't work let it be...

Divorce is not a sin/crime...

Candidlady:



For how long will you be trying to build that which doesn't wanna be built..


For me if it doesn't work let it be...

Divorce is not a sin/crime...

Divorce is error said the ROYAL SWORD!

For HE THAT made them from the beginning made them male and female. HE made them ONE flesh and not two, but one!

It's a big error, fat sin. Contradiction of the truth.

Matthew 19:3 The Pharisees also came unto him, TEMPTING HIM, JESUS, THE ROYAL SWORD, and saying unto HIM, Is it lawful for a man to PUT AWAY his wife for EVERY CAUSE?


He said in reply, "Have you not read that from the beginning the CREATOR made them male and female and said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his WIFE, and the two shall become ONE flesh? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. separate.” The Gospel of the Lord. Mathew 19:4

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Mercisharelove:


Divorce is error said the ROYAL SWORD!

For HE THAT made them from the beginning made them male and female. HE made them ONE flesh and not two, but one!

It's a big error, fat sin. Contradiction of the truth.

Matthew 19:3 The Pharisees also came unto him, TEMPTING HIM, JESUS, THE ROYAL SWORD, and saying unto HIM, Is it lawful for a man to PUT AWAY his wife for EVERY CAUSE?


He said in reply, "Have you not read that from the beginning the Creator made them male and female and said, For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. separate.” The Gospel of the Lord. Mathew 19:4

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Even your God would divorce anyone who ain't abiding by his rules...

He beats me and treats me like trash I should still stick with him ba??

Divorce again is not a sin/crime

If the Union ain't working please forge ahead.....


:::sorry Ihad to cancel your post::::

Mercisharelove:


What about you, ladies ladies, what about you, don't you have a story to tell??

Lol. Yes, we all have stories to tell but some stories are gorier and dirtier than others. Before I get emotionally attached in any marriage bound relationship I declare my liabilities (assets are easy to notice). This is so that the lady knows what she is going up against and also so she can evaluate by herself if she can help me or not. I am not a saint but I understood very early in life that "what you sow is what you reap", "no deed goes unrewarded here on earth" and "we all pay the price, some earlier and some later in life". This is why I strongly advocate that both ladies and guys should be careful what they do today if they know they cannot confess it tomorrow because whether they like it or not "their sins will find them out". What now matters is how grave and serious those sins are and how prepared the spouse/fiance is to support their partner with the liabilities.

I know you think I am biased against ladies but this is just the reality of things!

i guess retired olosho trying to advise men not act when they notice their wife was an ex prostitute.

Talking about your past experiences doesn't make you feel weak, it shows how strong you have become to relay the truth about yourself, it makes you a better version of yourself.

You made bad decisions, you learnt from it.

Not talking about it with your spouse isn't a good thing to do because unspoken past always come out to haunt you one way or the other, it destroys whatever future strength you think you've acquired.



Be on a safe side by talking about it, be open. If he/she want you, they stayed back or leave at the end of the story.

Candidlady:
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Even your God would divorce anyone who ain't abiding by his rules...

He beats me and treats me like trash I should still stick with him ba??

Divorce again is not a sin/crime

If the Union ain't working please forge ahead.....


:::sorry Ihad to cancel your post::::

Before marriage there was a meeting point, do you just jump on marriage without proper considerations?? What kind of kids are using the golden brain given to men, is it after marriage you will realise who you married.


Wake up, it's too late, you just read what the ROYAL SWORD said, you can't beat the LORD, you must bow and your lying tongue must confess that it's true.


You better RECEIVE the LORD CHRIST now

Totiemide:
Talking about your past experiences doesn't make you feel weak, it shows how strong you have become to relay the truth about yourself, it makes you a better version of yourself.

You made bad decisions, you learnt from it.

Not talking about it with your spouse isn't a good thing to do because unspoken past always come out to haunt you one way or the other, it destroys whatever future strength you think you've acquired.



Be on a safe side by talking about it, be open. If he/she want you, they stayed back or leave at the end of the story.

Great soul.

They don't realise what bondages means

efficiencie:


Lol. Yes, we all have stories to tell but some stories are gorier and dirtier than others. Before I get emotionally attached in any marriage bound relationship I declare my liabilities (assets are easy to notice). This is so that the lady knows what she is going up against and also so she can evaluate by herself if she can help me or not. I am not a saint but I understood very early in life that "what you sow is what you reap", "no deed goes unrewarded here on earth" and "we all pay the price, some earlier and some later in life". This is why I strongly advocate that both ladies and guys should be careful what they do today if they know they cannot confess it tomorrow because whether they like it or not "their sins will find them out". What now matters is how grave and serious those sins are and how prepared the spouse/fiance is to support their partner with the liabilities.

I know you think I am biased against ladies but this is just the reality of things!

You sound very WEAK

Sound like a trump

odinson1:


What if my Partner was a PROSTITUTE in the past? What if she has had sex with over 300 men and now her vagina is as deep as a black hole?.

The past is NOT the past! This is just nonsense you women sell to FOOLISH men who will sit down,listen to your bullshit and act accordingly.

But unfortunately for you, majority of the men here in Nairaland don't reason with their Sexual organs,we have working brains for a reason.

Well said Odinson1. Past is past is a very useless thing to say in this scenario. A very big excuse they like to use after they've hoed around and experience what the so-called "hoe-phase" had to offer. Why is it usually women that say things like this?

Server88:

Well said Odinson1. Past is past is a very useless thing to say in this scenario. A very big excuse they like to use after they've hoed around and experience what the so-called "hoe-phase" had to offer. Why is it usually women that say things like this?

Who mates with women? Men of course,

So if men like you spoiled the female who allowed themselves to be manipulated by your so called fantasy... Why blame them??

Mercisharelove:


Who mates with women? Men of course,

So if men like you spoiled the female who allowed themselves to be manipulated by your so called fantasy... Why blame them??

Men like me spoil and manipulate females? No, we don't. Men are just as much to blame for why the world's a mess, women ensure it remains a mess. We live in a vicious cycle where men and women alike are to blame for our disoriented society.
You said who sleep with women? Mostly men, however, those women allowed them to. Women who took the easy way to earn money by resorting to prostitution (both explicit and Coded) and those exploring their hoe phase. Their actions makes it so sex remains cheap enough to ensure social chaos continues.
As for being manipulated, women are better manipulators. You asked why blame them? I don't. I don't blame them but I don't subscribe to sweeping a shady/promiscuous past under the rug especially not with the phrase "Past is Past".

Server88:

Men like me spoil and manipulate females? No, we don't. Men are just as much to blame for why the world's a mess, women ensure it remains a mess. We live in a vicious cycle where men and women alike are to blame for our disoriented society.
You said who sleep with women? Mostly men, however, those women allowed them to. Women who took the easy way to earn money by resorting to prostitution (both explicit and Coded) and those exploring their hoe phase. Their actions makes it so sex remains cheap enough to ensure social chaos continues.
As for being manipulated, women are better manipulators. You asked why blame them? I don't. I don't blame them but I don't subscribe to sweeping a shady/promiscuous past under the rug especially not with the phrase "Past is Past".

Then read my post again but this time with open brain.

Wish you understanding and clarity and then good judgement. All the best

Mercisharelove:


Then read my post again but this time with open brain.

Wish you understanding and clarity and then good judgement. All the best

You clearly didn't understand what you wrote. You shared an unambiguous opinion which subtly translated into "Past is Past". My reply was to @Odinson1 who called it out directly, then you replied me with some flimsy statement saying "Men like me spoil women into fulfilling their male fantasies". When I read the opening sentence, "Men like me..." I realised I was speaking to someone with a low level of reasoning. However, I gave you the benefit of doubt and replied as civil and unbiased as I could. But no, you just had to betray your asinine thought process with more derogatory remarks.
Next time proof read what you write before you display the height of your invicility when having a discussion.

Server88:

You clearly didn't understand what you wrote. You shared an unambiguous opinion which subtly translated into "Past is Past". My reply was to @Odinson1 who called it out directly, then you replied me with some flimsy statement saying "Men like me spoil women into fulfilling their male fantasies". When I read the opening sentence, "Men like me..." I realised I was speaking to someone with a low level of reasoning. However, I gave you the benefit of doubt and replied as civil and unbiased as I could. But no, you just had to betray your asinine thought process with more derogatory remarks.
Next time proof read what you write before you display the height of your invicility when having a discussion.

Comprehensive eludes you clearly, you can talk very well, but apprehending the subject matter is a tall task force.

Out of the box

The problem is the helping your partner part, most people want their partner to change but they don’t want to help, all young people do these days is either get blinded by lust and claim to love the person with their past and flaws and all, or they’ll just abandon ship.

Randommikey:
The problem is the helping your partner part, most people want their partner to change but they don’t want to help, all young people do these days is either get blinded by lust and claim to love the person with their past and flaws and all, or they’ll just abandon ship.

Sincerity coun

Then there is a documented

Mercisharelove:


What about you, ladies ladies, what about you, don't you have a story to tell??

The reason for this nonsense thread is now clear. You are even more fuulish than I had thought. Keep living in denial and continue waiting for the man that will not do investigation on your dirty past until menopause do us all a favor by taking an old hen off the market. Mtchew

Nonexisting:
The reason for this nonsense thread is now clear. You are even more fuulish than I had thought. Keep living in denial and continue waiting for the man that will not do investigation on your dirty past until menopause do us all a favor by taking an old hen off the market. Mtchew

Who's this thing, wow, you should be living in the hoe, hoeleeela


Wake up, your grandparents are under the river